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27 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:40am
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
After three exhilarating and indelible years in Seoul and Tokyo, lost in translation, I have returned to jolly old England. It could just be down to my general lack of joie-de-vivre when not travelling, but this seems like a land where nothing romantic or erotic or generally-exciting is ever likely to happen. I can't live the button-down life like you. I want it all: the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs, the creamy middles.
Anyway, this is why I am resorting to this website. Surprise me.

I'm a guitarist and I'm really passionate about music. I was a shy kid. I'm not, now, but I've retained some residual characteristics, eg I'm bookish and reasonably articulate, I tend to think before I speak, I'm not domineering but I'm opinionated, and I have been known to make the occasional witty remark. On occasion.
I'm very honest, liberal, cynical, a contrarian, a romantic, and a bit existential; I try to be reflexive (ie, not a product of my environment) and I find reflexivity a very attractive trait in others.
I’m really good at
Massages, cooking Indian or Thai curry, and slipping unnecessarily obscure words into a conversation ("procrastinate" not being one of them).
The first things people usually notice about me
My cocky stride and musky odours
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favourite music: The Clash, Joy Division, Brian Eno, Radiohead, Love & Arthur Lee, The Pixies, Caetano Veloso, Aphex Twin, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Talking Heads, Nick Drake, Modest Mouse, Steve Reich, Philip Glass, The Fall, Future Sound of London, Lou Reed, Massive Attack, Portishead, Bernard Herrmann, The Specials, Flaming Lips, The Beatles, Underworld, Squarepusher, Boards of Canada, The Smiths, Joanna Newsom, Kraftwerk, Ennio Morricone...

Favourite books: For fun, and because of my degree, I've read a lot of social theory and philosophy- Marx, Nietzsche, Freud, Foucault, Weber, Sartre, Benjamin, Adorno, Baudrillard, Giddens, Habermas, stuff like that.
I love George Orwell, Isaiah Berlin, Bertrand Russell, HG Wells, Christopher Hitchens, and Steven Pinker.
I've been reading various history and classical literature recently. Oh, and I'm also a big fan of Murakami and J.G. Ballard.

Favourite films: I couldn't possibly list them all but The Graduate and Lost in Translation are two of personal significance.
The six things I could never do without
Tea, wine, Asian food, my guitar, a good book, the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food and sex. I am a male human.
On a typical Friday night I am
I quit heavy drinking but I do occasionally go out in the hope of finding someone I might preferably stay at home with on subsequent Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A Korean girl once angrily branded me a shellfish lover. I must have been too tired for seafood.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
.. you're smart, or funny, or physically attractive. Perhaps you're the big three.