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Theredder

24 Honolulu, HI Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:13am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Military
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm James.

My friends tell me that I can be a really quirky and intense person. I'm curious and I see every day as an opportunity to grow and improve the lives of myself and others. Some days may be more glamorous than others but life is short and shouldn't be wasted.

*I have to explain this a lot so I will do it here. I was born in England, raised in Hawai'i, when I turned 18 and graduated from Highschool my family and I moved back to England where I went to University for 4 years and now I am back in O'ahu in the Army National Guard.*
What I’m doing with my life
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I have my BA in philosophy from a University in Cambridge, England and am now back home on O'ahu and am in the National Guard, working towards doing an MA in psychology and becoming a specialist in alternative and progressive education.

I work a lot and my typical Monday to Friday is up at 0600, gym, job 1, job 2, home, sleep by 2200, rinse, repeat.

When I'm not working I spend every day I can outside and/or with my friends. I like to go hiking at least once a week and either go swimming or kayaking. I'm also a big fan of story, particularly scifi and fantasy so I read and watch a lot of movies, programs, and documentries.

Gym: As part of the military I am expected to keep to a high physical fitness standard and ontop of that I'm a bodybuilding hobbiest. So I go 5x a week and hike to keep my fitness up.

Job 1: I work as a skills trainer. Contacted to an elementry school to work with kids with specific extra social/educational needs.

Job 2: I work at Jamba Juice as a team lead in training. It's essentially a key holding shift leader.

When I am in a foreign town/state/country:
I will spent most of my time just exploring or wandering around or urging whoever I am with to show me around and go exploring with me. I really enjoy ending up at some random cafe or restaurant, or just somewhere interesting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Non-sequitur.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have been told that I am:

Caring
Honest
Intense
Energetic
Easygoing
Adorable
Nice
Shy
Geeky
Quirky
Sweet
Intimidating
Hench
Weird
Cute
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music:
"Weird Al" Yankovic, 30 Seconds to Mars, U2, Three Doors Down, Three Days Grace, Blue Man Group, The Killers, The Fray, The Beatles, The All-American Rejects, Tegan and Sara, System of a Down, Snow Patrol, Radiohead, Queen, Pink Floyd, Papa Roach, Oasis, Nickel back, My Chemical Romance, Monty Python, Metallica, Marilyn Manson, Linkin Park, Korn, Jack's Mannequin, Incubus, Hoobastank, Gorillaz, Good Charlotte, Foo Fighters, Flyleaf, Flogging Molly, Fireflight, Fall Out Boy, Evanescence, Drowning Pool, Disturbed, deadmau5, Daft Punk, Coldplay, Breaking Benjamin, Boys Like Girls, Beastie Boys, Panic! At The Disco, Dethklok, Deltron 3030, Blink-182, Slipknot, Owl City, Angels and Airwaves, Dr.Steel

Books:
Battle Angel Alita, The Color Of Magic, Dragonology, Warcraft: War of the Ancients Trilogy, Halo: The Fall of Reach, Halo: The Flood, Halo: First Strike, Death Note, Holes, Brave New World, The Hot Zone, 1984,, The Source of Magic, A Spell for Chameleon, A Swiftly Tilting Planet, A Wind in the Door, A Wrinkle in Time, Harry Potter, Eragon, On a Pale Horse, Bearing an Hourglass, With a Tangled Skein, Wielding a Red Sword, Being a Green Mother, For Love of Evil, And Eternity

Movies:
Kiki's Delivery Service, My Neighbor Totoro, Avatar, Becoming Jane, Robocop, Minority Report, Blade Runner, The Queen, The Wizard of Oz, Kill Bill, The Island, War of the Worlds, Sleepy Hollow, Amazing Grace, The Matrix, V For Vendetta, Pulp Fiction, The Rescuers, The Chronicles of Narnia, District 9, Dorian Gray, Fame, Spider-Man, Fantastic 4, Fight Club, Gamer, Hancock, The Hangover, Indiana Jones, Inglourious Basterds, Ironman, Jumper, Pirates of the Caribbean, Public Enemies, Sharlok Holmes, State of Play, Surrogates, Terminator, WALL•E, The Water Horse, Return to Oz, X-Men, Aladdin, Alice in Wonderland, Anger Management, Bicentennial Man, A Bug's Life, The Color Purple, D.A.R.Y.L., The Dutches, Elizabeth, Enchanted, Flight of the Navigator, Full Metal Jacket, Highlander, Ice Age, The Iron Giant, Inception, The Karate Kid, The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, Little Women, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Lost in Space, Marry Poppins. Miss Potter, Pride and Prejudice, Shrek, Short Circuit, Thunderbirds, The Time Traveler's Wife, The Time Machine, Young Victoria, 300, Stardust, Dogma, Read or Die, The Dark Crystal, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Castle in the Sky, Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away, Porco Rosso, The Cat Returns, The Princess Bride, Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind, Whisper of the Heart, Appleseed, Howl's Moving Castle, The Matrix, Rent, Batman: The Dark Knight
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The truth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, it's why I took up philosophy, to better equip myself to deal with, everything. Science, Math, History, Psychology, Politics, Sociology, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Engineering, Religion, Spirituality, Life, etc, etc, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually going out with friends, traveling, watching a movie, reading a book, or playing video games. I like to be engaged.
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