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34 Diamond Bar, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 11
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is my first time in any dating site, so I'm not sure what to write, but I'll give it a shot...

Stop right now if you have a problem with my having a child, because I have an 8-year-old son.

Ok, here we go. I'm currently in a doctorate program for Clinical Psychology. I have my masters in psychology and teach it as an adjunct professor. No I don't read minds and I have no interest in diagnosing you. ;).

I love variety and trying new things. If I had my way, I'd be traveling the world right now.

I'm creative and enjoy painting, drawing, and photography.

Also, I don't care what my Ok Cupid personality profile says. I'm a romantic, dammit!

What I am looking for:
Someone with goals and a sense of responsibility. Doesn't mean you have to be serious all the time; I enjoy a sense of humor immensely, but you have to know when to be serious.
Note: I am not Christian. I don't care if you are, as long as you don't care that I'm not. If it would bother you in the long term, please don't message me. I don't want to waste your time or mine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Answering this would require writing a book. Ask me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art, what I do, thinking about things, adapting to new environments, bending spoons with my mind. (Ok, i might be fudging the truth a little on that last one.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Anne McCaffrey especially Dragonriders of Pern, The Structure of Awareness by Thomas Oden, Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl, Military Brats by Mary Edwards Wertsch

Music: I enjoy listening to a variety of music, but I'm not an avid follower of anyone. Examples: Tupac, Imagine Dragons, Michael Jackson, Aerosmith, Barenaked Ladies, Wu Tang, Matchbox 20, pretty much all of 90's hip-hop. Yeah, I'm stuck in the 90's music-wise.

Movies: most superhero movies, Die Hard(no one was more excited than me when they brought it back), the Bourne series, Last Holiday, Blind Dating, Serenity. .. ahh there's just too many. So I'll say I like everything except horror (sorry-I just don't see the point)

Tv shows: Chuck, Dexter, Firefly, 3rd Rock from the sun, Dr Who, Sherlock, Hart of Dixie, Pushing Daisies, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Gotham, Arrow, Flash...

Food: I'm a vegetarian, but that doesn't make me picky. Favorites are Indian and Mediterranean.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, obviously. My eyesight, goals, me-time, my mind, and new experiences.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe is constantly expanding. So. .. what is it expanding into?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no such thing as a typical Friday night. I'm just as happy staying in as going out. Both are fun. Both are necessary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I REALLY wanted to say space camp for my education. Really.
You should message me if
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Your values seem to match mine.