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Thom

23 / M / straight / Single

Bristol, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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I am deep, musical, and articulate.

My Self-Summary

I enjoy reading, discussing things, using unnecessarily difficult words, daydreaming, tripping out to ambient techno in a darkened room, jogging, nude strutting, drinking copious cups of tea and coffee, wikipeding, shouting at the television set, cooking, drinking, pondering over my own meaningless existence, cycling.

What I’m doing with my life

I suppose I am currently rather similar to Benjamin Braddock.

Vaguely started using this as I've moved back to (near) Bristol and I want to make some more friends around here.

I’m really good at

Guitar.

The first things people usually notice about me

They've told me that I am "aloof"

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: Joy Division, Love & Arthur Lee, The Pixies, Caetano Veloso, Aphex Twin, Talking Heads, Nick Drake, Steve Reich, The Fall, Future Sound of London, The Orb, Lou Reed, Cocteu twins, Massive Attack, Cinematic Orchestra, Dinosaur Jr, Bernard Herrmann, The Specials, Flaming Lips, The Beatles, Jesus and Mary chain, Leonard Cohen, The Clash, Squarepusher, Siouxsie, Bjork, Magazine, Ennio Morricone, Tortoise, Interpol, Velvet Underground, Prince, Air, Echo & the Bunnymen, Simon & Garfunkel, Boards of Canada, Brian Eno, Buzzcocks, Yo La Tengo, Vangelis, Autechre, Sigur Ros, Belle & Sebastian, Smiths, Arcade Fire, Faust, Art of Noise, Modest Mouse, Durutti Column, My Bloody Valentine, Royksopp, Public Image, Outkast, Milton Nascimento, Iggy, DJ Shadow, Goldfrapp, Joanna Newsom, Kraftwerk, Beta Band, Bowie, Chemical Bros, ..Trail of Dead, Radiohead, Portishead, Alan Parsons Project, Prodigy (old), Moby (old), Bonobo, TV on the Radio, John Adams, Jeff Buckley, Pink Floyd, Mogwai, Philip Glass, Mercury Rev..

TELEVISION: Spaced, the Office, Brass Eye, Peep Show, Sex and the City, Mock the Week, Yes Minister, Red Dwarf, anything with Louis Theroux, Charlie Brooker, Stephen Fry, David Mitchell, or Jonathan Meades.

FILM: Vertigo, There will be Blood, Goodfellas, An American Werewolf in London, North by Northwest, Trainspotting, Evil Dead, A Clockwork Orange, Amelie, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, the The Life of Brian..

WRITERS: Marx, Nietzsche, Orwell, Adorno, Giddens, Habermas, Benjamin, Foucault, Gramsci, Chomsky, Negri, Jameson, Deleuze, Simmel, Sartre ... not so hot on fiction.

The six things I could never do without

Foreign foods
Caffeine
Lager
Books
Fuck
Internet Access

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Godlessness and metaphysics, 20th century French philosophy and Orwellian political control. Generally pricing myself out of the ideological market.

On a typical Friday night I am

Bored. Deeply bored.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Ask.

You should message me if

you are an intelligent and captivating person.. or a nice and gorgeous person.. or all of these things.. though I get the impression these sorts of people have no need for such websites...