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26 Rochester, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I attended college in Geneva and got a BA in English, then moved to Rochester for grad school, but sadly a lot of things got in my way so those plans had to go on hiatus. Luckily, out of this I got dumped in a city where I had to learn to adapt outside of the padded halls of academia, and two years later and I've made it through just fine, fallen in love with this city and all it has to offer.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working at an ISP and saving for grad school. Once the old student loans get paid off, I plan to get shiny new student loans and go back to get my teaching certification. I am in a poly relationship with sweet_chic1985 and we have nothing to keep from one another.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar, cooking, writing, dispensing pseudo-philosophical wisdom and occasionally even some real wisdom.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My outgoing personality, my sense of humor, the fact that I am well read and well traveled. Also, I'm a pretty snappy dresser.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books. I rarely read a book just once. I tend to go on long kicks trying to read everything by a single author. I've worked on Ray Bradbury, Flannery O'Connor, Philip K Dick, Kurt Vonnegut, Neil Gaiman, Tolkien, Oscar Wilde, Terry Pratchett, and Douglas Adams.
Movies. I have a pretty wide range of taste in film. Listing would not do it justice.
TV Shows. Doctor Who, Sherlock, and Archer.
Music. I'm increasingly a fan of Puscifer and pretty much anything Maynard James Keenan touches. Formerly a fan of the fest scene, I still love The Grateful Dead and psychedelia or fusion music but the scene itself was too much for me, so I had to take a step back. I also enjoy trance and ambient music when I'm working.
Food. Besides bacon? I'm always aiming to expand my cooking so recipes don't repeat very often. I like Cajun spices and eat Paleo with an occasional exception for cheeses.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Literature and Poetry. Reading, writing, anything but burning. During college reading became a chore instead of a hobby. Now, reading is my second favorite pastime.
Music, and my guitar. Playing, listening, anything to do with it. I'm not the kind of guy who knows how to play 1000 songs on guitar. I'd rather be the guy who can play a few dozen, but play them with his heart and soul.
Physical contact. This doesn't mean sex. Remember physical contact before sex was a part of it? That.
A Fully Stocked Kitchen. Also, a fairly well stocked liquor cabinet. Cooking is a passion and a bit of a hobby of mine, and why bother putting the effort into a great meal if you're not going to serve great drinks with it.
The Internet. Okay, I could live without the internet, but obviously it'd be a pretty major change to how I read, learn, cook, listen to music, meet new people, organize my life, and socialize.
Decadence in all it's forms. I think this one speaks for itself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I can tell you what I don't spend a lot of time thinking about: Work. I'm very good at just shoving away the work day when I get home. So I basically can think a lot about everything else.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having an adventure! Or movies and wine. Or video games, but still having an adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit to a lot of things. Being friends with me is best described as being part of something slightly out-of-the-norm.
You should message me if
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You're interested in friendship, companionship, buddy-hood, or an adventuring partner.
You want or need somebody to talk to, and you're a good conversationalist.
You have nothing better to do, or you want something better to do than what you are doing.
You want to engage in a life of decadence with reckless abandon, you want to be free, to be happy, to be loved.
You want to jam. You bring your instrument and I will bring mine and we'll complain about how our voices will never be as clear as they where when we were younger.
The point is, I won't judge you. I'll try not to judge you. Not hard, at least. I only ask for the same respect in return.