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32 F Flushing, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes cats
English, Greek, Spanish

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first. Before making any moves (::smiles::), please note the following. Also, I don't check my inbox here daily, so don't scare away so easily. Thanks for visiting, and Happy Fishing!

Though I've checked off both ends of the dating spectrum here, I'm not one for rushing what doesn't feel right. I don't want a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, nor do I seek a one-night stand. I'm using this site as one way of exploring new and fun experiences with the Big Apple's sweetest crops. (One of my greatest adventures with a man began with an unprecedented, very unexpected, amazing 36-hour date, which led to something quite real.)

The rest remains to be seen.

But kindly don't write me referencing this. It'll only decrease your chances. Yes, really. :)

And if you're judging me by this statement, that's okay. It simply means our dating perspectives are different, I'm too modern woman for you, and we likely wouldn't mesh well.

What's that? You're smiling and still here? Sweet. Keep skimming...

This one time, in Midtown, after a really amazing night reconnecting with friends over yummy Japanese and hilarious karaoke, I had a giggle fit in my sleep, and laughed myself awake... (That's better than a drooler, right?!)

Hi, I'm Alexandra/Alex...

More Self-knowing |--------------------------------
More Heartfelt |-------------------------------------
More Expressive |-----------------------------------
|----------------------------------- Less Inhibited
|----------------------------------- Less Stuffy

Born sociable, and in NYC, to unconventional Greek folks, I'm a hearty mix of sweet 'n spicy, classy 'n saucy. I'm often told I have a way of making sheer strangers immediately feel like friends, as though we've known each other for years. People are my passion, and I never fake it. I'm genuinely curious, playful, polite, but not prissy. Nor a girly girl. Call me feisty, frisky... If you throw a wisecrack in my direction, I promise to throw one right back! You're very welcome. =)~ I appreciate all kinds of humor, comfortably hold my own with the guys, and openly discuss topics most deem taboo. (I believe it's all in the how.)

A social butterfly, I'll go wherever the fun seems to be, and truly can find a smile in anything or anywhere, so long as -- wait for it -- I'm in good company... Performing arts. My musician buddies' gigs. Broadway musicals. Comedy. Dancin' till the break of dawn. Watching the sunrise after a great night out. Introspective walks on the beach. Freshly fallen snow as it blankets the ground. Beautiful and funky works of art. Driving. Biking. Swimming. Dinner catch-ups with friends. Intercontinental phone chats with family. Exploring lands of sun, sea, and true living. Foreign languages. Accents. Self-expression, in all its forms. Bear hugs. Cuddling. Overall good men who know how to appreciate good women who know how to appreciate good men... These are a few of my favorite things.

I respect respect, and greatly value sincerity, humor, optimism, intelligence, smart self-expression, time-tested friendships, family, new experiences. Undeniably open-minded and young at heart, my favorite word is "perspective," and my motto, "If you don't ask, the answer is always no."

Above all, I live by my heart and gut, not by the rule books. This approach has made for many an interesting/hilarious/outrageous story, and I'm here for more...

"Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important."
~ Carl Reiner
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
having a blast working with children, and forever exploring -- the world, people, myself... you?

"All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make, the better."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making you wonder how time has passed so quickly on our first date that, "Whoa, have we really been here in this one spot for six hours?! Amazing."

Yep, that's the general consensus. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Overall, they're those with which I relate, wonder, laugh, hope, reminisce, dance, smile, am stimulated and grateful.

As for the tunes specifically, this guy said it best:

"Without music, life would be a mistake."
~ Friedrich Nietzsche

I appreciate most genres, and am a fan, friend, and non-musician member of the awesome, collaborative New Musicians Union (disregard the silly logo number!), based in The Music Building in Midtown, where the likes of Madonna and Metallica had their starts. (If you're a musician in need of studio space, take a look. It's a great place to play and innovate.) My times with this crew are never dull!

Also, do your ears a favor, and check out the wonderfully eclectic, commercial-free 90.7 FM WFUV, and its indie channel, The Alternate Side. I guarantee you won't be disappointed!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
or rather, those I would never *want* to do without: hugs, loved ones, laughter, curiosity, music, and, dare I admit it -- your wonderful male species.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to possibilities.

"A mind is like a parachute. It doesn't work if it's not open."
~ Frank Zappa