It seems my choices are limited to over achievers or those that expect me to be so they can live there fairly tale life. I am not going to be all the things your ex wasn't and when I don't it is not my fault for what has happened in your last relationship. I know you want the fairly tale and so do I but it is not realistic and only set's up disappointment.
Well ladies I wish you luck and hope that I am wrong and you do find the perfect man out there...... when you are done with him maybe we can start a religion since he will have to be perfect!
The real answer is just trying to be the best person I can be and be happy with myself!!
What was the other one........ ok i'm a guy do I have to say it?