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28 • M • Tokyo, Japan
I’m looking for
- Women who like men
- Ages 18–39
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Today – 1:11pm
- 5′ 8″ (1.72m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly)
*Disclaimer* We needn't match on any of this stuff, just as long as you have your own tastes. If you are passionate about jazz or hip hop or Javanese gamelan, that's great. If you only listen to the musical equivalent of McDonald's, however... maybe we've got a problem.
WRITERS: Used to read lots of social theory and philosophy: Marx, Nietzsche, Freud, Foucault, Weber, Sartre, Benjamin, Adorno, Arendt, Giddens, Habermas - stuff like that. Not quite so much, these days, but I often find myself returning to the warm embrace of a few sensible Anglo-Saxons: George Orwell, Isaiah Berlin, Bertrand Russell, HG Wells, Christopher Hitchens.
In terms of fiction I'm a big fan of Haruki Murakami, JG Ballard, and Yukio Mishima. I've read my share of classics (Kafka, Hemmingway, Joyce, etc etc) with mixed success.
Favourite films: Too long to list, but The Graduate and Lost in Translation are two of personal significance.
I used to be such a deep, idealistic thinker, but I've got to say food and sex rank increasingly high on the agenda these days.
I want to find someone who will go on a big trip around the Himalayas with me. Or South America?
Also: I want to start band! Message me if you can play something/sing (less important that you're female in that instance)
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