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Thom

27 M Tokyo, Japan

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I lived in Seoul then Tokyo (4 years) and now I have returned. This feels like a land where nothing romantic or exciting is ever going to happen. I can't live the button-down life like you. I want it all: the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs, the creamy middles.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Generally being all existential and bemused by the whole thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar, giving massages, cooking Indian or Thai curry, and slipping unnecessarily obscure words into a conversation ("procrastinate" not being one of them).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The question is what's the last thing they notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favourite music: The Clash, Joy Division, Brian Eno, Radiohead, Love & Arthur Lee, The Pixies, Caetano Veloso, Aphex Twin, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Talking Heads, Nick Drake, Modest Mouse, Steve Reich, Philip Glass, The Fall, Future Sound of London, Lou Reed, Massive Attack, Portishead, Bernard Herrmann, The Specials, Flaming Lips, The Beatles, Underworld, Squarepusher, Boards of Canada, The Smiths, Joanna Newsom, Kraftwerk, Ennio Morricone...

Favourite books: Lots of social theory and philosophy: Marx, Nietzsche, Freud, Foucault, Weber, Sartre, Benjamin, Adorno, Baudrillard, Giddens, Habermas, stuff like that.
I regularly return to the warm embrace of a few sensible Anglo-Saxons: George Orwell, Isaiah Berlin, Bertrand Russell, HG Wells, Christopher Hitchens.
In terms of fiction I'm a big fan of Haruki Murakami, JG Ballard, and Yukio Mishima. I've read my share of the classics (Kafka, Hemmingway, Joyce, etc etc) with mixed success.

Favourite films: Too long to list, but The Graduate and Lost in Translation are two of personal significance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea, wine, spicy food, my guitar, a good book, the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food and sex. I am a male human.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I gave-up heavy drinking but I do occasionally go out in the hope of finding someone I might preferably stay at home with on subsequent Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A Korean girl once angrily branded me a shellfish lover.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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.. you're fun, or interesting, or physically attractive. Perhaps you're the big three.