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42 • Orlando, FL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Mar 15
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay)
Originally from South Carolina, I grew up all over the US and Europe in an Army family. Went to university in South Carolina on an ROTC scholarship and spent a few more years in the Army in Germany. Stayed over there a couple years after finishing my service obligation before returning to the US.
Worked many years in the hospitality industry then moved into training and training support work the past few years. I like movies, reading, dancing and probably more hobbies than I really should have... never seem to have time for everything.
I guess I always need to be "doing" something. Doesn't mean I can't relax or goof off... but either my mind or body seems to need to be constantly occupied.
No kids... really prefer the Zen, relaxed behaviour of our cat.
Been in Orlando about five years now. It's grown on me. Didn't care for it at first but now I enjoy it alright. Probably be getting back to South Florida eventually. Lived there four years before Orlando and really enjoyed it.
Was never really a "team sport" guy growing up. I was never into basketball, football, baseball and such. I was a big fencer though. Started fencing as a kid in Heidelberg, Germany (very cool place to get started) and kept that up through college and when I was living in Berlin. Gradually moved out of sport fencing into historical fencing styles with heavier blades; rapier; rapier and dagger, cloak, buckler, etc. Afraid that pretty much dropped off after I returned to the states but might be fun to revisit it again in the future.
These days my "adrenalin outlet" revolves more around tactical training, military simulation and sci-fi/horror influenced airsoft events. Yeah... I'm still a big kid.
Blowing things up
Umberto Eco - Focault's Pendulum
Mark Danielewski - House of Leaves
Tom Clancy - Rainbow Six
Poppy Brite - Numerous Titles
HP Lovecraft - Numerous Titles
Big Trouble in Little China
NightWatch / DayWatch
V for Vendetta
Army of Darkness (groovy)
Goth / Dark Wave
60's Classic Rock
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