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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:01pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a 41 year old Brooklyn transplant from St. Louis looking for someone compatible to spend time with. I originally moved here in 2001. Let's meet, get to know each other, have fun and see where it goes. I'm open to all types of activities and social events.

The opportunity to meet new people and share new experiences is reason enough alone to join okcupid. So let's do the damn thing!!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stumbling my way through a dark room.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making steaks
Making people laugh
Debating (In fact I'm a master-debater *rim shot*)
Getting to the point
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite music includes Prince, Sade, John Coltrane, Little Brother, and Miles Davis. The neo-soul music of the late 90's-early 2000's is a personal favorite. Maxwell, D'angelo, Jill Scott, Erykah Badhu, etc. I'm still lamenting the fact that Floetry broke up. Marsha's visceral singing was just the right juxtaposition to Natalie's breathless british prose. I also like Electronica, trip-hop, Acid jazz, and traditional, old school hip hop. I dare you to try to beat me at reciting Rakim lyrics. I dare you!!!!!

I love reading, but I don't have a favorite book. Some of my favorites include The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins, Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison, and anything by Michael Crichton and Tom Clancy. I'm currently reading Game of Thrones: Fire and Ice, The New Jim Crow; The War on Drugs, and Robert Patterson's first book in the Alex Cross series Along Came a Spider. Oh yeah, I read more than one book at a time, not because I'm brilliant but because I think I have undiagnosed ADD. When I was coming up, kids didn't have ADD...they were just bad. lol
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Political discussions
Good debates
Aesthetically pleasing surroundings
Good whiskey *hicup*
FOOTBALL ...not soccer....but red blooded American FOOTBALL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who the Rams are going to draft in the first round?
Why Coltrane didn't do more ballads?
I hope with all my might that the EU breaks up so my money can go further during European vacation,
How my porn stash isn't hidden.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being somewhere and doing something that involves food, wine, whiskey, or working up a sweat. The best Friday nights involve them all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like Phil Collins/Genesis...there I said it.
Don't be surprised that In the Air Tonight is on my ipod.
You should message me if
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If you can hold your own in debates ranging from comparative politics to whether Off the Wall was better than Thriller.

*** If you don't have a picture, please keep it moving. I AM NOT asking you to send me a picture via email. That is an extra layer of nonsense no word you write on your profile is going to convince me is worth enduring. This is online dating, I have a picture...I expect you to have one.******