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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Apr 13
5' 6" (1.68m)
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Late blooming professional currently busy with grad school. I say late blooming, because I've obviously made some dubious career choices in the past; but hey, at least I can say I had a blast failing!
Still have a knack for getting into (and hopefully out of) trouble. No criminal record yet, so I guess that means I'm doing something right. Right?

I really have no idea how to 'sell' myself here, but I guess we should start with some interests.
I have a massive music and art addiction. My playlist is pretty eclectic. It ranges from Oldies but Goodies (Sinatra, Carpenters), to Classic Rock (Journey, Richard Marx) to Modern Rock (Oasis, Aerosmith) to Contemporary (Anberlin, Death Cab For Cutie), to Rap (Ludicrous, DMX, NAS).
Ah, yeah, I'm hardcore...
Lately, I've even started to listen to Country & Christian. Maybe it's just me getting sentimental, but there's something moving about song lyrics with meaning. And listening to Country and Christian stations also seem to make me drive slower, so... it's a win win!

Despite my affinity for the arts, I can't draw a straight line to save my life and seem to be a bit tone deaf. Needless to say, I've been "asked" to leave a karaoke place more than once (I worked in Asia. Don't judge). Apparently they didn't appreciate my rendition of "Living On A Prayer". Tasteless **stards...

Food and culture is an important facet of my life. I don't really get to do much travelling anymore, but road trips are still on my list. I even have a ready bag in my truck, just in case the whimsical urge for gallivanting strikes.
So needless to say, road trips to NYC and DC and perhaps a couple of other C's at Serendipity's will is always welcome. Getting there on time, is another matter though. I'm secure enough to admit that I have no sense of direction. But then getting lost is also part of the charm.

Trying new foods over great conversation is one of those things that never get tiring. There's really no better way to get to know a group of people than through cuisine.
Museums are a great ice breaker. Especially if you like people watching. People do the most questionable things when they think others aren't watching!

As to what I'm looking for, the simple answer is just someone with whom I can completely be myself.
Someone to be my Magellan on these unplanned road trips; just as long as you don't mind getting lost... often.
Someone willing to be silly and enjoy new experiences just for Gits & Shiggles, while being totally nonchalant about it. Someone with whom we can both learn and grow.
Easier said than done apparently.

I'm always open for new experiences and adventures. If you can't tell by now, I tend not to take things too seriously. Being goofy is a blessing. A bit of an adrenaline junkie at times, so I'll be that guy with a special ed smile on the zip line!
In terms of goals, I've got a mortgage, a good job, and great family. Just missing someone to put me in my place ;)

So if you're still reading at this point, we might just hit it off! Come on, take that first step. ^_^
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Career student. Always looking to challenge my mind and learn about new phenomena. Stable with car and home. Just need someone to share the path :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over analyzing situations. Not taking myself, or really anything too seriously. Having fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Um, my sexy almond eyes.
Usually how little filter I have. So if you can't take like you dish, we probably won't get along.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Middlesex. Danny, Champion Of The World. Robert Frost. Charles Baudelaire

TV/Movies: Mallrats. The Big Hit. Legends of The Fall (don't laugh!). Dexter. Criminal Minds. House. Bourne Trilogy. How I Met Your Mother. Discovery Channel. Fringe. Castle. Modern Family. The Family Guy. Dr Who.

Food: spicy foods, korean cuisine, seafood, italian, buttery french, indian, sweets
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & Fam!
New challenges
Great food!
A sense of curiosity
Comfortable undies
A full tank of gas! Never know where the wind will take you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to balance work/school. Theoretical physics, and why the hell I can't understand it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out, chilling, looking for some great food.
Exploring a new area or looking to bounce around at the trampoline gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There was a sniffle and a trickle during the last minutes of "Armaggeddon". Don't laugh, you know you did too!
You should message me if
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Enjoy asian food? :D

No, in all seriousness, if you're looking for good, honest conversations and have an open mind to see wherever that leads.