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6' 3" (1.91m)
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Catholicism and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
English, Arabic, Spanish
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Grew up in Texas. Played college football. {Built like a Muscular Linebacker my whole life]) spent a lot of time on the practice team due to injuries and NCAA/ ROTC scholarship rules.
Took a commission as an Officer (Lieutenant) in the Army upon graduation from Texas A&M. I have been in the Army for over 27 years. Stationed in Germany, Italy, Argentina and Japan ( Iwate in Japan was named after a volcano we used to climb). Been to; first Gulf War, Somalia, Bosnia, Kosovo, Iraq (x2), Afghanistan (x2) and a half dozen places just like them.
Got paid to jump out of planes, blow things up, and scuba dive. Sometimes at the same time. I once jumped in training with an Aussie Special forces Airborne unit unto the Great Barrier Reef with 2lbs of explosives, my Parachute over my Scuba tanks at night on a Drop Zone called "Shark"
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on Phd. From Johns Hopkins

Trying to stay in a good workout routine.

Keeping the weeds out of my vegetable garden.

Keeping my fruit orchard groomed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going to the gym to work out.

Being Retired!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Chest, Arms

(My Good Friends know all my stories.
My Best Friends lived them with me)!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love to read, eat, watch movies and listen to music! Sometimes all at once!

Book; Sun Tzu, the Art of War

Movie; Princess Bride

Show; Big Bang Theory

Song; Garth Brooks, The Dance

Food; Asian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
As long as we are talking about things and not people

Air, water, sunlight, food, Thumbs, eyes,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is the Declaration of Independence Written on Hemp?

Why do men keep looking for the perfect Barbie? I guess I never played with dolls, So I don't get the fascination!

I'll give up my guns when the President gives up his Secret Service protection detail.

I think about how the "Underground Railroad" helped black slaves escape from their southern masters. How they fed them and armed them with rifles to protect themselves on their journey North . After the Civil War the Underground Railroad changed its name to the NRA in 1871, (the National Rifle Association).

I think about if 6 million Jews would've had weapons to fight Nazis at every turn during the "round up process", WWII would have never happened. A Nazis coming to your door to take you away shoot him in the face. A Nazi marching you in the line to go to the gas chamber, Bum Rush and shank. There would have been one less Nazis the Allies would have had to fight. Now multiply 1 x 6,000,000.

The bottom line is the day the government rounds up your guns, is the day they take your freedom. And they can do anything they want to any group they want to do it to.

If Christians, Jews, atheist, homosexuals, agnostics, independent women (who like to drive cars, put make up on, and wear jeans), schoolgirls, property owners, and celebrities don't wake up and push back against those who say "if you don't take Muslims into the USA your anti-American". You will have the same fate or your children will Live that fate as the Jews in World War II did. Throughout it's 1,200 year history Islam has used the sword mixed with mass migration to push forward it's agenda while Christianity has used love, mercy and understanding to push forward it's agenda. Mohammed was a General in the army of Medina before he was a Prophet. The first thing he did when he pushed the army of Medina into Mecca was to kill all the Jews and Christians and not the pagan masses of Mecca who declared war on him. The Koran reads like a playbook for military strategy, especially in the chapters "Jonah", "The Cow", and "The Cave".

I think about all the hellholes I have been deployed to and realize Skinny, weak, arrogant, short, anti-gun, loudmouth people should not provoke social change In the anarchy phase of a revolution, they are the first to go. Teachers and lawyers don't have long life expectancy's either.

With Gay marriage comes Gay divorce! Recently in Washington state a male couple went in front of the court to get a divorce, they had adopted children. The judge gave the children to the man who was more financially capable of taking care of the children. The new Supreme Court ruling has ended gender bias in the court rooms. (Also, men can get out of marrying a woman simply by saying "Marriage is for gays". Tosh.O lol)

I think about how crime dropped significantly 18 to 25 years after Roe v Wade made having abortion legal! I predict crime will drop significantly again 18 to 25 years after Obama Care is fully implemented. This time around the federal government is paying for birth control and abortions so the little, Poor, unwanted, unloved thug bastards won't be Born, in order to cause Chaos on the streets in 18 to 25 years.

I think about how soybeans and wheat can absorb up to 90% of pesticides sprayed on them while in the field. I then start wondering how much aluminum is leached into these two food products during processing. We then listen to Vegans explain how they got their cancer from when they ate beef. I believe they are "High" on Deets! Go Paleo!

