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35 Edmond, OK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:00pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am misanthropic, introspective, and giddy with an air of sardonicism, you know for flavor.

"I am a desert speaking monologues." -Violette LeDuc

I actually think I used to be better at describing myself. Now I find it a bit more troublesome. A bit more egoist if you will. I'm working on updating this profile to be a bit more me a la 2014-2015.

Things you should know and remember about me: I don't prescribe to typical gender norms. Women and men are equal, always and forever. I won't be a party to your penis ego nor will I expect you to maintain the expectation of masculine power if you feel weak please be weak. But please also know how to make yourself strong again. The same goes for you if you are a woman. It is okay to be strong it is okay to be weak.

I'm incredibly opinionated and I will always stand up against what I perceive to be social injustices. (please note I am incredibly liberal and I have very little tolerance for those who aren't) This is not an invitation to debate things I don't agree with you on, frankly I don't care.

I tend to be literal to a fault, I wouldn't describe it as gullible, more like I take people at their word this is probably because that is how I deliver myself. Like for like expectation you might say.

I flirt with everyone and it very rarely has anything to do with sex. Well mostly anyway, but I have always been this way. I'm the most friendly introvert you'll ever meet.

I fall in love with everyone I meet and not in the creepy stalkery kind of way. More like the I see your worth and value as a human and I want you to know that matters.

I have a slight fetish, nothing creepy, for stationery products. Growing up I always wanted to be a teacher. Not for the educating young minds thing but at the prospect of getting to decorate bulletin boards and have access to all of those goodies.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
''At present I am a sojourner in civilized life again.'' -Thoreau

Concurrently employing four journals.

I'm pretty actively involved in a gaming group known as the Retro Gamers Society. I also help coordinate our annual convention known as Super! BitCon. I'm not a huge gamer by any means and the newest console I own is a GameCube.

I also co-run & co-formed a sewing/knitting/crocheting group for women in the area we are collectively known as Stitch and Bitch. It's a lot of fun but I never seem to get much stitching done.

I write to keep my head above water intellectually. I work a day job to keep my head above water economically.

Is it okay to say I really have no idea? It's not that I haven't got things figured out and I am an independent person etc. But I think this question is more like should I build or paste my resume here? What am I doing? Sharing, caring, loving, experiencing, growing: Living. How's that? But don't panic, I am gainfully employed at a very large local hospital.

Possibly having inappropriate love affairs with sushi rolls and Taco Mayo.

I really love my work and I enjoy going to work knowing the end result is going toward the greater good but I'm on the ground level and I don't like the next step (position) in my climb to the top so recently-ish I decided to go back to school so that I may continue doing the good work/fight but in a slightly different significantly more lucrative means. So, I can now add self inflicted masochism to the list of things I'm doing with my life. I'm hoping to be ready to enroll for the fall semester of 2015.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leaving stacks of books on my bedside tables.

Living on a constant arc of awkward.

Tripping over flat surfaces.

Staying up way past my bed time.

Picking things up with my toes.

Never folding my clean laundry.

Portmanteaus just ask sprocketsong I tend to drive her crazy with my usage of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am a human female?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
No one belongs here more than you-Miranda July
One & Johnathon Livingston Seagull-both by Richard Bach-really anything by him
All the old standards and new standards, I would have loved to have been of an age to seduce Kurt Vonnegut, Leonard Cohen, Henry Miller, Gertrude Stein, & Sylvia Plath.

Beginners stands out, also Another Earth, Melancholia, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, High Fidelity, Love, Primer, Upstream Color, Heathers, Poltergeist. I'm a sucker for most end of the world/apocalyptic types films, also films with extreme storms that create dire circumstances are an indulgence of mine. I will watch any horror film, even if it's terrible. I like most of the Duplass brothers films, Safety Not Guaranteed is probably my favorite, except I just saw The one I Love and it was pretty amazing as well. Whatever I am currently watching is usually my new favorite movie.

Star Trek, BSG, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Peep Show, Buffy, Angel, Firefly, really anything Mr. Whedon does, etc etc.
I have no love for Star Wars (gasp), it just never spoke to me.

There is so much music and so little time. Here are some that I like. Amy Milan; Au revoir Simone; Broken Social Scene; Cat Power; Cocteau Twins; Decemberists; Devendra Banhart; Drive by Truckers; Echo & the Bunneymen; Emily Haines & the Soft Skeleton; Feist; Flaming Lips; Foo Fighters; Francoise Hardy; Galaxie 500; George Harrison; Haim; Husker Du; Imogen Heap; John Lennon; Leonard Cohen; Liz Phair; Low; Luna; Matt & Kim; Morrissey; Nancy Sinatra; National, The; Paul McCartney; Phoenix; Pixies; PJ Harvey; Portishead; Queen; Ringo Starr; Smiths, the; Sunset Rubdown; Tori Amos; Wussy; Yo La Tengo etc etc to infinity etc.

Vegetables, lots and lots of local fresh vegetables please. Persian food is my comfort food. But cake, cake is my favorite forever and ever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
isolation, the desert, night driving, peanut butter, fudge & banana milkshakes, a notebook, and a pen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

The things I want to say on Facebook, but don't.

Love, romantic, familial, friendly. There needs to be more love going out into our world.

How I feel like the grumpy cat of okcupid, this site is full of a lot of "no's" and "it was awfuls"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my interdependence skills.

With my nearest and dearest. I'm the secondary gf to a guy, third_of_trees, who is the hinge on our little poly "V".

Saturday is typically better for me though regarding going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm secretly a people person. I only play a hateful bitch on tv.

I probably cuss too much.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you actually want to talk to me like a human and have meaningful conversation with the intention of actually meeting and having dinner or something similar. You should also not have pictures of yourself mostly naked pretending to be Mr. or Ms. super sexy time. Seriously, why do people think that's appealing? I can pretty much guarantee that if you think it's okay to portray yourself this way on this site that we will not get along.

You can also get lost if you are looking for a third/unicorn/some variation etc. I find your pursuit of me in this fashion incredibly offensive.

Yes I'm listed as bisexual on this website but that is only because there isn't a box for Pansexual please adjust your perspective accordingly.