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21 Flat Rock, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–25
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 14
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am totally Visa, I have confidence to spare and life always seems a little brighter when you have a positive outlook about yourself. And so I do. And I hope you do too.

I don't go to Hot Topic, I have never been to Hot Topic, and I don't even know where the closest one is to me. And yes I'm a gleek, yes its true, I thought I would put it at the top, since I know its a deal breaker for so many of you.

When its cold outside I don't really think about what to wear, except for warm things. Same for when its warm, I wear my short shorts and go running, and usually come back sweaty and messy. And then I take cold showers.

I read a lot. Everything and anything. My favorite genre is auto-biography, I just feel that its so interesting the way that different people look at life and their aspects. What they make of their situation, and the personal humor that they inlay into their words. It can be quite Beautiful. With a capital B.

Life is funny and romantic and wonderful, and I treat it like it is. I have a great time every day because I make myself think about how horrible I must look. Or how the wind could pick me up and throw me across campus if it was just a little bit stronger. Its a nice feeling, that I'm not in charge. And when I'm down in the dumps, I listen to Margeret Cho talk about life, and than I sing with my favorite musicals. And I let lose when I dance, because the music is in my soul. And I just jive to the rhythm of my being.

I'm spiritual in my own way, and I do believe in God, as a many faceted being of infinite might, represented in many different ways throughout the cultures and religions of this world.

I my dear gentlemen am a flirt and a flatterer. I like to think by telling people that I find beautiful, witty, charming, or lovely that they are so, that I am releasing joy into the world through them. And then they themselves will do the same for other people. And in that I can consciously know that such a little act of happiness and kindness is making the world a better place to live in.

And finally, for any who might care.
My given name is Caleb J. Hughes, you are free to call me by this as it describes me by the outlook of my life up to this point and into the continuing present. But I also took a name, that I thought would sort of be used as protection for the future. And in that way my name is also Théo Biamonte and so you may also call me Théo or Theo.
What I’m doing with my life
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Nothing, I suppose I could of left this spot blank if I was going to say nothing, but I guess that has gone to Hades now. Or maybe Tartarus. And I don't know if Tumbling counts as something.

Silliness aside, I go to a community college currently, its quite enjoyable, it has a gym with treadmills. Good professors, and interesting people. And while I'd rather be back at a University, away from home. But its cheaper here, and I've really developed a stronger bond with my family than I've had in my entire life. So that is a plus as well.

I bake and cook four, five times a week, and I read just as much as ever. Which is A LOT. like a lot. I'm currently employed with several pending applications in some small-businesses downtown. And I'm constantly reading and practicing my languages.

And I spend a major amt of time with a libra girl name Gabrielle. We could be twins the way we know each other now, and we're both dark haired, dark eyes and tall. But our families could not have been more different, well they could but it would be hard.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being cynical. Falling for the wrong people. Backwards compliments. Being absorbed in books. Other physical things.... like breathing, I'm a great breather. Great at discipline, I have things that I need to do some days and usually get everything done with time to spare. Oh and my sarcasm is pretty darn insatiable. Rambling during interviews is one of my top social skills. I'm really good at being upfront about myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Strangers: Oh! You have green in your hair.
Gabrielle: You need to stop going to Hot Topic.
Katie: Hello lovely, you look ravishing today.
Iliana: I wish you dressed more like a gay man.
People behind the Donut counter: You're so skinny!
My mirror: "If you would take some of these gosh darn inspirational quotes off of me I could actually show you what you look like." ;}
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors- Tamora Pierce, Derek Landy, Diane Duane, Michele Jaffe, A. Lee Martinez
Books- The Will of the Empress, Skulduggery Pleasant, So you want to be a wizard, a Nameless Witch, Divine Misfortune
Movies/Musicals- Hairspray, Chicago, Sister Act, The Wedding Singer, Les Mis, The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, Bridesmaids, Revenge of the Bridesmaids,
TV Shows- Teen Wolf, Fairy Tail, Glee, Being Human, Doctor Who, HIMYM, Smash, Sherlock, Shark Tank
Discontinued TV shows- Merlin, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Sabrina the Teenage Witch,
Music- Regina Spektor, Sara Bareilles, Every Avenue, My Chemical Romance, Matchbox 20, Sugarland, Lady Gaga, Adele, Panic at the Disco, ABBA
Food- caesar salads, wontons, salmon, lasagna, fortune cookies
People- Margeret Cho, Adam Pascal, David Sedaris, Whoopi Goldberg, the Queen, Julie Andrews, Alan Rickman(god bless), Sandra Bullock, Alyson Hannigan
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
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Julie Andrews
Whoopi Goldberg
Queen Latifah
Drarry or Sterek
Tea, Hot Tea (this should be number 1)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the Hell I'm not employed? Life is stupid.
How many times a day I want to smack rude people.
And how maybe I shouldn't have smacked that last person, because they started to cry.
And maybe that I'm not a nice person, but than again I can be extremely pleasant and am extremely pleasant.
And how much I've accomplished in my life comparatively to my friends, and sometimes it makes me full of longing. But then I think of my sister, 27, loving her life, living in Chicago-writing, didn't finish college. And she's happy. So there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Alone with a large cheese pizza, Lady Gaga, and shipping.
Every time I come back to this category, I think about changing it, and than I think back to the last friday night, and I'm like ohhh the humanity, did it again. And no Katy Perry, I guess I don't know how to have a good time. Yeah, no. I do, if I could I would go dancing every friday, contre, discotheque, ballroom, anything and everything. Salsa, Rumba, Tango, Flamenco.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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None of my family or friends truly support my ideas and my personality or my goals, well except for Katie. But I don't get to see her nearly as much as I want to.
You should message me if
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You or whoever you are... It would be nice if you messaged me, I'm looking for friends just as much as significant others or partners. I like to talk and will usually, always, almost with no exception.
I also have a Facebook and a Tumblr, my myspace is probably floating around somewhere too if you prefer one of those. I also like to txt almost just as much.
So there's all these options, any of them are fine. But you need to message me first with something to go off of.
And who knows how long it will take me to find you. If I don't know who you are.