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21 Arlington, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–23
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:05am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a 21-year-old punk rocker and aspiring actor with a cute dog, an almost-broken guitar, and one hell of an overactive imagination. Extremely enthusiastic about words, and people who use them well; equally enthusiastic about music, art, and anyone who's passionate about anything. I create original music and will probably throw some of it at you if you express interest.

I'm into history, philosophy, reading physics articles on Wikipedia that go waaay over my head, and learning stuff in general. Sarcasm and stupid puns are as indispensable to me as books and music are. And, of course, if you want to get a real accurate sense of the kind of person I am, talk to me, because we're all defined by how we appear to other people and yadda yadda apparently it only takes two fuckin' paragraphs for me to dive headfirst into the Cliche Pit.

A little more seriously, I might as well make it clear that I absolutely despise dishonesty, intolerance (especially, for kinda personal reasons, homophobia and the shaming of those with mental illnesses), and anything that could loosely be described as "bullshit." I'm extremely straightforward and leave little unsaid, and I try to encourage others to be the same. This tends to make things HILARIOUSLY less complicated than they would be otherwise. The fact that I am a feminist seems like something that shouldn't even need to be said. (Also, apparently I sound way more serious here than I actually am in real life. Kind of a goofball, really. I will 100% act like a enormous dork around those I'm comfortable with.)

If you have a good short joke, please tell it to me because I love them. I swear I'm not being sarcastic. I'll tell you my favorite one if you ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying history and theatre (acting) in the honors program at UMass Amherst. Deciding whether to go into academia or law, a different career path, or saying fuck it all and trying to play music or act seriously. Meeting excellent people, having adventures, stepping outside my comfort zone, finding new things I'm passionate about, screwing up my sleep schedule constantly. Wishing I could get back into rock climbing, paintball, and other things I did all the time when I was sixteen. Finding something I can do to make the world a better place and fight the outrageous BS out there, besides calling the bastards out in the three-minute/three chord format.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing power chords and four-note guitar solos very fast and sloppily, acting, making words do the word thing, coxing crew, navigating Boston and introducing people to the city (thanks to summers spent waging the War on Tourism. Boom tish.)

Writing songs about.... liberal politics, girls with peculiar names, anxiety, the city of Boston, and alcoholic ex-criminals with gambling debts getting whacked by their creditors and dumped in shitty rivers in upstate New York.

"You have the butt dialing skills of a god."
"I'm not even sure how that happened. I'm not wearing pants."
The first things people usually notice about me
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My terrifying and imposing figure, probably. The fact that I'm kind of short 'n' skinny (and, it should be noted, strong for my size) is something that used to bother the hell out of me, but at this point it's only a problem for me if it's a problem for you.

Besides that...intense cheekbones, the downward curve of my lips that makes me look way more serious than I usually am, that I speak sort of elaborately while swearing a lot.

"Why does your wardrobe seem to consist entirely of Chucks, jeans with the cuffs all fucked up, and shirts with bands on them?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Rock in most forms, but punk rock above all. My perennial favorites are The Clash, Ramones, Green Day, Rancid, Social Distortion, and The Replacements (a band that sort of summarizes my personality—ask if you want to know what that actually means). The Offspring, Rise Against, The Hives, The Bouncing Souls, Dropkick Murphys, Talking Heads, blink-182, The Who, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Iron Maiden, The Decemberists, The Mountain Goats. Message me if you like or have ever even heard of Dire Straits.

Books: science fiction and dystopia, alternate history, extremely entertaining Hunter S. Thompson-esque stories about fucked up shit; Shakespeare! (Favorite comedy is A Midsummer Night's Dream, favorite tragedy is Macbeth or Hamlet, favorite history is Henry V); Ender's Game and its series (despite the author being an ultra-conservative, homophobic dickbag), 1984, The Catcher in the Rye, Franny and Zooey, Animal Farm, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, A Clockwork Orange, Slaughterhouse-Five, On The Road, World War Z, Looking For Alaska. Right now I'm falling in love with John Updike's short stories.

TV: Family Guy, Band of Brothers, The Pacific, 24, Rescue Me, Homicide, Homeland, Fargo, Seinfeld. I have a lot of shows I'd really like to watch—especially Doctor Who, Breaking Bad, Orange is the New Black, and The Wire—but I don't really like watching series alone; I like to watch them with someone else to rant/rave at. So if you're looking for a show-watching partner, woo!

For movies, I like Quentin Tarantino, the Coen Brothers, anything with Will Ferrell in it, historical war films, sic-fi stuff... I like most movies, but I don't watch them too often. This should change.

I'll try pretty much any food at least once. Burritos, Italian, and seafood are my favorites. Pasta goes with anything. And despite my best efforts I'm pretty sure I've never reached 110 pounds.

Favorite video games are Fallout, Just Cause, Civilization, Total War, Company of Heroes, SimCity, Call of Duty (the older the better).

Huge fan of xkcd and Questionable Content.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guitar and amp, books, friends I can trust, snark and sarcasm, cuddling, Internet (specifically Wikipedia). And although I could do without it, gin and [diet] tonics are easily my favorite drink and I would be quite sad without them. There's a story behind that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things to write lyrics about, bits for standup, trying to shorten this damn profile, whether or not free will exists, the lives of people I see randomly on the street or on trains, injustices and exploitation in the world, furry animals. I know saying "I think about everything" is one of those awful OkCupid cliches, but it's legitimately true, and part of the reason I like talking to new people so much is that it keeps me from getting wrapped up in my own head.

Oh, and the novel or series of short stories I may eventually write about the fascinating experience of online dating. Seriously!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On *Thursday* nights while I'm in school, I'm usually playing at a local open mic night that also happens to be BYOB. Otherwise, anything from gaming nights with friends to tipsy campfire singalongs in the Arboretum, house parties to playing guitar with my cat or girlfriend as audience.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not ashamed to admit that I first got into punk rock by way of Green Day. On that note, I'm pretty sure I'm straight (Kinsey 1 at most), but I might have a tiny little man crush on Billie Joe Armstrong.

(Alright, if we're being all straightforward here, the *actual* most private things I'm willing to admit are probably sexual, but I really don't want to come off as That Guy Who Blatantly Talks About Sexual Stuff In His Profile, so ask me if you actually want to know. For example, about the most horrifyingly awkward experience of my life.)
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Okay, if you'd like to have a real conversation, explore Boston/the Pioneer Valley, go to some local shows (music or theatre), help me find/create delicious low-sugar cocktails, watch excellent TV, play Civ 5, or challenge me to a useless-trivia-off. Oh, or, y'know... go on a date. Though all those things would be pretty awesome dates anyway.