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48 M San Francisco, CA

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Last Online
Today – 7:26pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Russian

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just saw this hilarious poster at a gas station: "Smoking during re-fueling can help you quit... FOREVER!". Kind of funny.

Now let's get serious! Looks matter. Intelligence matter. Compatibility matter. I'd say 80% "click" + 20% work = strong relations. It's not chemistry, it's the mathematics stupid! :) [I just like when Bill Clinton said this, sorry].

Hey! If you are looking for a hook up, then please, PLEASE move on. Absolutely "friends first". If you are old enough to be my mother or young enough to be my daughter, it won't really work out. Trust me. It's science. If you live 1 to 2 hours away, it most likely won't work especially if your status says "causal, no commitment". Getting in my car is a commitment. If you email me, I don't respond and you email me again...but 4 times? It's creepy. And finally, no, I do not want to "exchange pictures" with you. Get a porn subscription.

One thing that makes me very conflicted about this "OKCupid" thing. What if a woman posts a group picture and I like the girl next to her. Do you see my dilemma here? Any suggestions?

Anyway! Can you pick one man and just be satisfied? Can you? Life moves quickly... do what you enjoy. If the pheromones are present we will look forward to each day with a smile!

"I believe that very few times in your life, if you are lucky, you might meet someone who is exactly right for you. Not because they are perfect, or because you are, but because your combined flaws are arranged in a way that allow two separate beings to hinge together." Is not love just being stupid together? :) What do you think?

Lastly. My cat typed all this, she has stolen all the quotes and is a shameless plagiary and... and I do not approve her message!

I just want to find someone who really likes me... not into chases, nor being hard to get either, just super comfort of being together. If this is kosher with you... I just want my life simple, safe and loving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it. Seriously!

Seriously considering benefits of being single (my cat just stole it from Yahoo, see below) or... going to dating site for seniors?:

Benefit #1: You have a better body
Benefit #2: You’re more likely to achieve great things in your career
Benefit #3: You do less housework
Benefit #4: You can do what you want with your money — including keep it
Benefit #5: You’re better rested and smarter than your married counterparts
Benefit #6: You’re less depressed
Reason #7: You have better friendships
Reason #8: Your solo travel tales are enviable
Reason #9: You know yourself — and what you want out of a relationship
Your single self is great... and should you find the right person and decide to marry, you’re more likely to thrive in that stage of your life, too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not finding that one woman... apparently :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
[replace "people" with "women" above] is that I am very affectionate (in due time... well, sometimes, perhaps a just moment before the due time)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Three Musketeers
Sherlock Holmes
Master & Margaret (you should read this one, yes you! :] )

"Dial M for Murder"
"Rear Window"

"Three Days of Condor"
"Spy Game"
"Ripley's Game"
"Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy"
"The Russia House"
"A Most Wanted Man"

George Clooney
Robert Downey, Jr
Ron Livingston
John Malkovich
Daniel Graig
Pierce Brosnan

Grace Kelly
Ashley Judd

Charles Aznavour, Michel Legrand, Antonio Carlo Jobim.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Breathing Air (clean preferably)
2. Drinking Water
3. Having Food 2 times a day and snack occasionally
4. Using restroom now and then
5. Sleep 8 hours
6. Being adored
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I do think that any good relations require emotional... maintenance, affection. Say a hug for no reason, or a kiss between Whole Foods shelves? Or frolic on the beach? Physical bond and constant need to touch makes them ... reliable? (It does not feel right using term... long-term, not sure why).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, whatever the form.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I like your picture, but out of your target age range, then I will not contact you. I respect your rules...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you never met a good mensch and think that you are able to love a man. If It helps if you are giggly and pretty. If you are tall, I promise not to hold this against you. And I was known to keep my word.