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22 Flat Rock, NC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 30
Demisexual, Gay, Sapiosexual
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I step away often enough as i don't like to focus on negative things. Its not that I'm unaware of what's happening, I've just never been at a point in my life where the thought of talking about how things are will make me feel better than how they could be. So if you're looking for someone who may light in your presence but doesn't feel the necessity to be weighed down by thoughts, than you should look my way. If not i can point you in a hundred different directions that might suit you better.

I consider myself demi-sexual first and foremost because I don't feel sexualized feelings about people until after I feel I've gotten to know them. Which might happen sooner with some and later with others and not at all with those who don't need such things. Because I don't need to, but i will if I want to and if the person I'm with needs or wants to...

I am poly-amorous, because i can sustain several feelings of love for more than one person at a time. And the idea of limiting that love is something that I would never be happy with. I have been monogamous in the past but i had never been happy with the idea until I found out that non-monogamy does not have to be any less ethical. Respect, communication, and honesty are what it boils down to, if this too you can overcome you may take a step closer.

I live a semi active lifestyle with a plethora of goals and ideas that I attune to on a regular basis. I worship a plethora of Gods and Goddesses who I look, pray, and attribute to the ways of my life. As such I am a little odder than you might think you're used to because I try to devote as much of life to the principles of the deities I worship. And try to balance out as much conflicting energy and emotions as need be.

There is more but this for now is enough.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Following my brain's suggestions to do what I should have been doing all along. And letting my heart make attachments to what is healthy and good. Which allows my soul to connect to other universal calls that only it can hear when given the opportunity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing/letting go/singing, shrugging things off, knowing how my body's feeling and ignoring it. All of these are more true than they should be. But I'm also really good at acknowledging what I want to better at.

Also I'm really good about not recognizing people if they change the slightest thing about them. Which is why I will review a profile if there's a different picture than what I remember. And then I kick myself for not recognizing the person. I'm like Batman in that Pete Holmes sketch.

There's also my ability to make references that no one recognizes, that is a part of me I try to exercise as often as possible. Or make references to things that would not normally fit but somehow coming out my mouth seem to work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
When it comes to music its easier to list genres that I stay away from, rather than all the songs and artist I like. Because if I like a genre there's a good chance you might find me humming along to songs I've never heard before but still loving every second.

Books, I usually, stay in Adventure Fiction, Auto-Biographies, Languages & Culture, and any sort of Non-Fiction that catches my eye or that of someone I'm friends with or interested in because I like to connect.

Movies, not even, what, I can't, there is no set of rules or characteristics that get me. Its really whatever I'm in the mood for, and then some. Along those lines and a little bit of the above mentioned in the books. TV shows sort of the same thing.

Food, I will literally eat anything. There's very little that I will not eat because I usual only remember what i like and unless I know I'm allergic to something I'll have forgotten where it falls on the yumminess taste test.

I like to throw in people section. Because I adore people I can like and enjoy their works and choices and decisions. Whoopi, Queen, Sedaris 1 & 2, Dylan O'Brien, Logan Lerman, the Cho, Tamora Pierce, Derek Landy, A. Lee Martinez, Miss Julie Andrews, Alyson Hannigan. Such and such. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My car
My books
My voice
My movements
My thoughts
My vision
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Networking, connections, mutuality. Things where I can connect dots and draw lines, inside my head is really just one big jumble. One big jumble that likes to make puzzles and games out of things when life becomes utterly drivel. Which is only ever at work or while resting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding the world. Usually Mondays, Thursdays, and Saturdays are my go out and do things nights. Dancing, more dancing, cook out, waffle house, dancing, house parties, dancing 'til the sun comes up.
You should message me if
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you want to go waltzing or blues-ing or really any kind of dancing. The communities where I dance are always looking more leads, usually male but any gender or position is welcome.

you want meet up and talk into the late hours of the night all the while complaining about how you have to get up in four hours, but keep ignoring it

you want to teach someone something but don't have anyone to teach, I'm always(always) interested in learning something different or honing skills

you want a running friend. I'm always looking for more running friends.