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51 • San Diego, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Feb 1
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Graduated from university
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
I’m looking for that woman. She’s bright, creative, confident, intimate, feminine and tough at the same time, speaks her mind; listens to mine. We connect on multiple levels, but we also surprise each other every now and then which just makes it feel even better. Neither of us is perfect; but we’re damned close ;)
My kids always keep me young at heart. I learn so much from them every day. My goal is to be learning and discovering new things until that very last day. I love photography, playing pool, geeking out in my job, exploring new restaurants, a good microbrew, red wine, cycling, and a good conversation.
Let’s go exploring together…
Movies... Kill Bill, Kick Ass, any good sci fi.
Food.... Sushi, Thai, good fish tacos, wine, beer
In a relationship, I thrive with honest communication. The ability for my partner to listen and hear what I have to say and for her to open up and share her thoughts and feelings is a huge turn on.
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