Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd say I'm an explorer and curious learner of the world. I've got
some 30 qualifications (most non-academic) in a range of fields and
have had well over fifty jobs. Largely these have been in
performance/entertainment, construction and education
To name a few I have:
- Been in films and on TV.
- Taught meditation to kids from youth justice.
- Setup new years eve fireworks shows.
- Driven trucks around Victoria.
- Been a public speaker/facilitator.
What I like to laugh at:
The ironies of life. The simplicity of life.
My new years resolution for 2015:
After burning myself out last year I've taking a step back from
"goal setting" to live in the moment, be present to and honour my
needs and desires, and to honour invitations from people and the
I always found it interesting that we set goals but less than a
week later, still holding onto the old goals, we have become a
different person and new information has presented itself.
My preferred communication style:
At first I like to ask lots of questions.
I can often be rather up front at times but never in a harsh way;
always sincere, respectful and empathetic. I just call it if I see
it. This to me is all about self-expression and just saying it if I
feel it or see it. I believe too many people suppress what is under
the surface to their own detriment and so try to break the norm for
Further information for those who desire it, I'm a:
- Myers-Briggs type ENFP (which means I'm a laid back, social
leader type. I don't think extrovert describes me very well either
to be honest as I consider myself an ambivert more than anything
- Leo with Pisces rising sign (which means I'm confident like a Leo
but the Pisces makes me less arrogant, materialistic and more
- My languages of love are touch and quality time.
- Teal level (going on Turquoise) in Integral Theory...although
every now and again I "fall" down from not being conscious or
letting the fear of life get in the way. I'm also coming out of
stage four anima development right now.
- Human Design: A single definition, self-projected
- I'm an orange/yellow level creator in Wealth Dynamics.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My current career:
Working on buildings fixing and cleaning them. Usually from the
outside with ropes, tools and harnesses.
I also deliver lectures and seminars some evenings to various
places. This is what I love! Teaching people self awareness,
meditation, emotional intelligence and learning fast.
What keeps me up at night:
How can I teach to people that which they need the most but don't
have the resources around them to get AND likely don't even know to
ask for? Things like financial intelligence, anger management,
meditation and how to overcome procrastination.
My ideal career:
I think I'd really like to be involved in teaching, either doing it
myself or working with companies that do it, new methodologies of
learning to disadvantaged youth...although to be doing it to anyone
and everyone would be fantastic. I'd be doing this internationally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Bridging the gap between people and ideas. I believe that there
is always a better way, a solution to every problem because where
there's a will there's a way. When I do work with kids I love
- Doing things differently, being different, avoiding conformity
for social reasons and living a life of variety. I'm clear on what
I want 95% of the time and if not then I do the opposite of what
everyone else is doing. :)
- Observing the world and my thoughts.
- Writing about what I'm observing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm tall.
And my eyes...not sure why exactly but that's what people comment
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Ah yes, books! One might think looking at me that books are
meant to be accumulated but not read. The book shelves are nearly
over flowing...and I have several hundred books between three of
them! I prefer non-fiction, modern psychology, and books on
sexuality and personal and spiritual development.
Movies: I used to work in films so I do love a good action film
like Bad Boys 2, Transformers and Batman. My inner child loves it
when we watch comedies but particularly animated films like Finding
Nemo and Wall-E. I do like films like the Matrix, Inception,
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and Samsara because they
challenge you to think.
Hot Fuzz, Super Troopers, Snatch, Yes Man and Pay It Forward are on
the list too.
Shows: I don't watch any TV but do like to spoil myself with a bit
of theatre or comedy every now and again.
Music: My playlists are VERY broad. I use them to enhance or change
my moods. Get my fired up or calm me down. Rock, pop, OSTs,
electro-jazz can all be the theme songs to my life!
Food: Curious about vegan and vegetarianism and consider myself
about 80% vegetarian.
I avoid fake, overly marketed foods. I listen to my body and give
it what it needs but not what it wants. I'm quite proud of the
range of food I now eat compared to when i was a kid and also that
I have removed my addictions to some foods.
I also fast from time to time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Heartbeat and a brain (kind of obvious but hey common sense ain't
all that common either!)
- New people in my life to create awesomeness with each day.
- Eye contact and a smile. I love sharing a smile with
- The internet. It provides an unlimited supply of chaos and
discovery for me.
- The city. I've just moved closer to the city and love grabbing a
tram to anywhere in Victoria's biggest urban forest to grab a
smoothie with friends or go to a dance class or something with
people and culture.
- Stillness. I like to meditate and just disconnect from a majority
of the thoughts and feelings when they get too much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, the universe and everything! No topic is taboo. I have close
to 500 books, a couple of hundred (thought provoking) movies and
hundreds of gigabytes worth of audiobook, ebooks, media and many
other forms of entertainment. I love learning! but I think I
mentioned that already...
I've been exploring with friends over the last year spirituality,
politics, business, investing, veganism, relationships, tantra,
dancing, meditating, travel, exercise, fitness and many others.
Converse with me on any of these and you'll be my new best
The thing I think about the most though is how can I live each day
in such a way that it gives me the best memories and lessons to
take me forward in life. How I can have my cake and eat it too. I
look into the very near future and take little steps towards
getting my life to look the way I want it to every day.
I pity people who are stuck inside of belief systems and their own
barriers they've set. The book I'm writing is for these sorts of
people. I love breaking down my own barriers that hold me back or
that just don't seem to have a purpose for me anymore.
My greatest fear: that life will not have been any different on
this planet had I not been here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching a good movie, playing a few board games with friends or
socialising at a party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I watched all 38+ hours of bonus footage for the Matrix series
instead of studying during year 12 and am proud of the fact my
marks suffered for the good cause of following my dreams of getting
into film. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are the kind of women who:
- is curious
- is playful
- is confident with your sexuality.
- is sexy
- is feminine
- is clean (can be messy and chaotic but hygiene is a must!)
- is going places. Metaphorically or geographically.
- looks to do something different with your life.
- looks to learn something about yourself or the world
- loves exploring life and the endless possibilities it
- has bothered to put more than two lines of content in each info
box on your profile
- is open to chat about and share your opinion and experiences on
- you can snuggle like a pro!
A combination of three quarters of the above would be
Please do not message me if:
- you require validation on a daily basis.
- life scares you.
- if you are looking for "the one"
- you feel uncomfortable talking about certain topics.
- You allow the conversation to stagnate. I'm very happy to be the
male and lead/open the conversation, however, one or two sentence
answers (unless they are flirty, playful or provocative, stirring
along the conversation) can be draining.
Looking forward to our first shared smile! :)
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