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50 M Redhill, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:50am
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A question for you ...

Have you ever woken up in bed, rolled over, looked at the man lying next to you and thought "Dear GOD! Why the HELL did I do THAT?"?


Fancy giving it a try ... :-D?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Other than the normal stuff of work and life in general, I'm writing a novel - a two volume "swords and sorcery" fantasy epic called "Playground of the Vain". Currently in draft.


Playground of the Vain is now drafted, and I've turned my attentions to drafting "The Green-Eyed Girl" which is about ... er ... a green-eyed girl (who just happens to be a bit of a dragon - I mean REALLY a dragon!)


The draft of The Green-Eyed Girl is now complete, and I'm turning my attention to drafting "Through the Rings" which is about which is about short-course dragon and runnat racing. These are different dragons to the ones in Green-Eyes above (horned or lowland dragons as opposed to crested or mountain dragons)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Shibari-style erotic rope bondage (I kid you not).

Hang on - should I really be blowing my own trumpet here? No ... just assume me to be a generally exceptionally talented guy ... ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh. My sense of humour - which has been variously described as everything from "idiosyncratic" to "bonkers". My smile. Once the toe of my left shoe - but that was because I'd got paint on it and it was bright yellow.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The Lord of the Rings (of course), Under Milk Wood by Dylan Thoman (OK - it's a "Play for Voices" but the language is so perfect, so lyrical, so exquisite that it takes your breath away - a work of genius) and Curious Pleasures, a gentleman's collection of beastliness (BUY IT, please! - available from Amazon - RIDICULOUSLY funny).

Movies - Lots, but notably The Lord of the Rings (again), Blazing Saddles, Shawshank Redemption (yes, I can be serious too), the St Trinians movies (the "old four" and the new one - the new one very different in style, as it should be, but has its own charm) ... and lots of others.

Music - If it's written by Beethoven, Mozart, Schubert, Bach or Liszt then it's likely to be liked ... in fact most classical music from 1750(ish) to the death of Puccini in 1924 - though not Gustav Mahler, never got on with him.

Food - Traditional English, Chinese, Italian ... well, I eat most things, really.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses - I'm as blind as a bat without them.

My dog - whoever said money can't buy love had never owned a dog. This has to be updated - Sophie, my dog, died in November 2011 of cancer of the spleen ... :( ... she will be VERY greatly missed.

My CD and DVD collection.

My car - I'd be lost without it.

The PC on which I'm writing this.

Oh, and I guess a complete list of my vital, internal organs should appear here somewhere.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Many things.

I find myself disturbed by what I see happening around me in this country.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working (unfortunately) - I work silly shift patterns.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a HUGE and VARIED collection of handcuffs.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a BDSM submissive girl in the South East of England, who is interested in shibari bondage, discipline play, master/slavegirl play, flogging, handcuffs, whips, forced and denied orgasm play, humiliation play and so on.