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31 F Flushing, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes cats
English, Greek, Spanish

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My self-summary
Please note: I don't check my inbox here daily, so don't scare away so easily. If you're genuinely interested in connecting, potentially in person, let it be known. Stand out from the trite majority and be engaging, as I promise the same in return. Thanks for visiting, and Happy Dating!

Hi, I'm Alexandra/Alex. Native New Yorker. Greek American without Windex at the ready. People lover. Social butterfly. Avid learner. Word nerd. Music addict. Night owl...

I'm often told I have a way of making sheer strangers immediately feel like friends, as though we've known each other for years. People are my passion, and I never fake it. I'm genuinely curious, playful, polite, but not prissy. Nor a girly girl. Call me feisty, frisky... If you throw a wisecrack in my direction, I promise to throw one right back! You're very welcome. =)~ I appreciate all kinds of humor, hold my own with the guys, and comfortably discuss topics most deem taboo. (I believe it's all in the "how.")

A social butterfly, I'll go wherever the fun seems to be, and truly can find a smile in anything or anywhere... Performing arts. My musician buddies' gigs. Broadway musicals. Comedy. Dancin' till the break of dawn. Watching the sunrise after a great night out. Introspective walks on the beach. Freshly fallen snow as it blankets the ground. Beautiful and funky works of art. Driving. Biking. Swimming. Dinner catch-ups with friends. Intercontinental phone chats with family. Exploring lands of sun, sea, and true living. Foreign languages. Accents. Self-expression, in all its forms. Bear hugs. Cuddling. Overall good men who know how to appreciate good women who know how to appreciate good men... These are a few of my favorite things.

No matter the situation, I'm all about respect, and greatly value sincerity, humor, optimism, intelligence, smart self-expression, time-tested friendships, family, new experiences. Undeniably open-minded and young at heart, my favorite word is "perspective," and my mottos, twofold: "If you don't ask, the answer is always no," and, "Night's young, I'm gonna have fun."

I'm on the lookout for guys with good vibes, good values, and looks to match: the ultimate trifecta, as I see it. Soft spot for multilingual charmers, fellow music addicts, former military men, great hair I can run my hands through, honey-sweet smiles.

"Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important."
~ Carl Reiner
What I’m doing with my life
currently having a blast being a big kid working with children,


exploring -- the world, people, myself... you?

"All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make, the better."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
The first things people usually notice about me
To directly quote some of the guys with whom I've connected from here, both virtually and in person: "You're so easy to talk to... I like how assertive you are... You seem very solid, and real... You have such youthful energy... You could be iCarly's twin!... Whoa, have we really been chatting here [at a lounge, on a first date] for six hours?!"
The six things I could never do without
or rather, those I would never *want* to do without: hugs, loved ones, laughter, curiosity, music, and, dare I admit it -- your wonderful male species.
On a typical Friday night I am
open to possibilities.

"A mind is like a parachute. It doesn't work if it's not open."
~ Frank Zappa
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Though I've checked off both ends of the dating spectrum below, I'm not one for rushing relationships. I don't want a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, nor do I seek a one-night stand. I'm using this site as one way of exploring new and fun experiences with the Big Apple's sweetest crops.

The rest remains to be seen.

But kindly don't write me referencing this.

And if you're judging me by this statement, that's okay. It simply means our dating perspectives are different, I'm too modern woman for you, and we likely wouldn't mesh well.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
for starters, you're legit, and so's your "if."


You'll know. (Hint: Count the number of asterisks.)