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The what kind of scientist are you quiz

So my final result was: Sociologist! The title pretty much describes it. You are a master of describing the interactions between people and the extent to which these interactions contribute to societies. Just try not to spend too much time distributing surveys. You might also be a bit more of an Anthropologist or Archeologist
So if anyone has any doubts as to why I'm in school doing what I'm doing, there you have it! Do I know me or what!!!!

So my final result was: Sociologist! The title pretty muchdescribes it. You are a master of describing the interactionsbetween people and the extent to which these interactionscontribute to societies. Just try not to spend too much timedistributing surveys. You might also be a bit more of anAnthropologist or Archeologist
So if anyone has any doubts as to why I'm in school doing what I'mdoing, there you have it! Do I know me or what!!!!

The what kind of scientist are you quiz

A true story.....

A buddy on this site suggested I post this after sharing it with him. So here it is for your entertainment:

Worked for a gov't agency a few years back, like Social Security, Labor and Industry and Unemployment all rolled into one for railroad workers.

(phone rings)
Mary: May I help you
Man: yes I need to file for a disability
Mary: okay, I'm going to put you on hold while I get the paperwork

(another line rings)
Jeff: May I help you
Lady: yes I need to report my husband has died
Jeff: okay, let me put you hold for just a minute while I get the paperwork

(Mary gets back to her desk and picks up her phone)
Mary: So now what areas of the body are most affected?
Lady (hysterical): All!

Mary: excuse me I'm sorry, I picked up the wrong line, please hold for jeff (clicks hold button and burst out laughing, unable to anser calls for 30 minutes!)

Jeff (picking up his phone): When did the death occur?
Man (confused): I'm not dead yet,almost. they did give me 6 months....
Jeff: I'm so sorry, I picked up the wrong line, please hold (clicks hold button and sits in stunned silence. rest of office out of commission for quite awhile.)
A buddy on this site suggested I post this after sharing it withhim. So here it is for your entertainment:

Worked for a gov't agency a few years back, like Social Security,Labor and Industry and Unemployment all rolled into one forrailroad workers.

(phone rings)
Mary: May I help you
Man: yes I need to file for a disability
Mary: okay, I'm going to put you on hold while I get thepaperwork

(another line rings)
Jeff: May I help you
Lady: yes I need to report my husband has died
Jeff: okay, let me put you hold for just a minute while I get thepaperwork

(Mary gets back to her desk and picks up her phone)
Mary: So now what areas of the body are most affected?
Lady (hysterical): All!

Mary: excuse me I'm sorry, I picked up the wrong line, please holdfor jeff (clicks hold button and burst out laughing, unable toanser calls for 30 minutes!)

Jeff (picking up his phone): When did the death occur?
Man (confused): I'm not dead yet,almost. they did give me 6months....
Jeff: I'm so sorry, I picked up the wrong line, please hold (clickshold button and sits in stunned silence. rest of office out ofcommission for quite awhile.)
A true story.....

I just found out.....but did you know that.....

April is Autism Awareness, International Guitar, Keep America Beautiful, National Child Abuse Prevention, National Frog, National Garden, National Humor, National Mathematics Education, National Poetry, and Stress Awareness Month?

Having grandchildren is useful in a plethora of ways! Now lets everyone go get out there and: party, demonstrate, celebrate, activate....or whatever else one might do during that particular time of this month that appeals to you.

April is Autism Awareness, International Guitar, Keep AmericaBeautiful, National Child Abuse Prevention, National Frog, NationalGarden, National Humor, National Mathematics Education, NationalPoetry, and Stress Awareness Month?

Having grandchildren is useful in a plethora of ways! Now letseveryone go get out there and: party, demonstrate, celebrate,activate....or whatever else one might do during that particulartime of this month that appeals to you.

I just found out.....but did you know that.....

Pahleeeeez help me with this....

Can someone explain the whole "Match, Friend, Enemy" thingy?! Is it usable? And if so how? And personally I find the "Enemy" thing a little bit disconcerting. I like to think think I don't have enemies, just people who are really jeolous of my wonderful good looks, exceptional intelligence, and phenomenal personality! but enemies? please,can't we just all get along?

Update: You think I'm kidding? I really need this explained to me so I understand what I'm looking at and for.....
Can someone explain the whole "Match, Friend, Enemy" thingy?! Is itusable? And if so how? And personally I find the "Enemy" thing alittle bit disconcerting. I like to think think I don't haveenemies, just people who are really jeolous of my wonderful goodlooks, exceptional intelligence, and phenomenal personality! butenemies? please,can't we just all get along?

Update: You think I'm kidding? I really need this explained to meso I understand what I'm looking at and for.....
Pahleeeeez help me with this....

Nymphomaniac....

Please would someone tell me where in my profile I acknowledge this or even allude to this so that I might clear this misconception up. I think my profile is rather "G" rated or at the very most "PG" for adult content but no nudity or strong language. And yet there are those confused by my message. How can this be? Is my beauty such that I am driving these men to distraction? Well then, if this be the case then I suppose I should be flattered. Or perhaps I am losing my sense of humor and there is something here that I am missing. Do tell! I pride myself on my sense of humor, so if I am falling short I'd appreciate a heads up so I might remedy the situation.
Please would someone tell me where in my profile I acknowledge thisor even allude to this so that I might clear this misconception up.I think my profile is rather "G" rated or at the very most "PG" foradult content but no nudity or strong language. And yet there arethose confused by my message. How can this be? Is my beauty suchthat I am driving these men to distraction? Well then, if this bethe case then I suppose I should be flattered. Or perhaps I amlosing my sense of humor and there is something here that I ammissing. Do tell! I pride myself on my sense of humor, so if I amfalling short I'd appreciate a heads up so I might remedy thesituation.
Nymphomaniac....

