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TimJO

23 / M / gay / Single

Mesa, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am garrulous, oblivious, and charming.

My Self-Summary

Well, lets see. I'm a 5'11 Cancer (6 foot even on a good day)livin in Tempe. I have a broad and inclusive sense of humor. I like to laugh, eat, travel, and do nothing. Sometimes i enjoy a lil solitude, and other times i find it maddening. I can be brutally honest, and sensitive. I am secretly empathetic, but try not to show it so much. I dance when i drink and i sing when music plays. I love to relax or let loose. I can't stand people who can't let go a lil bit, or are to embarrassed to try something. life is only as fulfilling as you want it to be. I do drink from time to time, but usually not alone(i hear thats unhealthy---) I can be shy, and sometimes, thats for the best. BUT, once i have a lil attention i can be talkative--hell! i can usually be funny! I don't take to many things seriously and like to live in the moment(not that planning is beyond my grasp) I'm full of contradictions and a pretty,shinny, thing i call my personality.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm workin full time in an office. I hate it. I want to go back to school, and my friends are helping me find my motivation to do so. My life isn't centered around money(maybe just bult on top of it) but it is centered around happiness. I am definitely workin towards that.

I’m really good at

I am good at cooking. I actually went to school for it(slightly educated). I found myself disenchanted with the odd social hierarchy in the kitchen. I am good at making people laugh, and don't plan on loosing interest in that. I am also a good listener, AND a really good speaker(talker? lol). I'm also good at some video games and hopscotch, but no one ever seems interested in that. Go figure.

The first things people usually notice about me

probably my lips and my curly hair. I'm mixed (white poppa and black momma)and those are the only physical qualities i have to show for it. But before you see me, you'll hear me. My laugh is easily noticeable

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite book is still Z for Zechariah.

My Favorite movie is Resident Evil

My favorite music is either Indie Rock or Pop (depending on my mood it can be anything)

And My favorite food is almost anything thats put on my plate. :)

The six things I could never do without

laughter, my phone, my sister, my friends, cold breezes, and music!!!!!!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I think about my future a lot. My finances are a burden to my mind.
I also think how cool it would be to be a mad scientist, but i honestly don't have the resources to be both stark raving mad and a workaholic(they work 24/7 for evil! i need sitting round time)

On a typical Friday night I am

Either at a friends house for a few drinks and some dancing, or with a friend somewhere doing nothing. I find that even mundane things are far more exciting with someone else. Misery loves company and all that.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm developing this weird association between my best friends and the Denny's i go to WITH them. So far 3 friends have their own special Denny's----

You should message me if

you just want a chill guy to laugh with. I'm always interested in new friends, but if it leads to more, I'm down.