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32 F Flushing, NY

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Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes cats
English, Greek, Spanish

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My self-summary
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*** Please note: A) As indicated by my username, writing comes naturally to me, so by all means, feel free to skim. But if you fancy me so far, do read the last section, as I find it key. 2) I don't check my inbox here daily (am not in smartphone land either), so don't scare away so easily. D) On here, I tend to read your last section first, and if you only have one or two photos, will Google Image you, since chances are it's of a gorgeous international model or celebrity. In the words of Dr. Maya Angelou, "When you know better, you do better." And experience has taught me both. (If you know where this brilliant "A, 2, D" sequencing originated without heading to Google, sweet! Chances are you're fun too.) Thanks for visiting, and Happy Dating!

That noted, hi, I'm Alexandra/Alex. Native New Yorker. Greek American without Windex at the ready. People lover. Social butterfly. Avid learner. Word nerd. Music addict. Night owl...

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I'm often told I have a way of making sheer strangers immediately feel like friends, as though we've known each other for years. I'm often told I have a way of making sheer strangers immediately feel like friends, as though we've known each other for years. People are my passion, and I never fake it. I'm genuinely curious, playful, polite, but not prissy. Nor, despite the prevalent pink of my pics here, a girly girl. I thrive on witty, lighthearted banter, and, yep, take it as well as I give it. Call me feisty, frisky... If you throw a wisecrack in my direction, I promise to throw one right back! You're very welcome. =)~ I appreciate all kinds of humor, comfortably hold my own with the guys, and openly discuss topics most deem taboo. (I believe it's all in the "how.")

When I was little, my dad had advised, "As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, follow your heart. And always respect everyone." No matter the situation, I'm all about respect, and greatly value sincerity, humor, optimism, intelligence, smart self-expression, time-tested friendships, family, new experiences.

A social butterfly, I'll go wherever the fun seems to be, and truly can find a smile in anything or anywhere... Performing arts. My musician buddies' gigs. Broadway musicals. Comedy. Dancin' till the break of dawn. Watching the sunrise after a great night out. Introspective walks on the beach. Freshly fallen snow as it blankets the ground. Beautiful and funky works of art. Driving. Biking. Swimming. Dinner catch-ups with friends. Intercontinental phone chats with family. Exploring lands of sun, sea, and true living. Foreign languages. Accents. Self-expression, in all its forms. Bear hugs. Cuddling. Overall good men who know how to appreciate good women who know how to appreciate good men... These are a few of my favorite things.

Above all, I live by my heart and gut, not by the rule books. This has made for many an interesting/hilarious/outrageous story, and I'm here for more...

"Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important."
~ Carl Reiner
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
having a blast working with children, and forever exploring -- the world, people, myself... you?

"All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make, the better."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
The first things people usually notice about me
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Approachable. Articulate. Affectionate. Adventurous. Authentic.

And to directly quote some of the guys with whom I've connected from here, both virtually and in person: "You're so easy to talk to... I like how assertive you are... You seem very solid, and real... You have such youthful energy... You could be iCarly's twin!... Whoa, have we really been chatting here [at a lounge, on a first date] for six hours?! Awesome... You are a gem."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Overall, they're those with which I relate, wonder, laugh, hope, reminisce, dance, smile, am stimulated and grateful.

As for the tunes specifically, this guy said it best:

"Without music, life would be a mistake."
~ Friedrich Nietzsche
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
or rather, those I would never *want* to do without: hugs, loved ones, laughter, curiosity, music, and, dare I admit it -- your wonderful male species.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to possibilities.

"A mind is like a parachute. It doesn't work if it's not open."
~ Frank Zappa
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
for starters, you're legit, and so's your "if."

Confidence and wit are must-haves. Soft spot for multilingual charmers, fellow music addicts, former military men, great hair I can run my hands through, honey-sweet smiles. I'm all about the smiles.

Also, I'm not afraid to **** or ***** you here. It means I find you visually and verbally enticing, and challenge you to the first hello! I hope you're man enough to take it. And to paraphrase one of the wisest songs in music history, "I don't want I don't need I can't stand no weak, one-liner man..."

But you already know that substance and creativity rule, right?! :)