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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38-71
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 11
Seeing Someone
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Working on Two-year college
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OK, how would I summarize myself? Hmm... hard on the outside, soft
center, liquid, flowing and really sweet. Wait that's candy.
Alright, dented body, rusted parts, dirty windshield, but runs
great and gets you where you want to go. No, that's my car. Oh
yeah, cuddly and huggable and always there to listen and care. Wait
a sec I think that's my teddy bear. (He is blue if you care.) I'm a
cockeyed optimist, a hopeless romantic, a brutal realist and a
lover of life. I love to row the boat up the stream and I'll switch
canoes whenever I please, thank you. Any more than this, you'll
have to go to some obscure government secret agency to find out,
because they know more about me than I do, I'd bet. I am also clean
and sober and really appreciate those who take the time and effort
it takes to try to stay sane in this crazy world.

I am Fun, Deep, and Sensitive
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm looking to connect with poly folks for friendship,
exploration and community.
I am a Hypnotherapist and love to
study the human mind to see how it works. I am learning to love
more, love me more, and to be loved in return. I have returned to
school to study music, percussion, psychology and most recently,
law. I love to surf and take hikes in the redwoods with my sweetie.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking, storytelling and singing to myself or to little children who dont judge. Getting you to laugh or smile. Staying with my hospice clients through some tough moments. Watching life, seeing life and living life. Wishing. Procrastinating, being stubborn, and stubbing my toes. Surfing, playing the drums, staying in time while playing the drums. Oh and I've been told that I'm really good at pushing the wrong button at the right time, or vice versa. Massage, and Energy Work. Scrabble. And sex, cuddling, and after care.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my intense blue eyes. But probrably that I am short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All of Kurt Vonnegut Jr., Walt whitman, lots of spy novels, every self help book written, Steinbeck, anything about or by Milton Erickson, Carl Jung, everything by Caroline Myss. Virginia Satir. The ethical slut, the erotic mind. Elisabeth Kubler Ross, Louise Hay. Stephen King. Tom Robbins... Music, yes I love it. What I really love is the rythmn of anything and harmony of everything with a melody line in the cacophony of rush hour traffic, babies crying and the dogs barking at the sound of dawn breaking. Jimi rocks, The Who, Stevie, Nicks and Ray Vaugn, Linkn Park, BoB frkin Dylan,and oh just everything. The classics, opera, and some Jazz. Movies, Musicals, The King and I, West Side Story. What the Bleep, Hitchikers Guide..., Early Steve McQueen and Paul Newman, ULTRAVIOLET kicks butt, black and white classics.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.Integrity, dont leave home without it! 2.Compassion, priceless. 3.Human Touch, can mean so much! 4.Chocolate, even in the worst of times it's always chocolate. 5.A sense of humor, makes so much sense. 6.sunrisesandsunsetsandcrashingwavesandrunningriversandhotdesertsandmylover.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life in the universe as we dont know it. How connected to each other can we really be, if we try. And what I will do when I grow up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Still me! Spending time with my lover watching her favorite shows on the tivo and cuddling. Sometimes a meeting and dinner with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I always wanted to act and sing in musicals.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to have new friends. Love the ocean and walks on the
beach. Want to play music. Want to explore. Are open minded,
and can accept that I have a lover.