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33 Oakland, CA Man


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  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 25
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
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My self-summary
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I was told recently that I wear my brain on my sleeve. I'd say that I am a classic Aquarius/Introvert type.
What I’m doing with my life
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I don't know. I love surfing and wish I did more yoga.
I’m really good at
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Getting out of debt, carrying lots of things, procrastination, analysis paralysis, illogical spontaneity, deep thoughts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess I have a nasally voice. My humor (dry, dorky, cynical, baffoonish).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Poetics of Space, The Hidden Harmony, Reality Hunger, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism, Train Dreams, How to Live or A Life of Montaigne, Sex at Dawn, My Struggle (Karl Ove Knausgaard). Lots more. Mostly non-fiction. I am currently reading a lot of finance stuff. I'm not big on TV and mostly watch surf videos when I'm not reading.

I spend too much money on music and usually don't like other people's taste. Lets argue about it! At this exact moment I am listening to Woo, "Into the Heart of Love."

I am a nutrition dork and love to make fun of gluttonous foodies.

I forgot to say that I'm a news junkie. Its better than sports.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Less is more... my puer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"That which, in a human, time does not touch and whence the light in the eye springs."

"This universe which is the same for all, has not been made by any god or man, but it has always been, is, and will be - an ever-living fire, kindling itself by regular measures and going out by regular measures. The phases of the fire are craving and satiety. The sun is new each day."

"... the indivisibility of the varieties of expression."

Time/space, yoga/Buddhist stuff, art stuff, surfboards, surf travel, vans vs. trucks, South American surf shacks, Chinese landscape painting, the iconography of rocks, bonsai trees.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drunk, cranky, at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a TMI kind of guy.
You should message me if
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You can take me sailing.
You can take me horseback riding.
You are sick of okcupid creeps.
You are not too flakey.

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