I have always wanted to be married and have a family.
A wife who love Jesus 1st, then loves me for who I am and then our families and so on.
It very disheartening to be 50 and still wondering where she is. I know I have never meet her yet because if I did we both would know it.
I'm a realist and know that no relationship is perfect, but would rather be with that special someone and work on a relationship then be alone drifting in the dark void of isolation like I have been most my life.
I am crazy, spontaneous, animated, thought full, and in touch with whom I am. Laughter is a must. Sounds crazy, but being with someone and sharing a good laugh is great to me, amongst other things. Also I am very positive and can looking at a problem from a different angle to see how to solve it. Just when you think you have me figured out I will do something much unexpected (the good kind).
I am very close to my family and would hope you are as well. Both my parents are living (I don't know how come they are still around considering what I put them through in my childhood).
I am a hard worker for both job and relationship.
Learned long ago it's a 'US' thing, not a me or you thing, but 'US'.
What I am looking for is:
A woman who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.
Who is willing to do what it takes. I will fight for you and would hope you will fight for me.
Wants to be pampered and treated like a queen.
Who will return as much love as is given.
Someone that not just is lead by the heart but common sense as well.
Family oriented is a must.
Positive energy "silly/goofy/crazy(the good kind)."
Someone who can tell me what her needs are or what is on her mind and not play the 'Guess what I'm thinking game'. Someone who will talk to me and not shoot from the hip. Same goes for me as well. If an issue comes up I try to think about it and how to word it 1st before saying anything.
Non smoker or drugs.
Social drinking here and there is ok. I enjoy a good beer myself now and then.
Someone who will meet me halfway at times. No relationship is perfect and at times meeting halfway is needed.
I enjoy traveling, cooking, BBQing, snow skiing, scuba diving (tropical locations only not around here), computer related things, digital photography, brewing beer (I need to get my setup going. Trust me it is fun). I have a lot more in interest just takes forever to list them.
I like most music, but not rap.
Movies just about all kinds. Really depends on my mood though.
Pets- I used to have 3 Red tail Boas, 100gal Salt Water tank, 3 ferrets and now I got a dog.
Well if you read this far I thank you. I know my pics are not the best and I am working on better ones. I do know looks plays a large part that sparks a relationship in most cases. So if you do not message me or reply when I message you I understand. Life is to short for games. I do not know about you, but I do not want to grow old alone.
Fall is my favorite time of the year, but alone it's not as fun. Want to find that special someone to walk hand in hand in the fall leaves. Take in the sights of it and the sounds as the holidays approach, but so far have only seen that special someone in my dreams. Saw her last night and we went for a walk and I felt completely happy. Then I work up and back to reality. *sigh*
Come on, where are you?
Gotta find you before time runs out.
Good to know-
Matthew 5:32English Standard Version (ESV)
32 But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.