I feel so out of my league here....

Everyone is sooo attractive; intelligent; emotionally/ financially secure;stable.....they have everything going for themselves. I feel so, so ordinary. I'm thinking that if they have everything, what does ordinary me have to offer? Some reality checks are deffinately in order here. When I get up in the morning and head to the mirror, and yup still the same...okay looking but nothing special. I mean small children do not run screaming from me when they see me but I haven't won any beauty contests during my long life. Am I the only one????
Everyone is sooo attractive; intelligent; emotionally/ financiallysecure;stable.....they have everything going for themselves. I feelso, so ordinary. I'm thinking that if they have everything, whatdoes ordinary me have to offer? Some reality checks are deffinatelyin order here. When I get up in the morning and head to the mirror,and yup still the same...okay looking but nothing special. I meansmall children do not run screaming from me when they see me but Ihaven't won any beauty contests during my long life. Am I the onlyone????
I feel so out of my league here....

No longer the new kid on the block....

Well the contacts are down to a dull roar, few and far between. I'm old meat, I mean old news, opps. LOL No seriously, isn't it intersting? When you first join (of course this is from the female perspective I apologize to my male counterparts who, if they don't have a great physique or a superior profile can not relate to this) you are inundated with responses, winks, woo's whatever and then nothing. You come to the site with bated breath expecting a mail box filled with inquiries and unreguitted love. But nothing. Empty. Old mail. Sigh! Not so good for the old ego is it. But, then again, what am I waiting for? Absolutely nothing, say it again! I boldly go where no man (god I hope not) has gone before and do the contacting. My understanding is that some men (at least this is what I'm told) actually like aggressive women. Well we shall see. Updates to follow
Well the contacts are down to a dull roar, few and far between. I'mold meat, I mean old news, opps. LOL No seriously, isn't itintersting? When you first join (of course this is from the femaleperspective I apologize to my male counterparts who, if they don'thave a great physique or a superior profile can not relate to this)you are inundated with responses, winks, woo's whatever and thennothing. You come to the site with bated breath expecting a mailbox filled with inquiries and unreguitted love. But nothing. Empty.Old mail. Sigh! Not so good for the old ego is it. But, then again,what am I waiting for? Absolutely nothing, say it again! I boldlygo where no man (god I hope not) has gone before and do thecontacting. My understanding is that some men (at least this iswhat I'm told) actually like aggressive women. Well we shall see.Updates to follow
No longer the new kid on the block....

First date accomplished and

more offers rolling in. Life is interesting. The church date turned out just fine, pleasant actually and dinner at an Ethiopian resteraunt aftewards was phenomenal! I was asked to accompany a gentleman on a vacation up north to the Gettysburg area. If it weren't for school and missing my favorite class I would have taken him up on it. I'm rather adventerous that way. Things are deffinately looking up. Am having such a good time right now, I text my X and thanked him for up and leaving. If he hadn't I would not have met the interesting people I have met thus far. And the beat goes on.....
more offers rolling in. Life is interesting. The church date turnedout just fine, pleasant actually and dinner at an Ethiopianresteraunt aftewards was phenomenal! I was asked to accompany agentleman on a vacation up north to the Gettysburg area. If itweren't for school and missing my favorite class I would have takenhim up on it. I'm rather adventerous that way. Things aredeffinately looking up. Am having such a good time right now, Itext my X and thanked him for up and leaving. If he hadn't I wouldnot have met the interesting people I have met thus far. And thebeat goes on.....
First date accomplished and

First date from this site...

and because of our scheduals Sunday is the only viable day. But he goes to church on Sunday, so he has invited me to go (must be national save the heathen week if I'm going to church!) with dinner afterwards. How much safer can a date get?! Though he's not wicked religious or anything, not bible thumping. Hey why not, a new experience. And actually it's kind of cool that he would want to share that with me, I mean there will be people there who know him and he's bringing me along so they'll meet me. Should be interesting!
and because of our scheduals Sunday is the only viable day. But hegoes to church on Sunday, so he has invited me to go (must benational save the heathen week if I'm going to church!) with dinnerafterwards. How much safer can a date get?! Though he's not wickedreligious or anything, not bible thumping. Hey why not, a newexperience. And actually it's kind of cool that he would want toshare that with me, I mean there will be people there who know himand he's bringing me along so they'll meet me. Should beinteresting!
First date from this site...

Today is the third day of the rest of my life.....

Single again. Boy was my radar off on this one or he was just a really good actor. It hurt worse than usual this time, maybe getting softer in my old age. LOL. And so I move on. Can only do what I can do. Can't hate cuz shit happens doesn't it. Like our family motto says "we always land on our feet" and land on my feet I have and I keep moving in a positive direction, no looks back, no regrets. Onward and upward. Looking forward to what life brings to me now, what interesting people I will be meeting. How very exciting.

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Single again. Boy was my radar off on this one or he was just areally good actor. It hurt worse than usual this time, maybegetting softer in my old age. LOL. And so I move on. Can only dowhat I can do. Can't hate cuz shit happens doesn't it. Like ourfamily motto says "we always land on our feet" and land on my feetI have and I keep moving in a positive direction, no looks back, noregrets. Onward and upward. Looking forward to what life brings tome now, what interesting people I will be meeting. How veryexciting.
Today is the third day of the rest of my life.....
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