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  • Ages 30-38
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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Well traveled, well studied. Hard working. Hard playing. I recently read a study about the top five fields not to pursue for future graduates. I have the top three under my belt...religion (SE Asian studies), archaeology, architecture. I suppose I'm trying to stay connected with the idea of becoming a renaissance kind of dude. Been fortunate to study in France, Nepal, Japan and work in India after graduate school.

I work as a designer/project manager/foreman and general contractor building high-end residential housing for a design/build architecture firm. I live outside on job sites ensuring everything runs smoothly. I put out fires on a daily basis and try to command the respect and love of all of my sub-contractors. I use slang and swear frequently (trying to curb it though)-it's the language of builders.

I used to teach in a shop for architecture students and spend a lot of time working on the next idea and solving the current ones. I also freelance every now and then if the project is good and the money right, however, I'm trying to avoid solving other architects unfulfilled/unrealized ideas. I'd prefer to solve my own.

I'm originally from Portland and think Portlandia is a documentary about the people that took over my town.

I'm also an awesome dad to my five year old kindergartener. We hang tough. Swim. Boogie board. Learning to ride BMX bikes with hand breaks. Tree Climbing along the bluffs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working outside in Manhattan Beach, building a high-end residential house a couple blocks of the beach. Such a better existence than sitting in an architecture office drawing hypothetical projects. I'm out here building it from the ground up.

I ran a shop for architecture students. I still spend my time trying to abuse my privleges of the machines I have access to for my own benefit and personal freedoms.

Training for the Playa Del Rey Triathlon. Try to run, bike, or swim almost everyday. Trying to learn more about improving my diet as it relates to training, but I'm getting a C- right now. I think bulletproof coffee is weird - butter has no place in my coffee.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out how to make stuff.
Switching gears.
All nighters.
Fashion for 5 year olds.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Crass sense of humor.
Eyelashes (inherited from my daughter).
Work ethic.
My rad dog.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wondrous life of Oscar Wao. Monkey Wrench gang. Franny and Zooey. Roald Dahl, Boy. The Road. Being there. Confederacy of Dunces. Hayduke Lives. Iggy Peck, Architect. Amos McGee. Far Side of Maddness. Pure Heart, Enlightened Mind. The Man Who Planted Trees. Imagine. The River Why. At the Edge of the Earth. Home. The New Yorker.

The Wire. Breaking Bad. Bored to Death. The Wonder Years. Bloodline. Electric Company.

Inglorious Basterds, Guess Who's Coming to Dinner, Back to the Future, Bullit, French Connection, Hoosiers, The Lost Boys, Rear Window, True Romance, Better off Dead, American Flyer, There Will be Blood, Goodfellas, Less than Zero, Dark Days. The Man Who Planted Trees. The Party. Death Proof. Between the Folds. Jesus Camp. The Aiweiwei documtary I just finished.

Running Tunes: The Doors. Z-Trip. Todd Snider. DJ Quick. Guns N Roses. Atmosphere. Exile on Main St. Pond. Dead Moon. Butthole Surfers. Dusty Springfield. Wu-Tang. Tons of funk in the trunk. Eliot Smith. Completely Grocery. Drunk at Abi's. Mingus. Lifesavas. Drive by Truckers. Harry Nillson. White Stripes. Johnny Cash. Blackberry Smoke. Amerikkkas Most Wanted. AC/DC. Randy Newman.

If you're into the Decemberists, it's not gonna work between us. That sound makes me cringe. No offense to the PDX brethren, however.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sweet baby girl not such a baby anymore)
Oswald the dog
Danners and Red Wings
Levi's 501s
Black Coffee
Hand crank coffee grinder
Guisados' chile torreado taco
Frosted Mini Wheats and Grapenuts
Chocolate Milk
Peanut Butter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make stuff.
How to do it more simply.
How to get out of town.
How to be more balanced in my approach.
Small spaces.
The next rad thing I can teach my daughter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going for a run - triathlon 2 months away. Hanging with my daughter. Tossing a few back. Strolling the bluffs with Oswald. Infiltrating a construction site with an accomplice and some Woodford.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book, but not on this format.
You should message me if
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You like fellas that are good with their hands (this is not meant to be creepy), wear boots and Levi's and own custom coveralls. If you're into good times both silly and intellectual. I'm looking for mellow times, warmth, honesty, rockin' unpredictability. If you like bikes and bike rides ending with a tall can at water's edge. If you like road trips, camping, camp fires, good whiskey, sleeping in a tent. If you like to learn stuff and are still trying to pick up new things and are open to getting off at the wrong stop. I try to expect little and accept what presents itself - I'm not always perfect in this department though. If you're not tripped out by a good dude with a rad kid. If you've got your shit together, keep the dramatics to a minimum, have a spark or a hint of volatility.