Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*New update: I've considered rewriting this as it may intimidate
most. However, every time I try I can't do it because this captures
me very well. So be it!*
I'm a native San Diegan and a die hard Charger fan. I grew up in a
small town in AZ that made me appreciate hiking and camping. I
enjoy a small town and the big city equally. I may seem very active
but can be lazy at times. I love to laugh but do not have humor for
thoughtless unintelligent jokes, especially racist or sexist or
heterosexist ones. It takes genuine talent to come up with real
ideas that don't perpetuate the current harmful status quo. I have
had enough relationships now to know there is alot I won't put up
with:-). With that said I'm looking for someone to build trust,
hang out and enjoy the better things life has to offer, even simple
things. I'm loyal to a fault and would have an amazing relationship
with a unique minded guy. I require a man who is feminist friendly.
Someone who isn't insecure with smart women, who doesnt think that
he has to be the toughest, the rudest or disrespectful. He believes
in compassion and equality. He doesn't change into a dbag when he
is around other guys.
I enjoy shooting guns! I grew up with them and love knowing how to
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I worked hard to get a degree in accounting and women's studies
from SDSU. I enjoy working and earning money but can not stand
sitting at a desk on a computer all day. Should of thought of that
beforehand! I am working on an escape plan from the 9-5 by building
my business in health, weight loss and sports performance. I
believe in helping people live healthier and have made it happen
with tons of people so far, whatever their goals.
That aside I focus on moving forward by trying to better myself
through learning. I have an inquisitive yet direct nature. I am
back in school to become a criminalist as finance is not my cup of
tea. Right now I do accounting full time and help people look
better and feel better part time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking my mind, playing pool, saving money, being cautious,
getting to the gym, dancing!! social learning, listening, math...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm smiling, I am outgoing and sometimes competitive, I am smart
and articulate well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sushi, Thai and a good salad are my favorites.
Books: The Gender Knot by Allen Johnson, The Beauty Myth by Naomi
Wolf, The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti, Poisonwood Bible by
Music: Miami Electro, Drum & Bass, Dubstep, Hip hop, Rock,
Booty bass. I love to rock out to Noisia, Kill the Noise, Nero,
Skrillex, Ghosts in the machine, Anthony Rother, Danny Tha
Wildchild, Kid Sister, Rocky Rivera, Kflay, Krewella, Basnectar,
Knife party.. you get it right? >=)
Shows include: Dexter, Walking dead, Breaking bad, The Mentalist,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family/ pets, night sky, education, feminism, working out,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How and why society is shaped the way it is, how ridiculous gender
roles/norms are, why other people can't see things for what they
really are (denial and blindness serve powerful roles), how I can
better myself, how I can get my career going faster and earn more
money to finance my activism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out dancing with my group of friends, usually girls. We are
drinking, socializing and Dancing! Seeing a movie with mom or
staying in to read or playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have anything to hide. Maybe that I am a feminist. I think
religion is a huge sham. I've come to realize that a guy I'm into
who truly knows and understands the complex concepts behind
feminism is one of the sexiest things I could ask for. He can't
just say he "gets it", he demonstrates it via his actions and
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're an open minded guy who supports an independent woman.
You support my right to make decisions about my own body
You truly know the meaning of misogyny and sexism and how they
function every day as a normal part of our lives (major
You aren't older than 35
You don't expect me to do all the cleaning and cooking
You like to go out to bars and clubs or your alright with me going
with my friends
You like animals/pets
Fair warning, If you message me about my boobs or body I
will not respond.
Who are you looking for?
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