Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


45 Croydon, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:07pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've had a profile on this site for a few years now and apart from about 3 or 4 mutual likes, nobody's made contact or replied to a message. So there seems little point in my checking back to see anymore. It's goodbye from me to OK Cupid. Will delete my profile on Friday 28th November.

OK, cards on the table. Self confessed sad man and proud of it! I'm a photographer, well, struggling pro. I've had a little bit published and sold some photojournalist pics to the local paper. Mainly work on personal projects, so it costs me more than I make. My day job is in the trade too, working for a high street minilab, so get to see everyone else's snaps, that I'm expected to perform miracles with. Previously, have been a tour guide on the open topped sightseeing buses in London and I would dearly love to get back on that, but the companies hold personal grudges, especially if you're pro-worker and stand up to them for screwing you over hours. Did start out as an actor, but that's currently on hold, you could say I'm in suspended animation, rather than simply 'resting'. Bit of a writer and a poet too, though not been published, mainly because i've not submitted anything, yet. I read Tarot, have some light psychic gift and into crystals, though don't know how to do crystal healing. Love playing The Legend of Zelda video games, but it doesn't take up a huge amount of my life, likewise my interest in other nerdy/geeky things, like original Doctor Who (the new one's yet to convince me it can tackle storylines with a serious undertone that's not in the style of a soap opera) and other cult TV classics. So if that hasn't put you off, send me a message :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not a lot, but something :) By day, working part time in a photo minilab, printing other people's photos off their phones and by night (well, days I'm off work, though sometimes night), I'm out on photoshoots with a real camera that uses film! I work on my own photo projects, art based, or architecture or landscapes and I do some event photography too.
Someday, I hope to get back into acting, yes, someday...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
television trivia and photography!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
a pair of glasses and a smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nick Drake, Split Enz, Go Go's, Norah Jones, Crowded House, Beach Boys, Ska, Metal, Gay Dad, Miles Davis, Dave Brubeck, Steely Dan, Suzanne Vega, Prefab Sprout, Doors, Kaiser Chiefs, The Darkness, Billy Joel, xtc and a ton more I can't remember right now.

The Time Machine, Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator, The Wise, On the Road, Frankenstein, Alice in Wonderland/Through the Looking Glass. I don't read as much as I'd like to, just got to make the time, though most of my reading now is reference and dipping into non-fiction stuff.

Back to the Future trilogy, all 6 parts of Star Wars, The Sandwich Man, Billion Dollar Brain, Spider-Man, Sixteen Candles, Hello Down There! (1960s silly film stars Tony Randall), The 7 Faces of Dr Lao, Mel Brooks' films up to the early 80s, films by Alfred Hitchcock, Field of Dreams, My Favourite Year, The Man with No Name trilogy, Sleepless in Seattle, Wimbledon, The Ladykillers and films by John Hughes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music (especially my Nick Drake album collection)
My Tarot deck (with my old Filofax, which has my divination notes)
My MacBook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The complexities of time as more than one dimension, as I think time is composed of three dimensions, just like space. We can theorise forwards and backwards time and sideways time, but what on earth could up and down time be?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
shopping in Tesco, but that's every other Friday. The alternate ones, I'm usually wandering around, exploring, somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I won't admit on here!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to find out more ;)