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TomHaley

32 M Dallas, TX

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:40pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Okay), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like philosophy, literature, poetry, classical and country music, debating, helping, laughing, art, wine and scotch, woodworking, motorcycles, walking, swimming, playing bar games (especially air hockey). I value loyalty and honesty. I still believe in both Saints and Heroes. I like good dinners, and love taco stands, and snow cones. I roll my own smokes and make my own pipes (for brown leaves, not green leaves); I climb trees a lot--I only started doing that in my twenties. I look like a Viking or a mountain man (so people mutter as they walk past). I have a robust understanding of culture, and I want more of it. I am observant and I like to pay attention, mostly to people and ideas. I think a lot--but there are times when I don't think, and those are great. I pray sometimes; I believe in God, and old-fashioned things like the Western Canon. Saint Augustine is my Patron Saint--as if he didn't have enough to do already. I listen to poets before I listen to philosophers.
What I’m doing with my life
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"I once saw the Lords of Heaven grow visibly furious with me when I tried to be something instead of to learn." -Holderlin

I am simultaneously learning (or trying to learn) how to read, translate, write, teach, edit, build, manage, follow, lead, serve, and love.

I work in communications for a non-profit, and as a freelance writer, sometimes in politics; and manage a nascent arts non-profit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling people what they need to hear--in a good way. I'm also a good cook. And I teach well. I'm also a pretty good writer. And I build things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big red beard, long blonde hair. Or, if they don't see me first: my laugh (I get requests to be Santa Claus).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Pindar, Rilke, Holderlin, Jeffers, Hopkins, Herbert, Donne, Dostoevsky, Tolstoy, Dumas, Faulkner, Flannery, Norman Maclean, Aristotle, Plato, Augustine, Goethe, Hegel, Nietzsche, Edith Stein, Bernard Lonergan, Eric Voegelin, Karl Rahner, Henri de Lubac, Ratzinger, Sigrid Undset, Victor Hugo, Dietrich von Hildebrand.

Classical Music: Brahms, Schubert, Mozart, Bach, Beethoven, Wagner, Gorecki, Shostakovich, Penderecki, Rachmaninov, Palestrina, DuFay.

Other Music: Dylan, Mingus, Jason Boland, Hayes Carll, Wille Nelson, Waylon Jennings, Robert Earl Keen, Billy Joe Shaver, Otis Redding, Donnie McClurkin. Renee Fleming, Jessye Norman.

Plays: Aeschylus, Shakespeare, Miller, Guirgis.

Musicals: Rent. (yep, that category is only here for Rent)

Shows: Arrested Development, Slings & Arrows.

Movies: I don't watch a lot of movies. I think the best one is On the Waterfront. But I also really like Purple Rain.

Food: Tacos, Cheese, Cajun, Middle-Eastern, basically everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Sacraments
2. Music
3. Books
4. Trees
5. Wine/Whiskey
6. Tobacco
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lots of things. But generally: God, Art, Essences, Nature, Human Nature, Love, Beauty, Truth, Service.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a play or symphony, or reading at home or at the bar, or hanging out at the coffeeshop. Or maybe playing air hockey.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have an okcupid profile.
You should message me if
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You were anticipating my answer to that question.