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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 22
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a professional actor and director - I work in both theatre and film. I also run a Shakespeare company, and teach part time. I'm passionate about my work.

I'm also passionate about people. I love to explore, listen, hang out, learn things, meet new people and learn about them.

I don't think much of awkwardness - just call it out. Say what's on your mind, and figure out how to deal with it from a place of honesty and kindness.

I love to play. Come play with me.

And tell me a story.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making memories and telling stories.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting. Directing. Listening. Learning. Telling stories. Playing games (the good kind.)

Treating people with respect and dignity. Occasionally while tickling them.

Being a friend.

Telling it like it is.

Playing baseball, kinda.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would be for you to tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This could take months. I'll limit myself to 5 each.

Books: Ready Player One, Lamb, American Gods, A Prayer for Owen Meany, What Dreams May Come.

Movies: Casablanca; The Matrix; Synecdoche, New York; Spaceballs, Clue

Shows: Coupling, The Wire, How I Met Your Mother, MASH, The Newsroom, Dr Who. (I lied. That was six. The Doctor lies, too.)

Music: The Decemberists, Eminem, Disturbed, Sarah McLachlan, Ryan Adams, Amanda Palmer (Six again!)

Food: As long as there are no onions (allergic), I'll try it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter. Books. People. Music. Sex. Baseball.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to do things better.
What would be funny in this situation.
How to make this a good story.
What should my next karaoke song be?
What would Humphrey Bogart do?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Onstage? At a play? Hanging out with friends?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an entire bookcase full of board games.

Is that private? I don't really keep much private. Ask me anything!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(Any one will do.)
You like stories. And have one to tell.
You want to learn something. Or teach something. Or just talk.
You like to look at the stars.
You are a little bit crazy.
You occasionally like stepping out of your comfort zone.
You like hugs.
You know what "poly" means.
You've read "Winnie the Pooh" and occasionally see it as an instruction manual.
You're low on expectations, but high on adventure.