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TheseAreDreams

43 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:41pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Been in LA less than a year....

I am an actor/artist/musician, interested in becoming more of a director/writer, too, but hey, 3 things at a time, right? Trying not to bite off more than the 5 of me can chew.

I tend towards being nice to people and falling in love, if I can help it.
Looking for my lady, partner in crime and/or justice. Sometimes I like to see myself as a reborn crusader from Arthurian times on my grail quest, searching the hills of modern day LA for the divine feminine manifested as a single and singular woman. This song sort of exemplifies a certain feeling I dig about falling in love: http://youtu.be/FawOru4A5eg

I've spent a lot of time trying to look behind the curtain of our reality. Don't worry, I'm very much present here in the modern world, but I do have lots of funny ideas about what's really going on around here.

I really dig smart, funny women who have perspective and an open mind. And who are patient with guys when we are dumb dumbs, which, I realize, is probably more often than you'd like...

I apologize if this profile is way too long..................
What I’m doing with my life
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Acting, auditioning, writing, reading, watching shit, trying to figure this town out. Still dreaming of bigger things....

I've been acting and making art for over 35 years now. Writing tunes with folks for a few years less than that. I will continue to do all of this until the bucket is kicked.

You can see a lot of what I've done over the past 20 years at my website: www.TheseAreDreams.com

Part of me can't help but try to understand why the world looks like its so ca-razy, but the wiser half of me realizes I might never get those answers, and that the real answers lie in the creative process and touching base with the source of life inside myself and in everyone/thing around me.

I am dying to have a really good time....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making out. Writing lyrics. Drawing faces in my notebooks when I don't feel like writing lyrics. Painting murals. Act-ACt-ACTING! I likes the drama, the comedies, the improvisationalisms. I think I'm becoming a good film actor. I can sing really well like I sing. (that sentence reads exactly how I meant it to read). I think I have a strong and unique sense of melody and really good inner ear for backup vocals. My muse is strong in general when I'm willing to pay her attention and then follow up on her commands. I'm a pretty good drummer. I am an excellent illustrator. I think I have a knack for film editing, too, and maybe for writing and directing, we'll see, its still early. I can keep up my end of a conversation and I really enjoy listening to other people's stories because everyone is interesting if you are interested. I am good at appreciating the grandeur of nature - this includes the tiny things nature offers, they are grand too indeed. I do my best to be as amusing for others as possible because I love to see other people happy, it fills me with deep satisfaction. I will question. I will think deeply and feel deeply. I can love deeply if it feels right. I will search for the best in you and I will strive to create experiences that matter. I am very good at giving it my all if I am feeling inspired. And I long to inspire you, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once told I have an unusually large soul. I'm not going to assume I know what other people notice about me, its gotta be different for everyone, right? Uh, i have laser eyes? Sometimes I talk loud? People used to tell me I looked like the kid from 'Poltergeist' when I was ten, then John Lennon in college, then John Stewart as an adult. I like to think they are struck by some ineffable quality that makes them realize they've never quite met someone like me before, but shit, there are nearly seven billion people on this planet, so I can't be all that special….
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a fun list:

movies: The Big Lebowski, Pulp Fiction, the Empire Strikes Back, 2001 a Space Odyssey, Anchorman, the Avengers, Time Bandits, Akira, The Life Aquatic/Tenenbaums/Rushmore, Terrance Malik's the New World, Spider Man 2, the Lord of the Rings movies, the Matrix, Fight Club, Do the Right Thing, Spinal Tap, Scott Pilgrim, most David Lynch

TV (on the internets): Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Dr Who, Mr Show, Monty Python, Battlestar Gallactica, Arrested Development, The Newsroom, Mad Men, The Sopranos, Weeds, Lost

Muzic: the Beatles, Jellyfish, Jason Falkner, XTC/Dukes of Statosphear, Bleu,The Raconteurs/Brendan Benson, Dada, Beck, Beastie Boys, Radiohead, The Shins, Fishbone, Janes Addiction, the Stone Roses/Ian Brown, Ween, Tenacious D, Soundgarden, the Smashing Pumpkins, Oasis, They Might Be Giants, the Troy Westfield Experience, Agents of Venus, Kanye, Eminem, Slaughterhouse, Outkast, Public Enemy, the Doors, The Monkees, King Crimson, Zappa, The Police, tons more….
I love hip hop.

Books/Comics/Art: The Hitchhiker's Guide, comic book writer Grant Morrison (The Doom Patrol, the Filth, everything else he's ever written-- if you like Grant Morrison, I will be your friend for life), Lint by Steve Ayelett, Salvador Dali, Hard Boiled by Frank Miller and Geoff Darrow, Jack Kirby

Podcasts/comedians: WTF, Comedy Bang Bang, Greg Proops, Red Ice Radio, Steve Martin, George Carlin, Chris Rock, Chapelle, Triumph the insult dog, Kev Smith

Random interests: UFOs, mythology, the occult, meditation, synchronicity, those 30 for 30 sports docs

I eat food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've managed to live without a lot, so lets consider this a list of things I'd prefer not to live without:

music, comic books, movies, clouds, hope, lattes, mexican food, the beach or at least the sun or trees (let's just put this under the umbrella of 'nature'), the continual investigation into the mysteries of life, happiness or the threat of happiness, my special lady. And I dig weird folk with well developed senses of humor.

If I'm being honest, I find that I tend to really need my car and my contact lenses. And I love sleeping as much as I love staying awake until 4 in the morning. I miss dancing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When the ships will land.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
atypical and post ironical, verging on the post relevant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bowling is awesome.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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…you have already lived a weird life and you plan on more of that. You have a devastating brain and a well cultivated sense of humor. You have true depth of character. You still recognize the part of you that realizes the universe is infinite and therefore your dreams and fantasies are valid and possible. Honestly, contact me if you think it'll make you happy….