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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:23pm
Relationship Type
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This will most likely read as a random assortment of thoughts and facts about myself, but bear with me. :)

6'3" INFP, though I'm oddly talkative.

I love adventures. Outdoors, indoors, wherever. I love to hike and camp and just get out in nature whenever I can (closest thing I have to a "church").

Not religious or too terribly spiritual. Try to take care of myself. Quirky, a bit overly introspective at (most) times. Good at both late night chats and early morning escapades.

I'm an emotional dude, and I mean that in the best way possible. I think and feel very deeply about a lot of things, and I spend an inordinate amount of time exploring those feelings and seeing what I can learn about myself through them. That said, I have found that I have a deep well of love and affection that I want nothing more than to tap and share with those closest to me.

Simplicity is key. I think so much of life we end up consuming ourselves with things and ideas that don't ultimately fulfill us. I'm not perfect at this, certainly, but it is a conscious intention of mine to immerse myself in those aspects of life (thought, love, friendship, etc.) that most completely nourish my soul, while tossing aside those other aspects (money, status, power) that don't. I've found that eschewing complexity opens so much mental space (and time) for connection with others, and I'm hoping to find people who share these sensibilities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just working as an accountant and doing some school part-time; in the process of getting my CPA. :/

Still figuring it all out, honestly, but I never subscribed to the whole "linear life" concept anyway. I'm a long-term idealist but short-term realist, so always trying to balance lofty ambitions with the day-to-day necessities I frequently overlook.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being completely impulsive and random. (That's my aforementioned adventurous side.)

I also have a really dry, somewhat cynical sense of humor. Oh yeah, also dad jokes and puns (in the moment, though; it's not like I have them stockpiled :P).

I'm also extremely over-analytical, which has its benefits and downfalls. I'm working on curbing the latter somewhat, but it's a useful skill nonetheless. However, I'm also extremely goofy and find myself not taking things TOO seriously most of the time. (Side note: I answered a question on here that asked if I was intense or carefree, and I was sorely disappointed that I couldn't check both... It's a weird combo, I know.) So yeah, I'm "intensely carefree". I'll let you figure that one out, because I sure as hell haven't.

Attaching emoticons to just about everything. (Still not 100% on board with the emoji game, but I'm getting there.) :)

Trying to figure out what "Match %" really means, in a realistic sense. I'll figure your scheme out one of these days, OKCupid.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I've been told it's simultaneously goofy and a smirk (while being entirely genuine), which, in a lot of ways, pretty much sums up my personality.

Honestly, though, there's a good chance that won't be the FIRST thing you see, unless I'm in a particularly chipper mood. I'm relatively tall, so if we're in a crowd, you'll probably notice my head above everybody else's shoulders. There's also my dashing good looks (:P), but that's ultimately for you to decide. So yeah, we'll go with "tall" here, haha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes pretty much cover the whole spectrum with most of these, as long as it is quality or seems like a good time. Everything has its place. I do, however, tend to prefer books, movies, shows, and music that have some deeper meaning and/or point. Yeah, that's totally oversimplifying any sort of notion of taste, but that's the gist, for the most part. (Sorry for being that guy...)

Let's see if I can do a basic rundown of the high points, though:

Books: Love Steinbeck, Hemingway, Kerouac. I read a lot of nonfiction nowadays (thanks, grad school). Travel writing is a personal favorite, as well as stuff with a personal development bent (guilty pleasure).

Movies: Foreign/indie, documentaries, and classics mostly. Huge film noir buff. I'm definitely down for blockbusters and other fare as well, though (counting down the days until Star Wars! :) ) Also, Wet Hot American Summer might be the best thing ever made.

TV: Arrested Development, HIMYM, The Newsroom, Parks and Rec, 30 Rock, 30 for 30 documentaries, I actually haven't had cable in, like, 7 years, so I'm pretty bad about watching shows regularly.

Music: I go through phases, covering pretty much every genre imaginable. Been in a weird post-punk/alternative/trip hop mood of late. Last month I was on a huge soul kick (love me some Al Green and Otis Redding). I'm sure I'll be on to something new by next week. Two favorite bands are Death Cab for Cutie and the Beatles (Modest Mouse is a close 3rd). So yeah, I'm all over the place here.

Food: Everything, duh. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends/people/love/community 😄 ❤️
2. Sophomoric humor and/or dry wit 💩 🔥
3. Coffee ☕️
4. Nature/Hiking ⛺️
5. Music 🎶
6. My cat, LC 😸
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to do with my life; Ways that I can make the world a better place both for myself and others; Random, inconsequential, theoretical things that I have no business messing with (mental masturbation, if you will); What I'm going to eat for lunch/dinner; the appropriate level of seriousness for a given situation (I'm always either too serious or goofy, rarely in-between)

A big thing of late has been an inner dialogue between thought and action, namely, whether the proper approach to a fulfilled life comes from thoughtful planning followed by execution or through more adventurous means, by acting first and finding justification/direction later as a result. It's an interesting dilemma; I would love to hear your thoughts. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually going with whatever feels right. I may go out with friends, may hang out at a coffee shop and work, or may just head home to watch a movie or read a book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're cool, fun, confident, energetic, and outgoing, don't get stressed easily, think that your friends are more important than your work, are more extroverted than me, and, most of all, are happy, content (at least in an ontological sense), and adventurous.

As for me, I can't honestly say that I'm all of the above characteristics myself (at least not at this particular moment), but I've found that people who do possess them tend to bring out the best in me, and most people seem to like that version of myself. :)