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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19-30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jul 7, 2014
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Don't you just hate doing these? Here goes: I'm an enthusiastic, sensitive nerd, and proud of it! I'm a very open guy with a strong sense of justice. I studied philosophy and I like to express myself anyway I know how. I like being around people and sharing stories.

When I'm not trying to unburden myself of liberal guilt over sexism, colonialism or general lack of purpose and Good Works, I'm probably talking to someone, trying to inject crude humor or nerdy references into the conversation. Occasionally and sometimes intentionally raising profound questions. Sometimes I'm obsessed with a story, fictional or not, holed up in my room: filling in the blanks and geeking out, losing my cool over prejudice, or plot holes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just finished my Master's degree in philosophy and now I'm trying to become the best teacher I can be. In the meantime, I'm trying to keep busy. Other than that, I want to know myself, know others, and know how the world works, so I can be a better person. If at all possible, have fun while doing so.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading stuff, Writing stuff, Singing in private or in public, Acting goofy, Talking too much, Analyzing and Criticizing texts and ideas, remembering Useless Trivia, Playing Games

I bet I can make you laugh. And think. Yeah, pretty proud of that one. Yeah, that's me. Laughable and thought-provoking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very enthusiastic and passionate about things I like, and also about injustice. I also have a slight limp. Ask me why, don't be shy :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wow. Where to start? In general terms, I like dark and deep science fiction and fantasy. I like alternate worlds that inspire us to think about ours. I like grey areas. I like eloquence, irony and self-reference. I like it when prejudices are challenged and warped.

Books: His Dark Materials, Discworld, Harry Potter, Watchmen, American Gods, Orientalism, Brave New World, 1984, Philosophical Investigations, Alleen Maar Nette Mensen, Het zijn Net Mensen

Movies: American Beauty, Fight Club, Ghost in the Shell, Serenity, Aliens, District 9, Superbad, Judd Apatow, the Coen Brothers, Quentin Tarantino, Disney/Pixar, Grave of the Fireflies

Shows: Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, The Big Bang Theory, Glee, Modern Family, Dexter, Criminal Minds, Doctor Who, Torchwood, House M.D.

Music: Lady Gaga, the Beatles, Queen, Leonard Cohen Fiona Apple, Sufjan Stevens, Peter Fox, 16 Horsepower, Wallis Bird, Brown Feather Sparrow, My family.

Food: I'm not very adventurous when it comes to food. I like a good pasta, couscous or curry. So Asian and Mediterranean cooking covers it, although that's not saying much. Risotto is probably my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A temperature between -50 and 50 centigrade
A carbon-based ecosystem
A society of people sharing common interests
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics or Necessary Evil
Justice or How to stop Power from being Abused
Fiction or Worlds other than our Own
Games or Challenging Interactive Systems
Religion or How Reason can Coexist with Myth
Relationships or Why People Do what they Do
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as a typical Friday night :)

Studying, reading, playing videogames, watching tv or hanging out with friends, usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not very experienced when it comes to love or dating. Be gentle.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you have an open mind, a nerdy sense of humor, and an appetite for a good conversation about any topic. Also, don't bother if you're judgmental or insensitive.