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TitaniumGrain

32 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:52pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I grew up with warm beaches and soul food, tempered myself with seven snowy winters, then moved to San Francisco, where the weather never changes. I miss the warm summers, but not the snowy winters.

I'm a sucker for new things. I form habits until something better comes along.

I'm well-traveled, and like to think of myself as well-rounded. I like being part of a good story.
What I’m doing with my life
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A few years ago, my New Year's resolution was to cook brunch for a group every weekend. I kept it up until about August. Last year, it was to travel to visit friends, and I got airline status for the first time in my life (barely).

This year, I'm biking like whoa -- almost every weekend, a 60-80 mile ride or a bike-camping trip somewhere within striking distance. It's amazing how much it's opened up the Bay Area to me, since I've never had a car here. This might be a hobby that sticks. (I hope so!)

Developing an appreciation for how cities (and especially San Francisco) become better for the people in them. Urbanism, especially as it relates to transit, bicycles, and parklets is really interesting.

I am more or less a Silicon Valley stereotype; I work for a former startup that makes both software and hardware, we got eaten by a much bigger company, but it's cool because they're leaving us mostly alone. I try to fight the stereotype by supporting tenants' rights in SF and being as feminist as possible.

Living forever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making decisions, not getting lost, bike commuting.

Technology in general.

Mille Bornes.

Coming in not-last-place.

I prize competence; "specialization is for insects." I enjoy being good at things and also learning new things to be good at. I like it when other people are good at lots of things too!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tell me I'm tall, although I've seen tall people, and I'm not them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My bed is held up by bookshelves. I read streetsblog almost every day. For fiction, I mostly read for escapism, and I tend to stick with authors I like. Some recent favorites: Charles Stross, Iain (M.) Banks, Walter Jon Williams.

I finally bought a new cartridge/needle for a record player I had lying around, and now I'm keeping an eye out for contemporary vinyl... The collection's up eight or nine now; the most recent addition was the new Jenny Owen Youngs.

Indian (well, Nepalese), and soul food (collards, okra, ribs) are my comfort cuisines. I will go out of my way for good Thai or a tasty banh mi. My tolerance for spicy food is far higher than it needs to be, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

The worst thing I ever ate was boiled prickly-pear cactus, which I actually couldn't force myself to chew long enough to swallow. It was like slimy milkweed-flavored green beans.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sight, sunlight (without which I am grumpy), places to explore, music, people. I used to be able to do without the Internet, until I started using it to remember things.

How many was that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I am going to bike next so as not to overlap with previous rides. Optimizing my life through careful selection of phone apps. How many slices of pie I can eat after a 6 hour ride.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Likely asleep so I can get an early start on Saturday. I'm apparently a morning person, and I like to go get scones and a coffee before the brunch crowd wakes up.

(I can be talked into staying up late for a good cause.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get judged a lot for watching Nic Cage movies.

I don't get annoyed at red lights or slow drivers, but I will totally make the hang-up-your-phone hand gesture at people in cars when I biking around.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Do you want to eat the most delicious soul food in the city? I know a place.

You want to ride bikes to the Cal Academy or Exploratorium.

You want to be weekend travel buddies.

You just want to hang out in a cafe on a nice afternoon and maybe watch some Archer after.