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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:21pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Queer-positive/sex-positive, GGG black male (with cat) in search of a ride or die best friend who might potentially become someone special. In a relationship with the most excellent troro. Will cook southern food to gain your attention/affection.

I'm Charles and I'm looking for someone to enjoy old Portishead albums and make out with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer--my day job involves making the story more good in video games. The goodest, even.

The work I do will hopefully bend the arc of game story towards inclusiveness, feminism, and social justice (you know, within the context of big budget blockbusters).

You probably won't find too many pictures of me hiking or biking. Maybe you could help me change that.

Oh, an on occasion, I complain about movies and books on the Internet at a site I co-founded:

I'm pretty good at all of the above, by the way and some of my work has won awards.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making playlists. Making dinner. Making friends. Making time. Making out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A twinge of a southern accent. And my red Chucks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I was raised on pulp: Learned to love art.


The Hunter/The Mourner
The New Frontier
John Dies At the End
100 Years Of Solitude
The Deptford Trilogy
Stranger in a Strange Land
The Adventures of Kavalier and Clay


Auntie Mame
Attack the Block
An American Werewolf In London
Dancer In the Dark
Repo Man
The Dinner Game
The Ring
Love Me If You Dare


Aphex Twin
Atari Teenage Riot
Crystal Castles
Kanye West
Janelle Monae
The Outkast
DJ Krush
Marvin Gaye
Bad Religion


I'm adventurous on this front, just can't stand cilantro.


Fallout 3
Tekken 5
Wipeout XL/Wipeout 3
Red Dead Redemption
Batman: Arkham Asylum
Resident Evil 1-4
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A pan and a spatula.

A book to read.

City sounds.

At least 100 songs.

At least one day of rain.

Peanut butter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Books. Film. Television. Games. Making all of those just a little more colorful and less straight white dude-centric. I was interviewed about it once:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In or out. With friends or head buried in a book. Let's keep it variable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sing out loud to Dramarama's "Anything, Anything" any chance I get. And I hate-read both "Atlas Shrugged" and "Battlefield Earth" during college.
You should message me if
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If you're interesting and feeling interested. Wait, no, that's dumb.

Second try:

- If you're excellent to yourself and others.

- If you've ever pronounced it "wrasslin'"

- If your corpse paint is on point

- If you're equally excited about about a book/movie/show/song and want to share it with me

- If you want to cook and watch movies together

- If you're looking to fall in love or at least the deepest of like