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30 Birmingham, AL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
My self-summary
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***I'm not new to the site but thought my previous profile was a little dated and it would be better to just start fresh***

Hi! My name is Tom and I'm 30, I was born and raised in good ole sweet home Alabama. When I was 22 I moved to upstate New York and resided there for almost 7 years. It was an amazing experience and taught me a lot about myself and what kind of person I was and wanted to be. It also presented me with what's now my career path... so I'm eternally grateful for the experience and everything that came with it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at an area hospital as a patient care advocate( it's a mix of social work, crisis intervention and good ole fashion tough love) within the adolescent psych unit. I love what I do and being able to be a positive influence on young people makes it all the more rewarding and enjoyable.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmmm... a lot of people say that they are good listeners well you can throw me into that category as well. I've had a lot of experience and training in active listening and problem solving. I rarely never lose my temper and have a surplus of patience lol
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I have a very warm presence and easy talk to. I get told fairly often " I feel like I've known you forever"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm pretty much an open book on this, I enjoy reading, listening or watching most anything. So if you have a personal favorite on any of these please share :-)

Stephen King, Neil Gaiman, C.S Lewis

Lost, workaholics, breaking bad, walking dead, shameless, eastbound & down, carnivàle, American Horror Story, trailer park boys

The Goonies
Step brothers
Great outdoors
Harry and the Henderson's
Requiem for a dream
To kill a mocking bird
The outsiders
Nightmare on elm street
American Psycho
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well my family is important and outside of the essentials air, water and food. Companionship is also important but to limit it to 6 IMPOSSIBLE
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh man it goes from one end of the spectrum to the other
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working, catching up on shows our exploring the city
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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El oh el
You should message me if
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You love the Goonies and want to watch YouTube hilarity with me... lets get weird