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Thom

28 Tokyo, Japan Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 1
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Bookish, musical, hopefully quite funny guy from England. Love travelling and experiencing culture.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching business English classes and occasional guitar lessons in Shinjuku. I used to live in Seoul, and London before that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking Thai green curry, giving massages, and slipping unnecessarily obscure words into a conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends if I'm at the onsen or not
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm very passionate about music: alternative rock, electronic, punk, post-punk, jazz, hip hop, trip hop, ambient, folk, classical, world.. basically anything organic. I did once have a huge list here, but I wouldn't want to alienate anybody - we don't have to match tastes - however, it's a big turn-off when somebody has never looked beyond manufactured chart music.

Books: Philosophy, sociology, politics, history, anthropology, travel literature, and fiction. I love JG Ballard, George Orwell, Mishima Yukio, and Haruki Murakami.

Films: Too long to list, but The Graduate and Lost in Translation are two of personal significance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea, wine, Asian cuisine, my guitar, a good book, the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I used to be such a deep, idealistic thinker, but I've got to say food and women rank increasingly high on the agenda these days.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
anywhere on the Yamanote line between Takadanobaba and Ebisu. Typically.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me anything. どうぞ!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
.. you're interesting, intelligent, opinionated, secular, liberal, a dreamer... and/or just a lot of fun.