Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I step away often enough as i don't like to focus on negative
things. Its not that I'm unaware of what's happening, I've just
never been at a point in my life where the thought of talking about
how things are will make me feel better than how they could be. So
if you're looking for someone who may light in your presence but
doesn't feel the necessity to be weighed down by thoughts, than you
should look my way. If not i can point you in a hundred different
directions that might suit you better.
I consider myself demi-sexual first and foremost because I don't
feel sexualized feelings about people until after I feel I've
gotten to know them. Which might happen sooner with some and later
with others and not at all with those who don't need such things.
Because I don't need to, but i will if I want to and if the person
I'm with needs or wants to...
I am poly-amorous, because i can sustain several feelings of love
for more than one person at a time. And the idea of limiting that
love is something that I would never be happy with. I have been
monogamous in the past but i had never been happy with the idea
until I found out that non-monogamy does not have to be any less
ethical. Respect, communication, and honesty are what it boils down
to, if this too you can overcome you may take a step closer.
I live a semi active lifestyle with a plethora of goals and ideas
that I attune to on a regular basis. I worship a plethora of Gods
and Goddesses who I look, pray, and attribute to the ways of my
life. As such I am a little odder than you might think you're used
to because I try to devote as much of life to the principles of the
deities I worship. And try to balance out as much conflicting
energy and emotions as need be.
There is more but this for now is enough.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Following my brain's suggestions to do what I should have been
doing all along. And letting my heart make attachments to what is
healthy and good. Which allows my soul to connect to other
universal calls that only it can hear when given the opportunity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing/letting go/singing, shrugging things off, knowing how my
body's feeling and ignoring it. All of these are more true than
they should be. But I'm also really good at acknowledging what I
want to better at.
Also I'm really good about not recognizing people if they change
the slightest thing about them. Which is why I will review a
profile if there's a different picture than what I remember. And
then I kick myself for not recognizing the person. I'm like Batman
in that Pete Holmes sketch.
There's also my ability to make references that no one recognizes,
that is a part of me I try to exercise as often as possible. Or
make references to things that would not normally fit but somehow
coming out my mouth seem to work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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When it comes to music its easier to list genres that I stay away
from, rather than all the songs and artist I like. Because if I
like a genre there's a good chance you might find me humming along
to songs I've never heard before but still loving every
Books, I usually, stay in Adventure Fiction, Auto-Biographies,
Languages & Culture, and any sort of Non-Fiction that catches
my eye or that of someone I'm friends with or interested in because
I like to connect.
Movies, not even, what, I can't, there is no set of rules or
characteristics that get me. Its really whatever I'm in the mood
for, and then some. Along those lines and a little bit of the above
mentioned in the books. TV shows sort of the same thing.
Food, I will literally eat anything. There's very little that I
will not eat because I usual only remember what i like and unless I
know I'm allergic to something I'll have forgotten where it falls
on the yumminess taste test.
I like to throw in people section. Because I adore people I can
like and enjoy their works and choices and decisions. Whoopi,
Queen, Sedaris 1 & 2, Dylan O'Brien, Logan Lerman, the Cho,
Tamora Pierce, Derek Landy, A. Lee Martinez, Miss Julie Andrews,
Alyson Hannigan. Such and such. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Networking, connections, mutuality. Things where I can connect dots
and draw lines, inside my head is really just one big jumble. One
big jumble that likes to make puzzles and games out of things when
life becomes utterly drivel. Which is only ever at work or while
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding the world. Usually Mondays, Thursdays, and Saturdays are
my go out and do things nights. Dancing, more dancing, cook out,
waffle house, dancing, house parties, dancing 'til the sun comes
You should message me if
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you want to go waltzing or blues-ing or really any kind of dancing.
The communities where I dance are always looking more leads,
usually male but any gender or position is welcome.
you want meet up and talk into the late hours of the night all the
while complaining about how you have to get up in four hours, but
keep ignoring it
you want to teach someone something but don't have anyone to teach,
I'm always(always) interested in learning something different or
you want a running friend. I'm always looking for more running
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