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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:16am
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty goofy and silly actually, I like to joke around a lot and am always looking for an oppertunity for comedy. I hope you like that sort of thing

I've been described as a unicorn. Most people prefer to admire from afar. You should feel the opposite. However, it doesn't mean that I'm looking for one. I actually like women that are, well "normal," but I think it's important that you have some sort of spiritual side, because I do. I'm not religious. I also don't have any tattoos. I think a women that has non either is super attractive. A couple small ones is ok. It's the Bay Area, I'm like a fish out of water.

Contrary to popular opinion and practice I actually read people's profiles. And chances are I've read yours if I've visited you.

I'm don't think I like going to bars anymore. I much prefer a hike or short walk, but I'm totally open to drinks or coffee.

I've spent most if my adult life engageing in spiritual pursuits and working on myself. It's made for a somewhat difficult and often lonely life, whatever.

I believe life can be fun and enjoyable, it all really depends on me.

I'm uber friendly and maybe a little bit too nice. I don't have problem talking to strangers and am quite gregarious. I don't hold grudges and I consider everyone my friend. I cook, I clean, I have a big heart and feel really deeply. I'm just looking for someone to come home to.

I've been less and less likely to initiate a conversation with someone. So if you do get a message from me it meant I really liked you.

Btw, I love getting messages. But if I don't respond plz don't take it personal.

I'm looking for someone very specific. You'll know if it's you ;).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am studying to be a acupuncturist and I work as a pedicab rider in the city. I also work in the clinic at my school. I really enjoy what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going on long hikes, spending the day at the ocean, cooking, having a sense of humor, remodeling, building gardens, recognizing, learning, friend to all, dressing well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies yes, Music yes, I also like Ray Lamontagne, Led Zeppelin and the Beatles.

I'm not much of a fiction reader unfortunately, but I'm big time into current events. For better or worse or worse, I read the news.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A really good meal
A good workout
Time off
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Well, I'm a guy so I'll let you fill in the blank. I try to take deep breaths, meditate and find quiet time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going home to take a hot shower.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would like to meet over a drink or coffee, or even better a hike/walk. I don't have the paid version of this so I can't see who "likes" me.

You think you might want to throw your arms around me.

If any of this resonates with you:

"Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to have woken up, I am alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to achieve enlightenment for the benefit of all beings I am going to have kind thoughts towards others, I am not going to get angry, or think badly about others, I am going to benefit others as much as I can. - H.H. The XIVth Dalai Lama

Oh, btw, I'm a totally one women kind of guy, always have been. In case you were wondering. ;)