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26 Springfield, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:36pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Open relationship
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Chris, and like everyone else in existence it seems I hate trying to summarize myself. Honestly you're probably better off just messaging me if you're interested but since it seems like very few girls take initiative here (which is a shame, cause I find forwardness attractive in a woman!) then I will try to cover the important details here.

First of all I feel I should clarify on my "open relationship" status above. Yes I am currently dating another girl, No I am not looking to cheat on her or leave her, and no I am not looking for a girl to have threesomes with us. This profile represents only me, while my girlfriend is bisexual, she only asks to be introduced if I find another girl to see. After that you could have as much, or as little interaction with her as you like.

I am looking for a girl who values trust, openness (in communication I mean) and is not a jealous type. Ethnic backgrounds, religions, and sexual orientations don't matter to me in the slightest, as long as we click on levels of friendship and romantically. (So no, I am not looking for a girl just to have sex with either)

If you haven't been scared off already then it means you are either interested in the idea, or you're just looking for a friend (Or you didn't read thoroughly...), in which case read on and see if you think we will click. Don't be shy about messaging me, I ALWAYS reply, I don't check the site daily so if you don't receive a reply right away just be patient.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working as the head instructor of a martial arts studio, I was hoping to keep going to become a master but more lucrative job opportunities have presented themselves and I'm thinking I'm going to go for it.

I am in an open relationship and have been hoping to meet a girl who is willing to also be a part of that, other then that I'm just happy meeting new friends even if nothing comes of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at reading people and situations. I am good at a lot of other things but if I had to pick one thing I was just really awesome at it would be that.

Other things I'm good at are games, cooking, learning, improvising, martial arts, and plenty of other things but I don't think anyone is actually gonna read this entire list.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me, I don't know what people notice first about me unless they tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Long questions, guess I'll break it up

Books- I don't read much anymore, I get distracted too easily with other things

Movies- I love lots of movies, comedies and horror are usually my favorites, with zombies having a special place in my heart. But my all time top 3 favorites are Lucky Number Slevin, The Boondock Saints, and Lord of War.

Shows- Hands down, The Walking Dead is my favorite. But Supernatural and Dexter really fought for the second place spot. I also really like Archer, and occasionally will indulge in a bit of anime as well.

Music- My taste is all over the place, but my favorite tends to be Classic rock, and rap and country tend to race to the bottom

Food- Hard to pin down my favorite food, I like almost everything except sea food, I love to cook for myself too. If I had to pick one thing over anything else though, I suppose it would have to be prime rib, pretty much anything steak or steak related, paired off with some fancy mashed potatoes (cause I can do better than salt and butter!) and seasoned asparagus!

Games- I feel like adding this because I like to play games a lot. Big fan of video games, though I also like things like chess, pool, bowling. Horror games are my favorite, then action/adventure and RPG, old school platformers. Not a big fan of FPS, or fighting games, and downright loathe sports games. I'd much rather go out and play the sport then play a game about playing the sport.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Sun

Yep... I know that seems like it doesn't say anything about me but if you know how to read into a deeper meaning you should understand exactly what I'm saying here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lots of things... my mind never stops.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as a "typical" Friday night. I just do whatever I can.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't really have private things. I am willing to discuss any aspect of my life, personality, preferences, or anything else. If there is anything you want to know about me just flat out ask and I will answer it.
You should message me if
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Message me if you are okay with the fact that I am in an open relationship and am not looking to replace her.

Or if you have similar interests to my own and want to be friends.

Or if you want to talk zombies or cooking (weird to put those two together but hey I like both!)

Or if you have ANY questions for me regarding anything (yes I will answer ridiculous questions as well, I like to entertain myself too)

Dont bother to message me if

You are a guy hoping I'm sexually interested in men. I'm not, answered right there. Please don't waste either of our time with this one.

You have a strong dislike for a group of people based on things like race, gender identity, or sexual preferences. I am a full equalist, you're entitled to your opinions but I'm not interested in hearing them.

You are looking for a one night stand. I know it says I'm looking for another partner, but I am not looking for a girl to have sex with for one night and then never talk to again. If we only have sex once then fine, but I at least want to make a friend out of it