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ThellieEm123

28 F Edmond, OK

My Details

Last Online
Mar 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a professional babysitter and nanny (through an agency) full time, and taking classes at UCO full time as well. I am looking forward to finally graduating in the Spring! I am originally from Muskegon, MI where I was born and raised, but I have spent a bit over 3 years here in Oklahoma now.

My passions include reading, writing, spending time with my friends, cooking, traveling and hiking.

I'm not sure what else to put in here, but this seems short, so I'll keep going. I like being a bit of a geek and knowing a lot of random trivia type things, but there's always more to learn, and I love to learn.

It seems like I'm always reading something. I love to read, and being an English major, it goes with the territory. I'll read just about anything once, and if I really like it, I'll wear out my copy. I collect antique children's books and would like to start a book end collection. I have one set that I found in an antique store, but I would like to get a few more sets and eventually have a nice library when I get my own place. I have the books for it, heaven knows.

I love spending time with my friends, even if it is just talking on the phone or online as we seem to be geographically impaired at this point in our lives. We are spreading out and starting our lives on our own all over the globe!

I love a good conversation and as I mention later on, feel free to catch my on AIM with Slightly11. I'm on quite frequently.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm would like to become a librarian eventually, but I need to finish my undergrad and head off for grad school before I can get there.
In the mean time, I'm working with Seeking Sitters as a professional babysitter/nanny and loving my crazy busy work schedule.
I’m really good at
Listening. I have two very usable ears, so my friends and even people I don't know like to talk to me about their lives. I'm apparently good at giving advice because they keep coming back for more.

I'm also good at cooking. I love to cook and once when I made dinner for my roommate and myself, she got down on hands and knees and kissed my feet... I think that's a good thing. ^_^

Putting together random care packages. It's one of my favorite things. My friends and I call them "boxen."
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm fat. Yes. It's true. We're all shocked, I know. There will be a crisis counselor on the premises for the next week for those of us who may struggle with this mind-blowing news.

And right after that, it's my personality. I'm sarcastic through and through, but I'm still sweet and can be sensitive when I need to be. I have a very dry sense of humor, and love plays on words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) Obviously the Bible, Peter Pan, Heidi, Howl's Moving Castle, The Lost Years of Merlin series and anything else by T. A. Barron, Xanth novels, Abhorsen series (or anything by Garth Nix), the Sookie Stackhouse novels, The Enchanted Forest Chronicles... I love fantasy and sci-fi, and creative fiction and creative non-fiction. Historical fiction is a new guilty pleasure. I'll read most anything set in front of me actually. I enjoy manga and anime. My favorites are Full Metal Alchemist, Witch Hunter Robin, and Death Note and I enjoy reading Naruto as well. My best friend's trying to get me into more as we speak...er...type/read...

B) Boondock Saints, Peter Pan (live action), Heidi (not the Shirley Temple version), The Blue Lagoon, Howl's Moving Castle, Serenity, 10 Things I Hate About You, Newsies, Starship Troopers (it's just so bad it's good), Monty Python (anything), Cold Mountain, The Last Unicorn, The Mists of Avalon, The Outsiders, Little Women, Swing Kids, X-Men, The Mothman Prophecies, The Butterfly Effect, Moulin Rouge, The Prestige, Iron Man, Transformers, and so many others we just don't have the time to list. For the most part, I just don't like comedies that insult the audience's intelligence, and horror.

C) I'm into Celtic music. I like a lot of random pop, rock, Christian, country, instrumental, soundtracks, and indie stuff...my play list is pretty eclectic and it's not uncommon for clashing songs to follow each other, and for me to thoroughly enjoy it. And to show this, a random list of favorite artists: Celtic Thunder, Ashley MacIsaac, Anna Nalick, Josh Groban, Dragonforce, Within Temptation, Vienna Teng, Queen, Depeche Mode, Kamelot, Frou Frou, Sugarland, Mika, Taylor Swift, Jem, Cascada, Utada Hikaru, Evanescence, Arooj Aftab, Seether, Hinder, Avril LaVigne, Drake Bell, Hellogoodbye, Johnny Cash, Heather Nova, Flyleaf, The Dresden Dolls, Aly & A.J., Willie Nelson, Rammstein, Loreena McKennitt, E Nomine, Steve Conte, Sarah Bareilles, SR-71, America, and so many more...

D) I make a mean Zuppa Toscana... it's better than Olive Garden's. ^_^ It's my favorite. I'll eat most anything, though, at least I will if I can tell what it is. I can also make almost anything as long as I have a recipe, or a good idea of what I'm trying to make.
The six things I could never do without
Books, God, Friends, Love, Water, Music... not necessarily in that order.

I'm not just being cheap when I go out to a restaurant and get water. I really do like it. It really is my beverage of choice mostly. Sure, it's nice that it's free, but honest, that's not my reason for getting it.

I almost always have music playing. I love music. I love playing music, making music, singing and anything involving music.

I love to read. I love having books around... yeah, it's not hard to tell why.

Obviously God is important to me.

My friends bring fun to my day. We are very scattered, and I miss them greatly. But e-mails, messages, calls, and texts bring a smile to my face.

I love love. I need to be loved. I want to be loved. yeah...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. My mind is a very busy place. Thinking about how to reorganize my room, what to do on my days off, what I still need to get done, etc.

Also my friends and missing them.

My various writing or craft projects...

I'm very scattered in my thoughts. I go a million directions at once.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working a double. Same with Saturday and often Sundays and some Wednesdays. Usually it's just a single on Monday and Thursdays, thankfully, and I'm at school all day on Tuesdays. Ah, 50-60 hr work weeks!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate cutting my toenails. I also hate long toenails. Figure that one out. But I like long fingernails. On me. Not on you. Cut those things. I don't want to get hurt. ^_^

I have flaws.

I love too deeply. If I love someone, I never stop. No matter what they do. Love is an emotion. Love is an attachment. Love is also a choice. I firmly believe that. But I don't know how to decide to not love someone.

I make mistakes, but I never think I'm wrong. I either KNOW that I'm wrong, or I BELIEVE that I'm right. I do know how to tell the difference, and admit when I am wrong. It happens.

There are far too many guys who message me with requests for meetings for sex, a guaranteed sex-filled life with them, or who want me to tell them my fantasies. If you decide to do that, I will become passive, possibly aggressive, and frustrate you into giving up because I'm too nice to just tell you to fuck off.

I'm also too nice and permissive. Most of the time. I have my limits, though. Please don't push me.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 26–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You don't mind zaniness, like odd chats and have read more than three books in your lifetime.

Just do it. I'll respond. I always do.

You can catch me on AIM with the sn Slightly11 if you want. It's probably the best way to reach me as I'm almost always signed in.