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34 F Edmond, OK

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:13am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Christianity, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I could tell you,
If I wanted to,
What makes me
What I am.

But I don't
Really want to--
And you don't
Give a damn.

Langston Hughes

But if I must: I am misanthropic, introspective, giddy with an air of sardonicism, you know for flavor.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
''At present I am a sojourner in civilized life again.'' -Thoreau

Concurrently employing four journals.

I write to keep my head above water intellectually. I work a day job to keep my head above water economically.

Is it okay to say I really have no idea? It's not that I haven't got things figured out and I am an independent person etc. But I think this question is more like should I build or paste my resume here? What am I doing? Sharing, caring, loving, experiencing, growing: Living. How's that? But don't panic, I am gainfully employed at a very large local hospital.

Possibly having inappropriate love affairs with sushi rolls and Taco Mayo.

Recently-ish I decided to go back to school so I can now add self inflicted masochism to the list of things I'm doing with my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leaving stacks of books on my bedside tables.

Living on a constant arc of awkward.

Tripping over flat surfaces.

Staying up way past my bed time.

Picking things up with my toes.

Never folding my clean laundry.

Portmanteaus just ask sprocketsong I tend to drive her crazy with my usage of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am a human female?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No one belongs here more than you-Miranda July
One & Johnathon Livingston Seagull-both by Richard Bach-really anything by him
All the old standards and new standards, I would have loved to have been of an age to seduce Kurt Vonnegut, Leonard Cohen, Henry Miller, Gertrude Stein, & Sylvia Plath.

Beginners stands out, also Another Earth, Melancholia, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, High Fidelity, Love, Primer, Upstream Color. I like most of the Duplass brothers films, Safety Not Guaranteed is probably my favorite. Whatever I am currently watching is usually my new favorite movie.

Star Trek, BSG, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Peep Show, Buffy, Angel, Firefly, really anything Mr. Whedon does, etc etc.
I have no love for Star Wars (gasp), it just never spoke to me.

There is so much music and so little time. Here are some that I like. Amy Milan; Au revoir Simone; Broken Social Scene; Cat Power; Cocteau Twins; Decemberists; Devendra Banhart; Drive by Truckers; Echo & the Bunneymen; Emily Haines & the Soft Skeleton; Feist; Flaming Lips; Foo Fighters; Francoise Hardy; Galaxie 500; George Harrison; Haim; Husker Du; Imogen Heap; John Lennon; Leonard Cohen; Liz Phair; Low; Luna; Matt & Kim; Morrissey; Nancy Sinatra; Paul McCartney; Phoenix; Pixies; PJ Harvey; Portishead; Queen; Ringo Starr; Smiths, the; Sunset Rubdown; Tori Amos; Wussy; Yo La Tengo etc etc to infinity etc.

Vegetables, lots and lots of local fresh vegetables please. Persian food is my comfort food. But cake, cake is my favorite forever and ever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
isolation, the desert, night driving, peanut butter, fudge & banana milkshakes, a notebook, and a pen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

The things I want to say on Facebook, but don't.

Love, romantic, familial, friendly. There needs to be more love going out into our world.

How I feel like the grumpy cat of okcupid, this site is full of a lot of "no's" and "it was awfuls"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my interdependence skills.

With my nearest and dearest. Saturday's are better for me though regarding going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Your profile probably tries my patience.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are able to find something more creative to talk to me about than just my looks or the sad hi/hello. "Come on guys, use your noodle I know you have one"-Tori Amos

I won't be a party to you cheating on your spouse/significant other/life partner/whatever- I only deal in open and honest where everyone involved knows about everyone else.

Also it would be helpful if you understood all of this:

Seriously, I am not kidding in the least.

Oh, and the noodle thing is not a reference to your penis, get over yourself.