I think humans need a license to raise pets. If you chain, fight, whip or abandon your pet, trial is waived and you go straight to jail or shot.

Why is it in mythology that Count Dracula is frightened by Christianity or a Cross? When in historical fact the real Count Vladimir "The Impaler" Dracul did more to save Christianity then any man in history when his army defeated 10,000 Muslim Turks in Transylvania. He did put their bodies on stakes, drank their blood, put tons of Garlic in his dungeon to kill the smell, and keep Bat's out, but that was because he was crazy not because he wasn't a good Christian. Another situation where fact is better than fiction.

I think if you change your name from Barry to Barrack you would take the time to change your Muslim middle name Hussein when converting to Christianity? All Christians in the Middle East will tell you, "no Christian name their children Hussein", because it comes from the name of the Prophet Mohammed.

I think about all the poor countries I've been to, and I will say that the USA has some of the fattest poor people in the world.

I think about the people immigrating to the USA from socialist countries. When they establish themselves in the USA, they turn around and want to change our country to socialism. They want the President to act as a Dictator. Don't they realize that their country failed because of socialist Dictators? Didn't the Nazis and the Soviet union show how Socialism doesn't work. What makes this country great is hard work, less government and the idea that one day you can be your own boss. In socialist countries everybody shares the pain of poverty with no Freedoms. There is no initiative to become better!

Is Earth another planets Hell?

Statistically; 1 in 5 women believe that spanking a child with your hand on the butt is child abuse. If you're that 1 person do not contact me. We will not get along! I do not want to deal with your Drama. (yes spanking your child is legal in Texas) I don't spank much. But I would if I had to. My children do push-ups followed by flutter kicks followed by mountain climbers. If they still want to sound off after that (which they don't) we start the process again. It is the fear of getting spanked that would start the physical fitness cycle again

I believe if you do drugs, smoke, are over 35% BMI, have over 10 tattoos and body piercings you should pay for your own Health care.

Why do women say that they would like to find a Good man who is Smart, Romantic, Handsome, has money, and can make them laugh. When their brains are hardwired by 20,000 years of evolution for situational events that occur with men who have a "Dark side" and are "Fixer Uppers".
ex Bestseller book.; Fifty Shades of Gray. Female Porn like this outsells male porn 2 to 1. Men have been trying to figure out women for a long time. I think we now have the key! Lol

I think about these young men who wear their pants around the crack of their ass. Please "Pull up your pants and put on a belt! It's got to be embarrassing when fat, out of shape cops with body armor and boots chase you down". I know they think it's cool to wear their pants this way, but it is mimicked after gay men in prison who we're showing off their junk. In reality it also demonstrated these gay men had the AIDS virus and we're losing weight. Straight prisoners mimicked this routine because it kept the Big Bulls from raping them. Now it's cool having your drawers show! Only in America

It's funny, there's just enough Religion in this world to keep us in World Wars, But not enough Believers to keep us in World Peace. God does not = man made Religion.

I often think about what a Chinese army officer once said to me: "We do not fear your Military, we fear the 400 million weapons that the Americans have.

I think about the Second Amendment, and how it was NOT created for Hunters like some liberals think. It was created by the Framers of the Constitution to stop the British from stationing soldiers in Colonial homes. Read 3rd Amendment. Now days substitute British for Chinese.

“God created men,” goes the famous frontier saying, “Colonel Colt made them equal.”
Think about that for second. In all the countries where guns are banned are all men equal? Are women equal in those societies?

While on patrol in Afghanistan in early 2003. We came across a group of men who were about ready to stone a woman in a Burka (widowed). I remember the look on the group leaders face when I told my interpreter to tell him that if one person throws a rock he Dies first. They all dropped the rocks and dispersed rapidly. Oh yeah.... the woman's crime; she stole bread to feed her children. My men all chipped in and gave her $100 (basically three months pay for the average Afghan) And made sure she got back to her tribe/clan without incident. Gave her and her children all the MREs (MealsReady toEat) we could spare. ( My Interpreter explained to me those men believed since she was widowed that she was their property and could deal with her any way they wanted according to Sharia Law. [Women are considered property in over half the countries in the world]) The reason I think about this often is because this type of event happened all the time in the early stages of Afghanistan and Iraq war. I was just thinking if that woman would rather have an American soldier with a gun pointed in the face of Evil or a feminist with a banner protesting in front of the White House? My point is American soldiers with guns do more for human rights and women's rights in 1 day then any human rights or feminist organizations do in 10 years.

