If you're here because I visited your profile; Hi, I'm John. Yes, I saw your profile. Chances are, I read the whole damn thing, as is my habit. If I haven't messaged you and you'd like to know why, ask and I promise I'll tell the truth.
Because it's necessary to say up front; I am in a relationship. In fact, I have a fianceé. We have an open relationship and aren't likely to change that. There is a reason for the available status. If you want to know more about her, check out valancy17.
I am a thirty-something Geek, College student, Centrist, NPR fan, Reader amongst other things. Give me a flannel shirt and a PBR and I would look suspiciously hipster-ish, though oddly enough I have also been called a "Bro" on more than one occasion... Honestly, I don't get all the confusion. Maybe I'm just hard to pigeon hole.
I'm a useful person to have around, especially in a place I've had time to explore. I am also doggedly loyal to my friends, family and lovers. I see no conflict between that and my views on Non-monogamy.