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29 M Saint Louis, MO

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:34pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Small town kid with a big city brain. Constant victim of my own foot-in-mouth disease. Distributor of the hoariest, cheesiest puns WITHOUT EVEN REALIZING IT. Vacillating between being a social butterfly and total recluse. Generally well-liked man about town.
What I’m doing with my life
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Freelance film/TV worker, so I've got pretty good stories "from the office." I met Sheryl Lee (otherwise known as Laura Palmer from Twin Peaks) working on a movie once. I lit her cigarette. I died.

I have a voracious appetite for movies and music. My brain plays like an encyclopedic index of all the stuff I've seen, heard, and read.

I work on stuff that involves cameras and lights.
I play music,
I play records.
I drink booze.
I like friends.
I like fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Parenthetical asides.
Six dollar words.
Swoon worthy vocal skills.
Livin' it up, never givin' a fuck.
I got this mac 'n cheese recipe that's like, whoa.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The hair. Always the hair. Big shock of Conan O'Brien/David Caruso-esque orange atop my dome.

Also I've been told that I need to get my dimples insured.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have adventurous tastes that commonly involve trawling the outer limits and lower depths, making little distinction between high-brow and low-brow. I like weird stuff; I like fun stuff; and most of all I like weird, fun stuff. I like the stuff that hits sweet spot between being either "the smartest dumb _______" or "the dumbest smart _________". The key is to not take yourself too seriously.

Movies: The best movie I've seen in a long time was a documentary/essay film called Los Angeles Plays Itself (I won't get into it here, but google it, because it's pretty great). Faves: Blue Velvet, Cruising, RoboCop, Blow Out, Phantom of the Paradise, Badlands, Barton Fink, Breaking the Waves, House, Hiroshima mon amour, The Road Warrior, The Bitter Tears of Petra von Kant, Paris, Texas, Videodrome. Fave directors: Argento, Coen Brothers, Cronenberg, von Trier, Svankmajer, De Palma, Herzog, Fassbinder, Lynch. Lastly, maybe it's just nostalgia, or I'm just a sucker for well executed fundamentals, but all those Marvel movies manage to worm their way right past my critical defenses and into my dumb heart.

Music: Roxy Music, Sparks, Sweet (if it's dumb glam or mindless power pop, I'm pretty into it), Fielded (cannot stop listening to her latest EP. I don't understand how she isn't the biggest thing in the world. Exhibit A:, Thin Lizzy, Fear, Giorgio Moroder, Can, Kraftwerk, Tangerine Dream (and virtually anything else in the vein of "Krautrock") Moog collections, wave (be it new/cold/dark/minimal), grimy punk and hardcore, deep soul, indulgent psych, acid casualties (oh, man, do I love me some Syd Barrett, Roky Erickson, Skip Spence, and Love), sweet dual guitar solos, bubblegum pop and harsh noise and everywhere in between. Oh, and Jim Steinman is my fucking hero.

Books: I gravitate towards short stories and crime fiction. American Tabloid by James Ellroy is a whole lotta fun. The Friends of Eddie Coyle by George V. Higgins. I finished a short story collection by George Singleton called Between Wrecks that was pretty great. Graham Greene, Raymond Carver, Flannery O'Connor, Cormac McCarthy. blah blah blah

TV: True Detective was amazing. Game of Thrones is a lot of fun. The Wire is great. I loves me some Mad Men. Honestly, I think the best stuff on TV right now is aimed at "kids": Adventure Time pulls off some of the most dizzying emotional complexities in ANY show and within an 11 minute format. Avatar: The Last Airbender and The Legend of Korra are Joseph Campbell "hero's journey" stories at their finest.

I also eat food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How vomiting scenes in movies never look realistic.
Which snippets of casual conversations would make fitting epitaphs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most likely, I'll either be seeing live music, going (or staying in) to watch a movie or out and about grabbing a drink with friends.
You should message me if
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You think itineraries are the death of fun.
You have an adventurous taste for... well anything, be it food, film, or music.
You like the idea of hanging out late night on the Illinois side of the riverfront (probably while drinking).