27 Springfield, MA
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My self-summary
Hey, not really much to talk about in this box. All the other ones really answered the main questions. If you want to know more about me just ask and I'll let you know. Things are always changing so I revamp the entire profile every few months or so!!
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I'm working my job at a martial arts studio, while acting as a PCA for my grandfather. The children at the studio can drive me insane, and my grandfather can be pretty crotchety. But overall I guess I do kind of like knowing that I am making a difference in lives even if its only small things.

In my free time I like to spend time with friends or a significant other if I have one at the time, or just veg out and relax in the pool, play some games, and have a day of rest.
I’m really good at
I'm good at a few things I suppose. I tend to learn very quickly.

I love to cook, especially for others. Nothing quite so rewarding as making something that people enjoy.

I'm really good at reading and understanding people. Although I can't always relate to the specific feelings that person may be experiencing I am very good at understanding them and recognizing them.

I may be starting to get too old for this, but I'm very good at games and no not just the electronic kind. I bowl and play pool in leagues, I really enjoy strategy games such as chess or othello, and yes I can work my way around a game controller as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- I used to read consistently while in school. At this point I usually only read things for the sake of satire and humor but for the most part when I read its to learn a new skill. So trade or craft books I suppose?

Movies- I love a LOT of movies. Superhero movies, comedies, action, thrillers, horror (zombies particularly <3) sci-fi. Generally I like most movies, but my top 3 all time favorites are hands down: Lucky Number Slevin, Lord of War, and The Boondock Saints.

Shows- I haven't specifically watched television since I was about 16 or so. I much prefer to play a game so I haven't seen as many shows as many others have, I only keep up with streaming sites such as netflix. But my favorites so far are definitely: The Walking Dead, Supernatural, Dexter, and Archer.

Music- My music taste is also all over the place, but I definitely have the largest amount of classic rock in my collection, with Billy Joel taking a very prominent spot. I'm not a big fan of rap, hip hop, reggae, or country.

Food- I like to make my own food, and I like almost anything. But if I were to choose my absolute favorite meal, as in it were my last meal of my life, I would want a nice prime rib, mashed potatoes, and asparagus. I'd also want to make it myself but I can't give away ALL the goods here, you want recipe's you better message me ;)

As a side note, I am also an avid gamer, including electronic and non-electronic games. I won't bother going through my list here but if you wanna talk video games feel free to message me on that too, just don't expect to beat me
The six things I could never do without
Other than the literal basic necessities to live, there is nothing I could "Never do without". But 6 things that I really enjoy having and would be upset if I lost them

TIme to spend with good friends
Games to play
Good food
Decent sleep (which is different from necessary sleep! That's that sleep where you don't need to be up for any reason, and you don't constantly get woken up and go back to sleep, where you just get a nice solid however many hours you needed in a single stretch)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Interactions throughout the day. Sometimes something will happen and I'll think "man I wish I said this" or "I totally should have done that!" "What would be different if I'd done this?" I'm a huge 'what if' kind of thinker sometimes. Ultimately pointless but I guess I'm one of those nerds who likes to consider the potential of multi-verse theory and occasionally consider the impact of all the various choices I've made, could have made, and could potentially make in the future, and how that will affect where I inevitably end up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical?? What is this... Typical, you speak of? Wait... some people actually have consistencies?! Really? Wow... fascinating... Home, out with friends, out on the town, or literally any other possibility in between there I guess.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
... Private things? Another strange concept. As long as its my personal business to share I have no private things. I'd rather people hate me for the truth than love me for a lie, I rarely if never hide things about myself or the type of person I am.
You should message me if
Well obviously if you think we would be a good match? That seems like a pretty straight up reason to message someone.

If you like the idea of throwing out traditional gender stereotypes (Yes society, a woman IS allowed to make initial contact with a man, and no it does not come off as desperate. The confidence is actual not only refreshing but a turn on!)

If you want to talk cooking things. I'm not the snobby type of chef who likes to hide his recipes, I'm happy to share if you really want one.

If you're a huge video game or zombie nerd. Even if we in no way become romantically involved you can never have too many game/zombie friends!

Just if you plain old feel like it? I'm generally pretty polite (until you get to know me anyway!) and generally always respond, what have you really got to lose?

Don't bother to message me if you're extremely racist, sexist, or homophobic. We're all entitled to our own opinions but I'm an equalist and I'm not interested in hearing about how you hate whatever group of people.

Probably not a good idea to message me if religion is the driving factor in your life. I have no issues with anyone who is religious, however it is something I will willingly choose not to participate in and I don't know too many people who are serious about their religion that are also okay with that.

And finally, if you're looking for a quick and fast person to become your significant other. That's not me, I've been single, I've been in relationships, both good and bad, and I've learned what I'm looking for. I've got the patience and I have no problem waiting until the right person comes along.