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Thenorbu

38 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jun 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Italian

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My self-summary
Hi there. Seems like an appropriate enough way to begin such a thing. Let me begin by saying that I think I am something of a conundrum to many. I'm religious, yet liberal. I'm married, yet in an open relationship. Please understand that this does not mean poly or that I am looking to add a "third." There are many expressions of "open" in a relationship. I'm not really about defining mine, but if I had to I would be more akin to a hedonist than anything else.

I'm clergy, yet I smoke and cuss. DO NOT ASSUME THAT I HAVE ANY INTEREST IN EVANGELIZING TO YOU AS A RESULT. A abhor organized religion. And yet, it all seems to work out quite well for me. If it might work in your world, drop me a proverbial line.

This continues to be a work in progress.
What I’m doing with my life
Working
Studying
Trying to continually become a better person.
I’m really good at
My work.
Learning.
Being a friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear a lot of vintage hats and glasses. I think people generally notice my style first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have very broad interests in these areas:

Authors - Tom Robbins (favorite), Chaim Potok, Michael Chabon, Patricia Cornwell, Clive Cussler, John Kennedy (A Confederacy of Dunces, not the President) (See what I mean?)

Movies - The Goonies, the Breakfast Club, The Cook, the Thief, His Wife and Her Lover (also very broad)

Music - Very broad here too anything from Daft Punk, to Rush, to Jamiroquai (favorite).
The six things I could never do without
Books
The Internet
Great conversation
Great food
New education
Play
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm something of an amateur philosopher. I love to turn different theories around in my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on the night. I don't like to club, but a good restaurant, good conversation and a good hookah round a week out nicely.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still play with Matchbox cars. I mean full on, on the floor and making car sounds.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You think it would be fun to chat. Attraction starts in the head for me. Give me something to think about.