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56 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 12:10pm
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other but it’s not important
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hi! I would like to meet positive, fun, interesting, unconventional men to go out with. I'm upbeat, happy with my life and not in a hurry for anything, but am open to what life has to offer on all levels. I love live music, travel, jazz clubs, concerts, dancing (Latin!), trying a new ethnic cuisine, the theater, wine tasting...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am living my dream career, enjoying my wonderful family and friends and planning my next travel adventures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing at myself.
Cooking and eating. I make a mean chili, among other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Isabel Allende, Barbara Kingsolver, James Michener, Sherman Alexie, Louise Erdrich. Historical Fiction. Paulo Coelho, Joseph Campbell,

The Red Violin, Fargo, LOTR Trilogy, Smoke Signals, Amelie, Independent & foreign films, comedy, Monty Python's The Life of Brian and The Holy Grail, What the Bleep, The Secret.

Orange is the New Black, Weeds, Mad Men, Six Feet Under, Saving Grace, Downtown Abbey, The Closer, Invader Zim, cooking shows, however haven't been watching much TV lately at all.

Theater! Small productions.

Jazz, Afro pop, reggae, Latin music, Brazilian music, Zydeco, 60s/70s rock (not necessarily in that order). I am currently completely obsessed with North African desert blues on Soundcloud.

Sushi, Ethiopian, Thai, Mexican (real), Tapas, Brazilian...
Random inventions in my kitchen or yours...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family & friends
Live music
A nice Malbec
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, love, travel, fun, health, abundance.
How to spend less time working.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, cooking or eating out, going to a show, dancing, Or staying in, hanging out with myself and playing my bass guitar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hug trees.
You should message me if
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you run outside of the herd.

you are open to meeting sooner rather than later if there is mutual interest. I'm not looking for pen pals.

You should not message me if:

you have poor oral hygiene (Jeez, I can't believe I actually need to say that but apparently I do).

you are *only* interested in a hook-up.