Yes, I said it.
I love honesty but am seldom brutally honest. I am a realist with big dreams. I dislike cold logic, but prefer to approach everything rationally and reasonably. I am spontaneous, impulsive but always reasonable. I am a study of contradictions, but there's not an inconsistency to be found.
I am a very active, youthful and thinking man who has both sides of the brain working full blast. I am interested in virtually everything… travel, music of all kinds, books, food, restaurants, wine, art, movies, etc. But hey, if it’s not fun, I’m not going to do it. Fortunately I am pretty easily entertained so there are a lot of things that qualify.
I’m a young professional with a great career in social business/technology and really enjoy my job. I pride myself in my work, accomplishments, and continue to be success-driven. My work affords me the free time to pursue other passions in my life and to set my own hours. I enjoy working out hard, clearing the mind and the zen of martial arts. I have great friends and am very happy with my life, but am not a man to brag. People see me as a variety of things; bold, self confident, laid back, non-judgmental, honest and very physically fit, but I’ve always considered the whole “who am I” thing to be kind of limiting.
About what I’m looking for: I will not make a list, because I do not fall in love with a list of attributes, but with a real person whose aura and character so resonates with me. What I’d really like to find is more than a pretty face that I can actually connect with on a deeper level. What matters most is how we make each other feel, the excitement, energy, passion, tension, and simply enjoying each others company. Rare, I know, but for my myriad of shortcomings, I am what some would call “delusionally optimistic.”
I care little for writing clever profiles nor messages back and forth, I’d rather talk to a woman face-to-face. Email me and lets get together and share a few laughs and stories over coffee or drinks, no pressure, just something fun and relaxing… and see where this will go.