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Therdperson

37 Tucson, AZ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Until recently, I'd been travelling all over the world for work (I worked in Television making terrible reality shows). This left me little time to establish a lot of social ties locally. On the upside, I have been named "honorary mayor" and "the ambassador" in some of the cities in which we've filmed (it doesn't take much: I hired locals and bought a lot of drinks for the people signing our film permits.) The downside is that I'm sort of starting from scratch in the social life department here.

I am a generous, reasonably smart, educated, and well-mannered man. I have strong ties to my family and friends, and tend to gravitate towards people with ambition and drive.
I'm probably a hard man to really get to know, but I don't mind trying when I find someone worth it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've come to a place in my life where I'm on the cusp of attaining everything I've been working for, but haven't reached the top yet. I work in Film and Television as a Production Manager. I mostly love what I do, but I don't live for my job, and I don't define myself by what I do. In my free time, I volunteer at animal shelters trying to find homes for abandoned pets.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading strangers, listening, pretending to listen, and ruining movies by figuring out how they end 30-45 minutes in - although I have learned to control my urge to blurt out my predictions for the sake of others. I also consider myself a competent cat and dog whisperer. Occasionally, I let my warped sense of humor surface and it usually makes people laugh ...and only sometimes provokes an "omg wtf is wrong with you??" The same sense of humor also makes me very adept at avoiding serious questions with jokes and sarcasm - something that is not so good to be good at, perhaps, and part of the reason I'm here.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The beard. I was just trying it out at first, but it gets a lot of compliments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've read many many books in my lifetime and have a healthy collection, but making time to read hasn't been high on my list, admittedly. I've been reading more now that my schedule has become less chaotic - mostly "practical" books (home wiring, Excel Skills, etc.) Boring conversation but good stuff to know, I suppose.

I have a very open mind when it comes to trying new food. . . usually leaning towards dishes I am not responsible for cooking. Seriously (and with the utmost respect), if you can cook that is a huge plus. I can do all the heavy lifting, painting, carrying, saving you from bugs, opening of tough jars, and reaching things on the top shelf in return.

I have everything in my music collection. I tend to shy away from brooding emo and inflammatory polka, but otherwise have an unhealthy collection of classical, jazz, funk, classic rock, 80s metal, 90s grunge, electronica, a couple of old country songs, and lately, a lot of dubstep. I know my taste in music isn't for everyone, but I also have something for everyone.

Shows:
Too many to list but recently
"Breaking Bad," "The Walking Dead," "Game of Thrones."
Anything really funny.

I really loved "The Wire" and the "Battlestar Galactica" remake.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My sense of humor
Passion.
Ctrl+V and Ctrl+C.
My guitar
A really awesome pillow. It's seen better days but it's like a pet to me I just can't bear to give it up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I really want out of my life and what kind of contribution I can make to the world, other than TV shows nobody has ever heard of. Volunteering. Where I would like to go next in the world.
Mostly I am thinking about what is going on right now in my life, how I've gotten to where I am, and what the universe might have in store for me.
I don't spend "a lot" of time thinking about anything but how to make the most out of the time I have on this planet. Lately I've been spending a good deal of time trying to envision a "not-single" life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm just as likely to be working as I am to be enjoying the company of friends. Sometimes I get to do both at the same time. Other times, I need to relax and stay in. I'm 35, not 20. I no longer feel like going out, getting hammered and trying to pick up girls is a valuable use of my time. Maybe I'm just not as strong as I was back then, or they are heavier than I remember.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmmm. . .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You will take the time to actually say something and not shorthand every other word. Sorry. . . it hurts my eyes when I get "hey wut up? ur cute LOL!!1!"

You aren't a total control freak (. . .at least not about everything).
You want to meet at some point. I'm not really up for a pen-pal only.
You are over your exes, and the baggage is minimal.