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22 Flat Rock, NC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:26pm
Demisexual, Gay, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I prefer to be quiet and reserved. To communicate with facial expressions is how I would always like to be. But it isn't to be. I care a bit too much about whether my companion whoever they might be is enjoying themselves. So in order to find out I talk more in order to get responses that I can judge how well I'm doing. It takes me a while into a relationship to forgo this process and just fall back into my comfortable silence enjoyment.

I can't truly imagine a world where I might need to be truly honest. Sure honesty about the big things is important, such as what someone means to you and what you want to do with your life. But regular honest I apprise as much as I respect casual lies. They both have a place in my life. There are exceptions of course. Mainly in regards to the possibilities of the big things. Companions who need honesty one is honest to and those moments where tenuity is not needed for genuineness is required.

Which leads to the what relationships to the world are made of. And the only thing that truly belongs, for me that is, is respect. Respect everything that a person needs, is, does, loves; whatever it is respect them and theirs and I see no problems arising. Which means respecting their need for one of your personal rules to be broken if you truly want to be with them.

I feel like I should discuss the orientation part over there. Not a lot of people can truly understand demisexuality unless they themselves prescribe to its notions. So just understand that sometimes more time is needed than less. That the time required is different for everyone you meet. Its about feeling safe and supported, while maintaining the boundaries necessary for yourself in regards to the physical. Sapiosexuality is pretty self explanatory, but for me in a personal stance, its a cohort to any thing else that I find as a primary attraction. So one says intelligence turns me on, I say that does do it but other things do it too. But I'm still going to get hot and bothered if someone starts explaining something that I have a basis of understanding for but strikes deep into something higher up and moreso stimulating, I might just find it a lot harder to breathe.

Also, the mostly non-monogamous is not a joke but something I attach humor to in a very intimate way. I always tell poly-amorous people that unless they start dating two people at the same time, all relationships start off monogamous. So the foundation of any poly relationship must be without a single doubt monogamy. I am inclined to have to have a lot of love for more than one person at a time. Even if the person in question is not compatible as lover as this very moment. Because I believe it's among the largest douche moves one can make to go into a new relationship withholding true intentions.

For potential friends who are at this moment just strangers. You should know that the fastest way to my heart is through dancing. Any kind of dancing I will be up for even if you don't do it very often. But the itch is coming on again, and you need someone to accompany you. This guy is totes available.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Following my brain's suggestions to do what I should have been doing all along. And letting my heart make attachments to what is healthy and good. Which allows my soul to connect to other universal calls that only it can hear when given the opportunity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing/letting go/singing, shrugging things off, knowing how my body's feeling and ignoring it. All of these are more true than they should be. But I'm also really good at acknowledging what I want to better at.

Also I'm really good about not recognizing people if they change the slightest thing about them. Which is why I will review a profile if there's a different picture than what I remember. And then I kick myself for not recognizing the person. I'm like Batman in that Pete Holmes sketch.

There's also my ability to make references that no one recognizes, that is a part of me I try to exercise as often as possible. Or make references to things that would not normally fit but somehow coming out my mouth seem to work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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When it comes to music its easier to list genres that I stay away from, rather than all the songs and artist I like. Because if I like a genre there's a good chance you might find me humming along to songs I've never heard before but still loving every second.

Books, I usually, stay in Adventure Fiction, Auto-Biographies, Languages & Culture, and any sort of Non-Fiction that catches my eye or that of someone I'm friends with or interested in because I like to connect.

Movies, not even, what, I can't, there is no set of rules or characteristics that get me. Its really whatever I'm in the mood for, and then some. Along those lines and a little bit of the above mentioned in the books. TV shows sort of the same thing.

Food, I will literally eat anything. There's very little that I will not eat because I usual only remember what i like and unless I know I'm allergic to something I'll have forgotten where it falls on the yumminess taste test.

I like to throw in people section. Because I adore people I can like and enjoy their works and choices and decisions. Whoopi, Queen, Sedaris 1 & 2, Dylan O'Brien, Logan Lerman, the Cho, Tamora Pierce, Derek Landy, A. Lee Martinez, Miss Julie Andrews, Alyson Hannigan. Such and such. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My car
My books
My voice
My movements
My thoughts
My vision
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Networking, connections, mutuality. Things where I can connect dots and draw lines, inside my head is really just one big jumble. One big jumble that likes to make puzzles and games out of things when life becomes utterly drivel. Which is only ever at work or while resting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding the world. Usually Mondays, Thursdays, and Saturdays are my go out and do things nights. Dancing, more dancing, cook out, waffle house, dancing, house parties, dancing 'til the sun comes up.
You should message me if
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you want to go waltzing or blues-ing or really any kind of dancing. The communities where I dance are always looking more leads, usually male but any gender or position is welcome.

you want meet up and talk into the late hours of the night all the while complaining about how you have to get up in four hours, but keep ignoring it

you want to teach someone something but don't have anyone to teach, I'm always(always) interested in learning something different or honing skills

you want a running friend. I'm always looking for more running friends.