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35 Alameda, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:18pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for the right girl. Could she be on a website? Not sure it's possible but I'll give it a shot. Got out of a long relationship and then took a bunch of time off from any serious dating. I feel clear about what I am looking for and have a better idea than ever what's going to work for me.

I want some one to share my world with not someone who becomes my world. Independence is important to me because in the end we make this journey alone. A good partner would know that you have to work on self growth all the time for a relationship to flourish. Someone who allows for and encourages that would be ideal.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do the 9 to 5 tech thing and I am always looking for the next step in my career. Even though a lot of time goes into work I would rather think of all the fun things. I like to stay in shape. There really isn't an exercise I don't like. My go to is running and specifically running hills. Climbing is another love of mine but injuries have sidelined me for a while. Last but not least sitting meditation is vital. I am trying to rebuild a once epic practice (a very long story)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to cook. No real training but it makes me happy and most people I cook for enjoy what I do. I am content as the chef or the sous chef. I enjoy my own creativity and supporting others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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On a good day, my smile. Never really asked anyone, otherwise how would I know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are many things that can go in hear but in an effort to make this readable I just want to say one thing.

I love NPR shows like radiolab, snap judgement, and this American life. The reason I chose this is because I can't seem to ever convince anyone to sit and listen with me. Others must be out there who can sit and listen to a radio shows. The emotional and mental experience of listening to shows like these is amazing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family time


Food and all the experiences around it

My body moving

My mind still (honestly, trying to be still is more accurate)

Hot showers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All of the above and then some.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a project at home

Grabbing a drink with friends

Dinner at home

Getting some Zzz for a big Saturday
You should message me if
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You feel some connection with what I have written, you think I am cute, you are capable of a serious relationship.