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ThellieEm123

28 F Oklahoma City, OK

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:54pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a MI transplant, been here 5 years now, and I work both at DHS in Child Welfare and as a professional babysitter in my spare time.

My passions include reading, writing, spending time with my friends, cooking, traveling, and hiking.

It seems like I'm always reading something. I love to read, and having an English Lit degree, it goes with the territory. I'll read just about anything once, and if I really like it, I'll wear out my copy. I collect antique children's books and would like to start a book end collection.

I love spending time with my friends, even if it is just talking on the phone or online as we seem to be geographically impaired at this point in our lives. We are spreading out and living our lives all over the globe!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm would like to become a librarian eventually, but I would need grad school before I can get there.
In the mean time, I'm working in Child Welfare, helping to keep Oklahoma County's children safe, and also with Seeking Sitters as a professional babysitter, and loving my crazy busy work schedule.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. I have two very usable ears, so my friends and even people I don't know like to talk to me about their lives. I'm apparently good at giving advice because they keep coming back for more.

I'm also good at cooking. I love to cook and once when I made dinner for my roommate and myself, she got down on hands and knees and kissed my feet... I think that's a good thing. ^_^

Putting together random care packages. It's one of my favorite things. My friends and I call them "boxen."
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm fat. Yes. It's true. We're all shocked, I know. There will be a crisis counselor on the premises for the next week for those of us who may struggle with this mind-blowing news.

And right after that, it's my personality. I'm sarcastic through and through, but I'm still sweet and can be sensitive when I need to be. I have a very dry sense of humor, and love plays on words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Peter Pan, Heidi, Howl's Moving Castle, The Lost Years of Merlin series and anything else by T. A. Barron, Xanth novels, Abhorsen series (or anything by Garth Nix), fairy tale retellings of all sorts... I love fantasy and sci-fi, and creative fiction and creative non-fiction. Historical fiction is a new guilty pleasure. I'll read most anything set in front of me actually. I enjoy manga and anime. My favorites are Full Metal Alchemist, Witch Hunter Robin, and Death Note and I enjoy reading Naruto as well. My best friend's trying to get me into more as we speak...er...type/read...

Boondock Saints, Peter Pan (2003), Howl's Moving Castle, Serenity, 10 Things I Hate About You, Newsies, Starship Troopers (it's just so bad it's good), Cold Mountain, The Last Unicorn, The Mists of Avalon, The Outsiders, Little Women, Swing Kids, X-Men, The Prestige, Iron Man, Transformers, and so many others we just don't have the time to list. For the most part, I just don't like comedies that insult the audience's intelligence, and horror.

I'm into Celtic music. I like a lot of random pop, rock, Christian, country, instrumental, soundtracks, and indie stuff...my play list is pretty eclectic and it's not uncommon for clashing songs to follow each other, and for me to thoroughly enjoy it. And to show this, a random list of favorite artists: Celtic Thunder, Ashley MacIsaac, Anna Nalick, Josh Groban, Dragonforce, Within Temptation, Vienna Teng, Queen, Depeche Mode, Sugarland, Mika, Jem, Cascada, Utada Hikaru, Evanescence, Seether, Hinder, Avril LaVigne, Drake Bell, Hellogoodbye, Johnny Cash, Heather Nova, Flyleaf, The Dresden Dolls, Aly & A.J., Willie Nelson, Rammstein, Loreena McKennitt, E Nomine, Steve Conte, Sarah Bareilles, SR-71, America, and so many more...

I make a mean Zuppa Toscana... it's better than Olive Garden's. ^_^ It's my favorite. I'll eat most anything, though, at least I will if I can tell what it is. I can also make almost anything as long as I have a recipe, or a good idea of what I'm trying to make.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, God, Friends, Love, Water, Music... not necessarily in that order.

I'm not just being cheap when I go out to a restaurant and get water. I really do like it. It really is my beverage of choice mostly. Sure, it's nice that it's free, but honest, that's not my reason for getting it.

I almost always have music playing. I love music. I love playing music, making music, singing and anything involving music.

I love to read. I love having books around... yeah, it's not hard to tell why.

Obviously God is important to me.

My friends bring fun to my day. We are very scattered, and I miss them greatly. But e-mails, messages, calls, and texts bring a smile to my face.

I love love. I need to be loved. I want to be loved. yeah...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind is a very busy place. Thinking about how to reorganize my room, what to do on my days off, what I still need to get done, etc.

Also my friends and missing them.

My various writing or craft projects...

I'm very scattered in my thoughts. I go a million directions at once.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working a double. Same with Saturday and often Sundays and 8am-4am on Wednesdays. A girl's gotta work to keep the lights on!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate cutting my toenails. I also hate long toenails. Figure that one out. But I like long fingernails. On me. Not on you. Cut those things. I don't want to get hurt. ^_^

I have flaws.

I make mistakes, but I never think I'm wrong. I either KNOW that I'm wrong, or I BELIEVE that I'm right. I do know how to tell the difference, and admit when I am wrong. It happens.

I'm also too nice and permissive. Most of the time. I have my limits, though. Please don't push me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't mind zaniness, like odd chats and have read more than three books in your lifetime.