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Thom

27 M Bristol, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:18am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
After four years in Seoul and Tokyo, lost in translation, I have finally returned to jolly old England. By comparison this feels like a land where nothing romantic or erotic or generally-exciting is ever likely to happen. So that's my excuse for using this. I can't live the button-down life like you. I want it all: the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs, the creamy middles.

I try to be reflexive (ie, not a mere product of my environment) and I find reflexivity an attractive trait in others - too many people give the impression they arrived here on a conveyor belt.
I'm something of an aesthete and a culture-vulture. Or at least, I aspire to be. I want to live a life based around cultural experience, travel, learning. I'm not in the least bit traditional or conservative, but I am a (somewhat jaded) hopeless romantic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The last few years I've been nomadically getting by as an English & guitar teacher.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guitar, giving Massages, cooking East Asian food, mischievously slipping unnecessarily obscure words into a conversation..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My glasses. Which I don't particularly need but add to my Woody Allen-like (actually not very Woody Allen-like) persona.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favourite music: The Clash, Joy Division, Brian Eno, Radiohead, Love & Arthur Lee, The Pixies, Caetano Veloso, Aphex Twin, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Talking Heads, Nick Drake, Modest Mouse, Steve Reich, Philip Glass, The Fall, Future Sound of London, Lou Reed, Massive Attack, Portishead, Bernard Herrmann, The Specials, Flaming Lips, The Beatles, Underworld, Squarepusher, Boards of Canada, The Smiths, Joanna Newsom, Kraftwerk, mid-90s Chemical Brothers/Prodigy/Moby/Fatboy Slim (before they all went a bit shit), Kate Bush, Ennio Morricone...

*Disclaimer* We needn't match on any of this stuff, just as long as you have your own tastes. If you are passionate about jazz or hip hop or Javanese gamelan, that's great. If you only listen to the musical equivalent of McDonald's, however... maybe we've got a problem. Remember what I said about conveyor belts?

WRITERS: Used to read lots of social theory and philosophy: Marx, Nietzsche, Freud, Foucault, Weber, Sartre, Benjamin, Adorno, Arendt, Giddens, Habermas - stuff like that. Not quite so much, these days, but I often find myself returning to the warm embrace of a few sensible Anglo-Saxons: George Orwell, Isaiah Berlin, Bertrand Russell, HG Wells, Christopher Hitchens.
In terms of fiction I'm a big fan of Haruki Murakami, JG Ballard, and Yukio Mishima. I've read my share of classics (Kafka, Hemmingway, Joyce, etc etc) with mixed success.

Favourite films: Too long to list, but The Graduate and Lost in Translation are two of personal significance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Various caffeinated or alcoholic beveridges, East Asian food, a guitar, a good book, internet access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whenever I'm in the UK I spend a lot of time smouldering over the lack of wealth distribution and the inadequacy of the public transport.

I used to be such a deep, idealistic thinker, but I've got to say food and sex rank increasingly high on the agenda these days.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In or out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A Korean girl once angrily branded me a shellfish lover.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
.. you're fun, or smart, or interesting. Perhaps you're the big three. In which case you might make me nervous..

I want to find someone who will go on a big trip around the Himalayas with me. Or South America?

Also: I want to start band! Message me if you can play something/sing (less important that you're female in that instance)