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  • Ages 22-36
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  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Aug 7, 2013
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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“Man is least himself when he speaks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.”

I like that one, though I'm not sure what Oscar Wilde would think about the veneer of Facebook profiles and online dating self-summaries. Take it as you will, then. I love my life. I'm extremely lucky to have it, but worked my ass off at the same time to get here. I'm a doctor in an ER. My job is wild, difficult, and often deals in life-and-death. Performing the job is, itself, a disease that can only be cured by whiskey. But I am really good at it, which tends to balance the scales.

If it helps, I'm an ENFP. I like to learn, and to continually adapt. All of our upsides are also our downfalls, so it doesn't make much sense to pitch my qualities here, though metaphors and situations might be better. If I'm a drink, I'm a stiff rye; not for everyone, but the only thing for some. If we were stranded in the Alaskan wilderness, being chased by bears or wolves, you would be at least 50% sure I'd somehow get us both to safety.
What I’m doing with my life
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Devoting a lot of time to muay thai. Eventually I'd like to have some fights under my belt. When not training, I also run, play football, tennis, ski, work out.

I'm thinking about a second career or another degree.

The first time I went to MIT's OpenCourseWare website I had a knowledge-gasm. I spend a lot of time there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Improvising. If I could be a professional MacGyver, I'd be at peace.

Writing long letters and personal emails. That probably doesn't sound like the most masculine self-endorsement, admittedly, but I think I can write a letter that would make you want to rent a safety deposit box.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sharp attire, booty
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Homeland, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, The Wire

Eternal Sunshine, Before Sunset, Let the Right One In, Godfather Pt 1, Pulp Fiction, Blue Valentine

Sex Drugs & Cocoa Puffs, A Song of Ice and Fire, Pillars of the Earth, Freakonomics, Blink, The Corrections, A People's History of the United States
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People's expectations based on appearance, and what they end up thinking after the fact. The European sovereign debt crisis. Time travel. The best fried chicken in the city. My first great invention. Ideas for a novel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to be the best-performing offspring in my family. Now I'm the lousy, good-for-nothing brother of a Food Network chef.
You should message me if
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You enjoy eating and drinking exceptionally well. You are smart and curious or have some unusual talent. You don't want to be bored.