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  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
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Last online
Yesterday – 10:10pm
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Buddhism and laughing about it
My self-summary
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"A forest is a secret, I guess. As much as another person is." And I'm funny!
What I’m doing with my life
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Going on long surf trips (I just got back from a month in Peru), planning surf trips (I'm heading to France and Portugal next), reading. I'd like to make more art and do more yoga.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Carrying lots of things, procrastination, analysis paralysis, illogical spontaneity, deep thoughts, cuddling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe that I'm really tan. My great posture. People are always impersonating the way I talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Poetics of Space, Pitch Dark, In Praise of Shadows, A Place in the Country, Quiet, Biocentrism, The Hidden Harmony, Reality Hunger, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism, Buddha Mind in Contemporary Art, Train Dreams, How to Live or A Life of Montaigne, Sex at Dawn, My Struggle (Karl Ove Knausgaard). Lots more. I'm not big on TV and mostly watch surf videos when I'm not reading.

I spend too much money on music and usually don't like other people's taste. Lets argue about it!

Actually this is the only band listen to anymore:

I am a nutrition dork and love to make fun of gluttonous foodies.

Almost forgot to say that I'm a news junkie. It's better than sports.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Less is more... my puer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"That which, in a human, time does not touch and whence the light in the eye springs."

"This universe which is the same for all, has not been made by any god or man, but it has always been, is, and will be - an ever-living fire, kindling itself by regular measures and going out by regular measures. The phases of the fire are craving and satiety. The sun is new each day."

"... the indivisibility of the varieties of expression."

Time/space, yoga/Buddhist stuff, art stuff, surfboards, surf travel, vans vs. trucks, South American surf shacks, Chinese landscape painting, the iconography of rocks, bonsai trees.

... [Nature] can so inform
The mind that is within us, so impress
With quietness and beauty, and so feed
With thoughts, that neither evil tongues,
Rash judgements, nor the sneers of selfish men,
Nor greetings where no kindness is, nor all
The dreary intercourse of daily life,
Shall e'er prevail against us, or disturb
Our chearful faith that all which we behold
Is full of blessings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drunk, cranky, at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a TMI kind of guy.
You should message me if
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You want to go to the beach.
You don't mind that I sometimes wear flip-flops.
You are not too flakey.
You are looking for romance, not the perfect boyfriend.
You want to be friends.