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Thom

28 Tokyo, Japan Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:03am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Bookish, musical guy from England. Love culture and travelling.

I can't live the button-down life like you. I want it all: the terrifying lows, the dizzying highs, the creamy middles.

I'm on OKstupid primarily to make new friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach business English classes and occasional guitar lessons in Shinjuku. I used to live in Seoul for two years, and London before that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar, giving massages, and cooking Thai green curry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depends if I'm at the onsen or not
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I really love music and I'm quite knowledgeable about it: alternative rock, electronic, punk/post-punk, classical, jazz, hip hop, trip hop, ambient, folk, world.. basically all "real" music. We don't have to match on anything, but it's a turn-off if you only listen to manufactured chart pop. I had to leave Korea because of the Kpop..!

Books: Philosophy, sociology, politics, history, anthropology, travel literature, and some fiction (recently, Mishima Yukio).

Favourite films: I'm quite passionate about films, too. The list would be too long, but The Graduate and Lost in Translation are two of personal significance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea, wine, Asian cuisine, my guitar, a good book, the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I used to be such a deep, idealistic thinker, but I've got to say food and girls rank increasingly high on the agenda these days.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
drinking somewhere on the Yamanote line between Ikebukuro and Ebisu. Or at the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me anything. どうぞ.
You should message me if
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.. you're fun, interesting, and/or pretty. Perhaps you're the big three?