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Toadflax

32 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:57am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
No. Let's talk about you first.

You are kind, sweet, and compassionate to all people.

You are happy whether out on the town, curled up with someone you love, hiking through some unknown woods, or studying your phrasebook at the airport.

You are intelligent and not afraid to show it.

You are passionate and chasing your dreams.

You are honest, communicative, and open-minded.

You are as ridiculously serious as you are seriously ridiculous.

Me? Sometimes all of the above, sometimes some of the above, sometimes the guy your mother warned you about.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, composing, singing, strumming, acting, thinking, beholding, striving, engaging, and socializing. Also dayjobbing to pay the bills.
I’m really good at
making people laugh, observing and analyzing, asking why, asking why not.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friend's exuberantly esoteric father once said, "you have a magnificent presence!" So... that, maybe?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pardon the very long list. I like making lists. Ask me the eight reasons why.

Music:

Nine Inch Nails, Leonard Cohen, Jeff Buckley, Richard McGraw, Radiohead, Thom Yorke, David Bowie, Pink Floyd, Roger Waters, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Puscifer, Porcupine Tree, The Beatles, The Doors, Sarah McLachlan, Tori Amos, Portishead, The Crystal Method, Saul Williams

Movies:

Fight Club, American Beauty, Labyrinth, American History X, High Fidelity, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Being John Malkovich, Seven, Lost Highway, A Clockwork Orange, Memento, Natural Born Killers, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Swingers, Annie Hall, The Matrix, Donnie Darko, The Boondock Saints, Up In The Air, Good Will Hunting, Equilibrium, The Lord Of The Rings, Pulp Fiction, Star Wars, The Big Lebowski, The Social Network, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World

Books/Plays:

Hamlet (William Shakespeare), King Lear (William Shakespeare), The Woods (David Mamet), Glengarry Glen Ross (David Mamet), Edmond (David Mamet), The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy (Douglas Adams), American Gods (Neil Gaiman), Good Omens (Neil Gaiman & Terry Prachett), Neverwhere (Neil Gaiman), Fight Club (Chuck Palahniuk), High Fidelity (Nick Hornby), The Crying Of Lot 49 (Thomas Pynchon), The Stranger (Albert Camus), Harry Potter (J.K. Rowling), The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle (Haruki Murakami), A Song of Ice and Fire (George R. R. Martin)

TV:

Breaking Bad, Sherlock, The Simpsons, Futurama, Family Guy, The Office (UK/US), Friends, Sports Night, Arrested Development, Peep Show, The Big Bang Theory, Fawlty Towers, QI, Spaced, Freaks & Geeks
The six things I could never do without
Music, friendship, love, the creative process, laughter, writing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the balance between things- as in, extremes are easy, the balance is the art. Also: eternal recurrence, ennui, existentialism, the meaning of it all, how I can't believe it's now already, what the hell is going on, getting there, beauty, and the end.
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends at bars, restaurants, clubs, houses, concerts, functions, rodeos and no, not rodeos. Otherwise, I'm at home enjoying solitude in the form of cooking a meal, mixing a drink, writing a song, reading a book, or having a staring contest with my dog.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wrote this a couple of years ago- a sort of meditation on the search for that perfect other half:

this one's for the captain,
buried out at sea,
and this one's for the angel,
covered in debris.
this one's for the poet,
however obsolete,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for the lovers,
melting soft and sweet,
and this one's for those others,
tangled up like meat.
this one's for the losers,
slouching down the street,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for the words i write,
for every "her" and "she,"
and this one's for the songs they bring,
so many incomplete.
this one's for my heart, so full,
though never thence replete,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for the forest,
ever easier to see,
and this one's for the pleading eyes
of every dying breed.
this one's for the world, strung up,
both capsulate and free,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for the hatred
lying still in you and me,
and this one's for compassion,
the left-adjacent seed.
this one's for the choice therin:
to dream, perchance to be,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for our father,
ah, the rumble in his speech,
and this one's for our mother,
her embrace so indiscreet.
this one's for the generation
under lock and key,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for the eve of life,
and those then still asleep,
and this one's for that future
we either fail or race to greet.
this one's for our little star,
descending silently,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.

this one's for the candlelight,
moving me to sleep,
and this one's for that emptiness,
my habitual retreat.
this one's for the man i'd like
one day to know as me,
and this one's for my baby,
whoever she may be.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you know all the words to the Elephant Love Medley from Moulin Rouge and want to bring the house down with me at karaoke night.

...or, you know, all that stuff I said at the top.