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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:44am
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Working on masters program
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Dutch (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am not a nice guy, I am not a bad guy, I am not a player, I am not a pansy, I am not a guy, I am not a hero, I am not a villain, I am not girly, I am not the king, I am not a hunk, I am not precious, I am not always right, I do not go better with coke, I will not seduce you, I will not make you complete, I will not own you, I will not put up with you, I will not be the one, I will not be just anyone, I will not do the twist, I may hug you if I like you and feel you'd enjoy it, I will not insist on you, I am not your dog, I will tell you about my desires if it seems that you will be comfortable with that, I will not play the game of approach and rejection, I will not be seen in total, I will not put up a facade, I will speak to all who will listen but I will not listen to all who would speak, I am not a success, I am not a failure, I am nobody's project, I am not to be adored from a distance, I am not to be despised from a distance, I am to be met speech to speech, I am not german, I am not always the same, I am not made by my clothes, I am not the sun of your life, I am not your hope for the future, I am not so you can be proud of me, I am not the raindrops on the wooden roof of a lonely cottage, I will you fuck you under a bright light illuminating every crack and flaw and pimple and old scar, I am not the answer to a question I did not ask, I am not a sinner, I am not an infidel, I am not chosen, I am compelled to write this, I do not always say the right thing, I am not a shoulder, I am not this whip, I am not the pain I can cause you, I am not the root of your pleasure, I will engage with you, I am not part of your interests, I am not in the room, I do not resemble, I am a footstep on a cracked pavement, echoing through the quiet pre-dawn like the last remaining whispers of revolution.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing (
Black Metal (
Stopping while walking to look at something beautiful.
Trying to understand as much as I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm kinky and caring, attentive and sharing, great to be with, in particular naked, but my brain is sexier than the rest of me. I'm polyamorous, open armed and open minded.
I'm willing to be labeled a secular humanist, a reductive physicalist, a constructive empiricist, a liberal socialist, a feminist, a communist, an anarchist, a metal head, odd and a few other things besides, if labels be required.
In closing:
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There's photos of me here. Comments, too and links to further things I've done. Just notice whatever you want to notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book is that one lasagna I made for visiting friends in December 2005.
My favorite movie is everything but electronic dance music.
My favorite show is the one that was canceled.
My favorite music is Funny Games or maybe Die Wand.
My favorite food is Snow Crash.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The streets are extended gutters and the gutters are full of blood and when the drains finally scab over, all the vermin will drown. The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "I’m an empty essay... fill me out!"... and I'll look down and whisper "No."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In truth, these things are very mundane. When I read or watch something, I think about what I am reading or watching. In conversations, if they are engaging, I think about whatever the issue is, if they are not, I think about how to get out of them. A fair amount of time, I entertain sexual ideas or consider what to cook or shop or whether I should follow my urge to upgrade my computer. I reflect on what I did, often to my detriment. I chastise myself according to some internalized, vague and inconsistent pattern of oughts and expectations.
If I find time in between all of this, I try to think about ethics and metaphysics, on what we mean by our concepts, why we have them and what we do with them, how we misunderstand ourselves and each other and why there is no god and why we should be really happy that there isn't.
But that's just marketing, trying to sound interesting. (Yes, when I'm trying to sound interesting, I'll say that I think about philosophy of language.) The truth is that 95% of people get annoyed when I ask them to engage with my thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either going out with friends or at home, writing, interneting, reading or gaming. Like everyone else, I guess.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Fetlife: 407124
Also, I like ginger beer. The spicy stuff.
You should message me if
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