I decided at the first of the year to try again. I did meet someone, same intent looking for a "Relationship" we seemed to have so much in common and dated for a couple of months.... the entire time she kept a profile and was looking every day for someone else. All of a sudden she tells me she let someone back in her life, that obviously didn't work out the first time. Either I am not just good enough for someone to be in a relationship with, which isnt true! Or I am an idiot to think that relationships should be monogamous, caring and supportive. I think it's cruel to someone like me that is actually looking for a relationship, that open's his heart when the woman's heart is shuttered and unaccepting. I'm more inclined to think that women on dating sites are just trying to feed their ego by how many guys think they are attractive. Most women on here won't even acknowledge an introductory email, the ones that do say mine was the only one they had received that was respectful and wasn't an invitation for sex.
So i have to change the way i am approaching this! I am not looking for anything serious, no commitment, just have fun!