When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?

The Republican Party was established as an Abolitionist party to help free slaves. Today very few blacks vote Republican.

Why was Martin Luther King a Republican?... Oh Yeah; because Democrats were the party of the KKK.

Why was Abraham Lincoln a Republican.... Oh yeah because the Democrats were the party of
Socialism (democrats use social welfare programs to gain votes, this obligating a large swath of the population to the government. Thus killing Free Will, initiative and respect, and has a lot of young people disenfranchised. They lose their individual drive. They join gangs in order to establish their individual worth, identity and sense of belonging. This has them fighting for the scraps of human depravity associated with drugs.
Example: When LBJ started the majority of these Social Welfare programs 50 years ago African-Americans were 40% of the population today they are 13%. A lot of the Socialist programs drove the fathers out of the families, mothers into abortion clinics/depression, and kids into gangs and prisons.

The founder of Planned Parenthood was the wife of a KKK member. With the help of liberal Democrats she disproportionately established clinics in poor black neighborhoods . Today blacks are only 13% of the population. But they account for 50% of the abortions. The founder did what the KKK failed to do. I wonder if America thinks that social engineering is the right thing to do? I think it is a breakdown of the moral fabric of America.

I think about those Brave radical Republicans in Congress in 1864 who passed the 13th (abolishing slavery ) and the 14th (human rights) Amendments. It's those Brave Republicans that conserve the 2nd Amendment to protect all the amendments.. The government should always fear the people not the other way around. (the right to bear arms was a Liberal idea in itself back in the day! it scared the hell out of Kings, Tyrants, and Dictators) "Go Abe go Thaddeus".

Governor Wallace was a Democrat who blocked the doors in protest to stop black students from attending the University of Alabama

Is Disney just for kids?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night is movie night. Saturday is for dancing.
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I can easily be bribed with puppies.

I came in 222rd in the Marine Corps Marathon in 1989. I started the race weighing 222 lbs. And finished Weight 214 pounds (Marine Corps birthday age [ reason for marathon was 14th annual] that year was 214) my number for the race was 22214

I like low-sodium, thin sliced bacon in the morning . I also have four organic eggs in the morning as well. I always eat fish for my evening meal.

I do not drink alcohol. My college days were a blur because I did and I regret that.

My loathings are simple: stupidity, oppression, crime, cruelty, rap music

I hate rap. Not just the music but everything about it... the egos, objectification of women, the Hatred in the lyrics, flaunting of money and lack of character...Money can't buy Class!

I am a conservative. I do not think abortion should be used as a form of birth control, But I also have read the book Sun Tzu. Tzu States: "when the enemy is making a mistake do not try to correct them". (Only liberals and people who are promiscuous get abortions).

During the 12th century some Spanish ships were sunk off the Irish coast by the British. Some Irish towns hid the Spanish and Black Spanish moors from the British. My 12th great-grandfather was one of those men. I have white skin and green eyes, but I am proud of my Black Irish heritage

I am suspicious of persons who size up a new situation very quickly, claims understanding, and steaks out an ironclad position. Insight usually requires long periods of discussion, research, analysis, rationalization, and counter argument and it rarely arrives while attacking a matter directly or on the first pass. If someone says that they are able to quickly understand a complex matter, They misunderstood or lying. Do not buy What they're selling and run, fast!

I replaced the word "Hope" in my vocabulary with Audacity when I deployed to combat zones

I've been shot, stabbed, broke my neck and back. Have had trauma to the head so severe it stopped my breathing and heart. I'm not as fast as I once was, but who is? (Fast is so overrated). I can still walk on my own and go to the gym regularly I'm not telling you this to feel sorry for me. Please don't, I gave a lot more than I took!! It was/is my life and I wouldn't change a thing.

I have one pair each of Superman, Spiderman, Thor and Batman Boxers. Don't laugh until you see my Superman and Thor pose. When the Lightning is just right and there is Thunder in the background I look like A Clark Kent version of Thor! LOL You will think you're actually in 3-D version of the movies!

Had a book written about my unit and I in combat.
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You like to sleep under the stars. You like scars.

If you understand the phrase everyone dies, but not everyone truly lives.
Pain does not end the world. Nither does despair. The world ends when you're dead. Until then, you got more Love, happiness, life and punishment in store. Be Brave... and give some back. Learn to Live. Learn to have fun. "Either get busy living or get busy dying"!