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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Wants kids
My self-summary
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I'm equal parts sassy and sweet.

I'm pretty tangential and enjoy conversations that go in lots of directions. I'm an interesting combination of cynic-and-believer-in-all-possibilities.

I'm open minded and exploratory. Intellectual and artistic curiosity are both really important to me. Feminism and social justice are important to me. Hopefully, these things are important to you as well. I'm looking to meet like-minded people who believe that life is an adventure and that connections with others are some of the most valuable things in this world that we can experience.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making big, ridiculous, community based art projects happen.

Starting a kick ass, family friendly co-op. Basic idea: several caring and committed adults live in a big house (or triple decker) and support each other in raising kids. If you're interested in learning more about this, message me.

Being a big science nerd and wrangling other science nerds. I do project management for a nonprofit Biotech company that works on antibody therapeutics. It's a bit nontraditional but I love it (usually)!

Traveling as much as I can. My most recent adventures have included Costa Rica, Burning Man, Amish country (for real) and a bunch of local hikes and road trips.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
falling into bodies of water all over the world.
interpreting experimental design.
coming up with random plans and convincing a bunch of people to go along with them.
finding really good microbrews (not as good with wine, but would like to be).
cooking. laughing and making people laugh. laughing at myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Whatever's in my head is usually out of my mouth within moments. You won't have to wonder what I'm thinking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors - Tom Robbins, Barbara Kingsolver (this woman is SO awesome), Richard Dawkins (though I am sad that it turns out he's a sexist prick)
I generally enjoy pop-sciencey stuff that doesn't get too bogged down in kinetic equations or statistics... Open to recommendations!

Movies - High Fidelity, Goodbye Lenin, Motorcycle Diaries, Chasing Amy, Clerks, Dogma

TV - Honestly, don't have time for a lot of TV these days, but in the past have enjoyed Dollhouse, The Guild. Oh, I am watching (and loving) Orange is the New Black.

Music - all of that terrible stuff from the 90s is my jam. Also, Aimee Mann, Ben Harper, Regina Spektor, Ingrid Michaelson, stuff Pandora tells me to listen to. By virtue of one of the circles I roll in I've learned not to hate EDM.

Podcasts - This American Life, Radiolab, Serial, please make recommendations to me....

Food - can I list ingredients instead? among other things, fresh sage, fresh cilantro, cheese (all kinds!), butternut squash, cayenne pepper, caramelized onions. I love to cook, especially for other people
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, gmail, spices, colors, my amazing friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to build a cooperative living structure that creates a stable and supportive environment in which to raise kids.

What direction I want to take with my career and what I need to do to make that happen.

Relationships...finding the way to accomplish simultaneous commitment & individual autonomy and freedom with one's partner is a wonderful and complicated challenge. It's not something to be taken on lightly, but potentially very much worth it in the end.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) you wanna have a beer (or a couple ;-) bonus points if you can find deliciously awesome and bitter IPAs.
2) you are an open, fun person who enjoys and values connecting with others.
3) you want to collaborate on something cool

Listen up dudes (the ladies seem not to have this problem): If your message contains nothing more than a comment about my physical appearance or something to the effect of you want to bone me, I'm either going to ignore you or send you a scathing feminist rant about objectification of women, depending on my mood. Don't want that outcome? Then don't send that kind of nonsense to my inbox. And/or read this: