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ToTheBestDayYet

25 M Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Apr 9
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
When I'm not at home writing my book, I'll be out doing something physical and quite possibly with kids. This is where my passions are at. Self-education and self-expression. I am currently searching for ways to assist others to do this in their own lives too.

I can be rather up front at times but never in a harsh way; always sincere, respectful and empathetic. I just call it if I see it. This to me is all about self-expression and just saying it if I feel it or see it. I believe too many people suppress what is under the surface to their own detriment.

I am currently dating other people off and on and consider this a long term decision as I'm not looking for any form of monogamy or commitment in the near future. I'm looking to share moments in my life with people who have similar or complimentary views on things, in order to offer me a shared experience and good times knowing they will get the same and more in return. That's how I roll. That's how I become my best self, by being absolutely present in the moment.

I love a good costume party! Don't know if that's obvious from my main photo. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
I love learning and teaching and so am currently writing a book on the topic, while developing a business around it to coach gifted kids on their passions. I also have a big interest in working with disadvantaged kids and kids with ADHD and various other psychiatrically given names, encouraging them to be themselves and express appropriately what is there for them inside.

I'd love to get to know you better. I'd love to know more about you.
Why do you get up in the morning?
What are your favourite moments in life and why?
What is it like to look into your eyes or hold your hand?
What makes you smile?
What makes you cry?
What cause would/are you giving your life too?
I’m really good at
- Bridging the gap between people and ideas. I believe that there is always a better way, a solution to every problem because where there's a will there's a way. When I do work with kids I love storytelling.
- Doing things differently, being different, avoiding conformity for social reasons and living a life of variety. I'm clear on what I want 95% of the time and if not then I do the opposite of what everyone else is doing. :)
- I enjoy reading people. Not in a creepy perverted sort of way, I just like connecting with people in various ways.
- Snuggling! Oops! My secret's out!
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm tall...but not in a domineering way. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I don't read much when it comes to fiction as I prefer to get into a good movie. I do have some 500 non-fiction books.

Movies: I used to work in films so I do love a good action film like Bad Boys 2, Transformers and Batman. My inner child loves it when we watch comedies but particularly animated films like Finding Nemo and Wall-E. I do like films like the Matrix, Inception, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and Samsara because they challenge you to think.
Hot Fuzz, Super Troopers, Snatch, Yes Man and Pay It Forward are on the list too.

Shows: Shows like The Gruen Transfer, Black Books, Big Bang Theory and Fawlty Towers have made me laugh in the past! I love a good stand up comedian: the animation of Stephen K Amos, the simplicity of Mitch Hedburg and the "hack the institution" attitude of George Carlin. I love an epic theatre production: just saw War Horse recently, Cats on Broadway and am super keen to see The Lion King when it comes around to Melbourne again this year!

Music: You might catch me listening to RHCP, Parov Stellar, Linkin Park, MJ & JJ, Dave Bruebeck, Ne-Yo, Beyonce, Jessie-J, ACDC, Sam Sparro, many OSTs for films. :) Depends on my mood...

Food: Curious about vegan and vegetarianism and consider myself about 80% vegetarian.
I avoid fake, preservative laced and fast foods like the plague and think that McDonalds is the devil for being in the Royal Children's Hospital.
The six things I could never do without
- Heartbeat and a brain (kind of obvious but hey common sense ain't all that common either!)

- New people in my life to create awesomeness with each day.

- Eye contact and a smile. I consider myself a pretty good reader of people and think that what a person chooses to look and then smile at says a lot about who they are. I love sharing a smile with people.

- The internet. It provides an unlimited supply of chaos and discovery for me.

- The city. I've just moved closer to the city and love grabbing a tram to anywhere in Victoria's biggest urban forest to grab a smoothie with friends or go to a dance class or something with people and culture.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, the universe and everything! No topic is taboo. I have close to 500 books, a couple of hundred (thought provoking) movies and hundreds of gigabytes worth of audiobook, ebooks, media and many other forms of entertainment. I love learning! but I think I mentioned that already...

I've been exploring with friends over the last year spirituality, politics, business, investing, veganism, relationships, tantra, dancing, meditating, travel, exercise, fitness and many others. Converse with me on any of these and you'll be my new best friend!

The thing I think about the most though is how can I live each day in such a way that it gives me the best memories and lessons to take me forward in life. How I can have my cake and eat it too. I look into the very near future and take little steps towards getting my life to look the way I want it to every day.

I pity people who are stuck inside of belief systems and their own barriers they've set. The book I'm writing is for these sorts of people. I love breaking down my own barriers that hold me back or that just don't seem to have a purpose for me anymore.

My greatest fear: that life will not have been any different on this planet had I not been here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being able to work from home means that I don't crave the weekends like your average 9-5er might. A Friday night might involve friends, training or just a little bit of light entertainment in front of the laptop, some sort of inspirational movie to make me smile or a film to make me laugh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I watched all 38+ hours of bonus footage for the Matrix series instead of studying during year 12 and am proud of the fact my marks suffered for the good cause of following my dreams. :)
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 19–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you are the kind of women who:
- is curious
- is playful
- is confidently flirty
- is sexy
- is feminine
- is clean (can be messy and chaotic but hygiene is a must!)
- is going places. Metaphorically or geographically.
- looks to do something different with your life.
- looks to learn something about yourself or the world everyday.
- loves exploring life and the endless possibilities it contains.
- has a positive opinion on bi-sexuality and/or polyamory
- knows what you want as a straight strong independent feminine woman.
- has bothered to put more than two lines of content in each info box on your profile
- is open to chat about and share your opinion and experiences on ANYTHING!
- you can snuggle like a pro!

A combination of three quarters of the above would be fantastic!

Please do not message me if:
- you require validation on a daily basis.
- life scares you.
- you are wanting to dive into commitment.
- you are looking for your perfect partner or someone to spend time with more than a couple of times per week.
- you feel uncomfortable talking about certain topics.
- You allow the conversation to stagnate. I'm very happy to be the male and lead/open the conversation, however, one or two sentence answers (unless they are flirty, playful or provocative, stirring along the conversation) can be draining.

Looking forward to our first shared smile! :)