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36 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 7:07pm
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Now that I've found a place I want to call home I'm looking to settle in a little bit more. I admit my career and lifestyle haven't always been a good recipe for a long term relationship and I'm working on fixing that.
I want someone to share secrets with, to share every day details with, to snuggle with, to explore the world with, to support when things are good and bad. I'm looking for someone with emotional literacy who cares about how she treats others and herself. Most of all I'm just looking for a partnership where we support each other and make each other better for doing so. Everything else is just details.
I like striking up conversations with random strangers when I'm out and about. It's pretty amazing what opportunities await if you just open up to people.
I've found that a little empathy and the Golden Rule go a long way. All you have to do in any situation is imagine what you'd like done or said to you.. and that's what you should do (or say).
-Procrastinating when I really don't want to do something
-Finding the silver lining
-Knowing the difference between your/you're, their/there/they're, and to/two/too, its/it's
-Playing devil's advocate
Music: Grizzly Bear, Wilco, Ben Harper, Common, Daft Punk, Spoon, De La Soul, Jupiter One, Jurassic Five, Michael Jackson, Muse, Nick Drake, Nina Simone, Cut Copy, Passion Pit, Portishead, Postal Service, Sharon Jones and the Dap-Kings, Van Morrison...
Food: Sushi, Indian, Mexican, Thai... actually, every food you could possibly throw at me. I love trying new food.
Close friends and family
Nature and the outdoors
Mayo (only Hellman's though, so it's cool)
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